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preface
When you die, who do you want to see and who do you not want to see?
For Anita Mui, who was lying on the hospital bed, there were two people she didn't want to see even before she died.
They are all inextricably linked with Anita Mui's life, and whether it is pain or warmth, Anita Mui is unforgettable and unforgettable until death.
Who are they, and why can't they see her for the last time until Anita Mui's death? What kind of story do they have with Anita Mui that will make Anita Mui so worried?
The love of your life
The first person was Zhao Wenzhuo.
Even though she is 9 years older than Zhao Wenzhuo, she is still willing to declare loudly to everyone in public, "If there is an afterlife, I will marry him (Zhao Wenzhuo)." ”
And the relationship between them has also made countless fans crazy about it, and many of Anita Mui's loyal fans are very touched by the tacit understanding of the two, and happily feel, "Xian Gu has found true love." ”
At Anita Mui's funeral, Zhao Wenzhuo also appeared at the scene with a solemn expression, and he couldn't hide the tears in the corners of his eyes when he wore sunglasses.
And he also left a "love of this life, go all the way." "Eight big words, countless people regret it.
But their feelings were taken to the grave by Anita Mui in this way, and there was no perfect result.
What happened between them? Why is she reluctant to see the man she loves the most in her life before she dies?
The two of them met at a party held by Leslie Cheung, and as Anita Mui's "good brother" Leslie Cheung, he introduced the fledgling Zhao Wenzhuo to Anita Mui.
Because he has learned martial arts since childhood, Zhao Wenzhuo has a deep knowledge of martial arts, and the two have a good conversation about it, and Anita Mui also recognized his martial arts talent very much, and took the initiative to hire her to direct her film moves.
After frequent contact, the two were deeply attracted to each other, and a different kind of affection also grew between the two, far exceeding the ordinary teacher-student relationship.
So, without taking into account the age gap of the two for 9 years and the world difference in their status in the entertainment industry, they officially dated and began a sweet love time.
Although the relationship between the two is very glue-like, it cannot withstand the criticism and ridicule of the Hong Kong media.
Many people think that Zhao Wenzhuo borrowed Anita Mui to ascend to the throne.
There are also many people who think that their feelings are not sincere and are all calculating.
Some people even called him a "soft rice man" in front of Zhao Wenzhuo, which not only made Zhao Wenzhuo very embarrassed, but also caused Anita Mui's great dissatisfaction.
Under such a public opinion environment, Zhao Wenzhuo's career has collapsed, and he is often dissatisfied under the influence of public opinion.
Even though Anita Mui has come forward many times to clarify the relationship between the two of them, it still doesn't help, after all, the media only want the content and don't care about the truth.
And the two of them have also bred a lot of dissatisfaction in this environment, although Zhao Wenzhuo and Anita Mui have their own judgment on feelings in their hearts, but they still can't withstand the bombardment of the outside world.
There are more and more contradictions, even if they have all met their parents and agreed to get married in the future, they still inevitably come to the situation of breaking up.
Later, when talking about this relationship, Anita Mui said that she missed Zhao Wenzhuo every day, but there was no result.
When she was seriously ill and bedridden, her face was no longer what she used to be, and she even became very haggard and ugly because of the torture of the disease.
She is unwilling to destroy her beautiful image in Zhao Wenzhuo's heart, even if she thinks about him again, she is unwilling to let him see it.
And Zhao Wenzhuo also felt an inexplicable chill on the plane on the night Anita Mui died, and even covering two blankets did not help.
Perhaps this is the telepathy between the two.
Cut the table angrily
The other person is Anita Mui's former good sister Wu Junru.
On the occasion of Anita Mui's death, even though Wu Junru wanted to visit many times, she was turned away.
Because she will never forgive Wu Junru for the harm she once made to her in her life.
The two met while filming "Spring River Flower and Moon Night" in 1984.
Despite the huge disparity in status between the two, Anita Mui takes great care of this "sister" who debuted at the same time as herself.
And Wu Junru and her attitude of saying nothing also made this Hong Kong big sister feel the warmth that friendship brought her.
Similarly, Wu Junru is also facing being ridiculed by the media for hyping herself through her friendship with Anita Mui.
But in this regard, Wu Junru was very puzzled, began to distance herself and away from Anita Mui, and in public, she would even say something derogatory to the other party to "clear the relationship".
Anita Mui was very distressed about this, but she knew that Wu Junru's pain made her helpless, so she didn't have much to say.
Time came to 2001, the movie "Love Jun Like a Dream" was a movie that Wu Junru invited Anita Mui to star, but in the end, Anita Mui's role was deleted.
This is inseparable from Wu Junru, because she is afraid that her limelight will be robbed.
As soon as this matter was exposed, Anita Mui was very angry and drew a line with Wu Junru.
The friend who had worked so hard to help did this kind of backstabbing thing, Anita Mui couldn't accept it, and she was determined never to forgive her.
Twists and turns to fame
Looking back on Anita Mui's life, although she became famous at a young age and her musical talent impressed everyone, the lack of care and love also made her look at these emotional matters so solemnly in the days to come.
She was born at the bottom and was forced to go out to sell singing and working since she was a child.
With her outstanding singing talent, she did rely on singing to successfully supplement her family, but she also dropped out of school, and her education remained only at the elementary school level.
In 1982, she successfully won the rookie singing competition held by TVB, and then signed with Huaxing Records and successfully debuted.
In 1983, she released her solo album "Red Anita Mui", and in 1985, she opened 15 solo concerts a year.
Then she also became "the most female singer in the world's Chinese solo concerts".
She worked so hard, constantly cashing in her talent in the entertainment industry, and then brought her talent to the film and television industry, winning the film queen four times, which can be described as a hand-to-hand.
Throughout her career, countless up-and-comers have been promoted by her, simply because she has long been accustomed to caring for others after a difficult childhood.
Even when she learned that she was terminally ill, she chose to open her "farewell concert" for the first time, saying goodbye to her fans and the music she loved all her life with a wedding dress.
epilogue
In the context of the entertainment industry, sincere feelings are precious, and Anita Mui's reaction after setbacks is also very real.
She is very cautious about the object of her love, and she is not merciless about the friends who have hurt her.
Now that she has left us, we can only silently wish her no more sickness in heaven and can live in all the kindness of her love.