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"Why divorce? Am I not doing well enough? ”
"No, you're doing a great job!"
"Am I not earning enough?"
"No, a lot!"
In 1986, 28-year-old Yu Rongguang and 26-year-old Wang Yuling met and fell in love, and their marriage lasted for 35 years, and the outside world has always believed that they are a model couple in the entertainment industry.
However, the undercurrent under the calm water swelled, and 35 years later, Wang Yuling suddenly filed for divorce, asking for the division of 50 million property, and Yu Rongguang was cornered and could only accept this result helplessly.
What exactly caused this seemingly perfect marriage to break down? What is the cruel truth hidden behind the appearance of beauty?
Yu Rongguang: From the Peking Opera stage to the screen
Yu Rongguang was born in 1958 in a Peking Opera family, his father Yu Mingkui is a famous Peking Opera performance artist, Yu Rongguang was strictly trained by his father for Peking Opera since he was a child, and was admitted to the Beijing Fenglei Peking Opera Troupe at the age of 11.
Wusheng needs a lot of physical training, Yu Rongguang has suffered a lot, every morning to carry out the training of cumbersome movements such as leg pressing, squatting, stretching, etc., coupled with the hanging voice training when singing, it is too hard for a child, but with the encouragement of his father, Yu Rongguang persevered.
In 1982, 24-year-old Yu Rongguang met director Xu Xiaoming and was selected as the leading actor in the movie "Kapok Robe" directed by him, and became famous overnight, which also opened the way for Yu Rongguang to become a film actor from the Peking Opera industry.
During the filming of "Kapok Cassock", Yu Rongguang once wanted to give up, because he did not adapt to the environment of Hong Kong and had physical problems. During his stay in Hong Kong, Yu Rongguang often had diarrhea and needed to take many medicines every day to barely continue shooting. At the same time, Yu Rongguang in "Kapok Robe" needs to complete a large number of fighting moves, all of which are completed in person.
After the filming, Yu Rongguang left countless scars on his body, and these hardships once gave him the idea of quitting the entertainment industry. But with the encouragement of his father, Yu Rongguang continued to persevere, and after that, Yu Rongguang starred in dozens of works and gradually became a first-line actor.
When Yu Rongguang was a child, he was not able to play carefree like ordinary children, but lived a rigorous training life, but despite this, with the support of his father, he persevered and stepped step by step from the Peking Opera stage to the screen.
Seeing that their son had already established a business, the old couple immediately shifted their focus to their son's family, but could the result satisfy them?
Gu family good man Yu Rongguang's ordinary happy marriage
Yu Rongguang's parents taught him to be a responsible man and love his family since he was a child, and Yu Rongguang has always kept his parents' teachings in mind and strived to become a good man who cares for the family.
One spring in 1985, when the azaleas in Beijing were in full bloom, the 27-year-old Yu Rongguang finally had to solve his life's event. Parents hope that their son can marry a considerate and generous Beijing girl who can get along with her husband and children.
A relative deliberately introduced a niece to Yu Rongguang, saying that this girl was well-behaved and capable, gentle-looking, and must be very suitable for Rongguang, and Yu Rongguang's parents hurriedly informed their son of the happy news.
That night, Yu Rongguang put down the script in his hand and came to his parents, who held the photo of this girl in both hands and said: "Son, look at this girl, her appearance is stable, her temperament is elegant, she will definitely be a good wife and mother, you must be very suitable, hurry up and meet her." ”
Yu Rongguang took the photo, which was a black-and-white photo of Wang Yuling wearing a white shirt. Wang Yuling in the photo has clear eyebrows, gentle and restrained eyes, giving people a quiet and dignified feeling. Yu Rongguang smiled slightly and said to his parents: "You are right, I am very satisfied with this girl." ”
The next day, Yu Rongguang asked Wang Yuling to meet at a teahouse at the front door. The two fell in love at first sight, Wang Yuling is two years younger than Yu Rongguang, is also an old Beijinger, gentle and introverted, works in a state-owned enterprise unit, his parents are in the system, and his family is well-off.
Wang Yuling likes to read and write, usually likes to sit quietly by the window alone to drink tea and read, and does not like to socialize. And the lively and cheerful Yu Rongguang brought joy to her life as soon as she appeared, and the two gradually explored many common languages.
Three months later, Yu Rongguang and Wang Yuling officially confirmed their relationship, and a year later, the two registered their marriage, and Wang Yuling also quit her job to concentrate on her husband and son. In his life after marriage, Yu Rongguang was considerate of Wang Yuling, as long as he did not go out to film, he took over all the housework at home and never let Wang Yuling do it.
Every morning, Yu Rongguang would get up and help Wang Yuling prepare warm soy milk and buns, and then personally cook a hearty breakfast for the whole family. Wang Yuling was initially worried that this arrangement would be gossiped about by outsiders, until her parents came to visit her home next time, and she finally felt at ease.
It turns out that the Yu family has always been like this, men should take on housework, and Yu Rongguang's parents also love Wang Yuling very much, making her feel that she has found a good home.
During the filming of the movie, Yu Rongguang cooperated with many beautiful actresses, but there was never any scandal, and all his income was handed over to his wife, leaving no private money. Wang Yuling will also often visit her husband in the crew, often prepare some small rice balls, fruits and clothes for him, quietly wait for Yu Rongguang to finish work, and then go home arm in arm.
Yu Rongguang fulfilled his promise to Wang Yuling with actions: I only love you one in this life. Over the years, the married life of the two has been plain but warm, making everyone around envious.
But in order for his wife to live a better life, Yu Rongguang began to work desperately and crazy, but what he didn't expect was that it was his hard work that eventually led to the end of the marriage he had worked hard to protect, why?
Neglecting family for career, fighting brilliant and lonely life
After marriage, Yu Rongguang's career flourished, starring in many popular movies and TV series, and became a first-line star. Wang Yuling adheres to tradition, gives up her job, and wholeheartedly loves her husband and children, and takes care of her family.
The two have a deep relationship, have a son after marriage, and after Yu Rongguang's career is successful, all the income is handed over to Wang Yuling to take care of the family, and he does not take a penny, living a simple and thrifty life.
Since entering the industry, Yu Rongguang has maintained a high standard of professional ethics, never had any scandals, he regards work as life, participated in countless movies and TV series, Wang Yuling expressed understanding and support, silently shouldered almost all family responsibilities.
In the 90s, it was the golden age of Hong Kong action movies, when investors were enthusiastic about any action film project, and the funds flowed like flowing water, and Yu Rongguang quickly became a popular student with his excellent martial arts style.
He traveled outside 270 days a year, made more than 50 movies, and worked with A-list stars such as Lin Qingxia and Wang Zuxian. Wang Yuling, his wife at home, took care of the family alone, and she became pregnant shortly after marriage, but her husband could not accompany her because of work.
Wang Yuling lives alone, commuting to work alone, going to and from work alone, and when the delivery date is approaching, Yu Rongguang is busy with the filming of a new film, and he can't come back to accompany his wife to give birth, and after the birth of his son, he rushed home.
In order to make up for his mistakes, Yu Rongguang would bring many gifts to his wife and son every time he came home, giving her brand-name handbags, diamond earrings, and buying toy schoolbags for his children, but these material compensation could not bridge the rift in the couple's relationship.
For many years after marriage, Yu Rongguang has never participated in any of his son's parent-teacher meetings, nor has he cared about his studies, and when his son is bullied on campus, it is not him who stands up to teach the bully as a father.
In 2003, Yu Rongguang's 61-year-old father Yu Mingkui was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer and lived for only half a year. The old man lay on the hospital bed and coughed weakly, but this bad news was hidden from Rongguang and did not tell his parents, because he did not want to worry the sick old man.
His wife Wang Yuling worked during the day and took care of her sick father-in-law at night. Every meal of my father-in-law, every time he and urinate, she takes care of it alone. Over the years, his parents' care was entirely borne by his wife, and when Yu Mingkui died in 2010, he learned that he was terminally ill.
Although it seems that Yu Guang is outside the Lord and Wang Yuling is inside, but the perennial life in the two places will eventually end this marriage, who is right and who is wrong between the husband and wife?
The husband and wife have been together for 30 years, and it is difficult to beat the vicissitudes of time
Yu Rongguang and Wang Yuling's marriage has lasted for more than 30 years, and it is harmonious and beautiful, with stable feelings, and has also won praise from the outside world, but there are also twists and turns. In 2015, Wang Yuling was hospitalized for sudden illness and was weak, she hoped that her husband could come to the hospital to take care of her, but Yu Rongguang in the shooting never came in person, which became the trigger for future marriage changes.
6 years later, in 2021, Wang Yuling officially filed for divorce, Yu Rongguang was shocked and begged for retention many times, but Wang Yuling was resolute, and after court mediation and judgment, the property of the two was divided equally, and the divorce officially ended.
Yu Rongguang still can't understand why he was asked for a divorce because he has always put his husband and wife relationship first, and has never had any negative news? He worked hard in his career, but he failed to understand his wife's feelings.
What Wang Yuling needs is her husband's care and companionship, not money and materials, and the two have a serious disconnect in their emotional needs, and finally can only choose to divorce.
Yu Rongguang, who is now over the age of Huajia, is still working hard in the entertainment industry, and he chooses to continue his career and work day and night, perhaps to escape the pain of marriage in this way. Wang Yuling, on the other hand, lived a quiet life behind the scenes, her son has started a family, and she is finally freed and truly free.
As public figures, their marriages receive countless scrutiny, and we stand in the position of outsiders, it is difficult to comment on who is right and who is wrong, and the problems in marriage are often not black and white.
They have been together for thirty years, but finally chose to break up, which is undoubtedly a huge blow to many fans who admire their love.
However, how much inside story of their married life is unknown to us? After the divorce, did the two still maintain some kind of contact? The answer to all this may only be the clearest in the hearts of the parties.
Love is like this, it comes suddenly, it leaves inexplicably, and it is difficult for us to predict a person's heart after all.