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July 2021 was an ordinary date, but for the 63-year-old famous actor Yu Rongguang, it was a major turning point in his life.
Just finished the filming work that lasted for more than three months, Yu Rongguang returned to his cozy nest in Beijing with longing for his family and expectations, however, the moment he stepped into the house, his wife Wang Yuling handed him a fluttering document - a divorce agreement.
Yu Rongguang was shocked like a thunderbolt from the sky, and he couldn't believe the facts in front of him.
It has been 35 years since she was married, and Wang Yuling has always been his most solid support, and she is an excellent wife who is virtuous, virtuous, hardworking and capable. No matter when and where Yu Rongguang is busy outside, the trivial matters at home are always handled by her properly and in an orderly manner.
What's even more rare is that she has given 100% support to her husband's career and has never exerted any pressure or restraint.
However, this time Wang Yuling filed for divorce without warning, and Yu Rongguang felt like he had suffered a heavy blow, and his mood was extremely painful. Looking at his wife's desperate expression, he felt as if he was violently struck by an invisible force deep in his heart.
Over the years, although there have been countless big and small arguments between them, he has never seen his wife show such a resolute attitude.
Wang Yuling's eyes clearly conveyed a message to Yu Rongguang: she had made up her mind to divorce him, and this determination was indestructible. Not only did Yu Rongguang himself not understand his wife's decision, but even the outside world was confused when he learned the news.
Yu Rongguang was born into a famous Peking Opera family with a history of hundreds of years, and has been full of interest in stage art since he was a child. Under the expectations of his family, he was regarded as the heir to the family and received strict artistic training.
When he was only 11 years old, Yu Rongguang made his debut on the stage of Peking Opera, and since then he has begun a long and determined journey of artistic pursuit. With his exquisite skills, he successfully created a lifelike Peking Opera role, which won warm applause and cheers from the audience.
In 1985, Yu Rongguang, who was 27 years old at the time, had already emerged and was in the golden period of development of his acting career. It was in this year that he met Wang Yuling through the recommendation of his parents. The place where they first met was in a quiet small park, and Yu Rongguang was immediately attracted by Wang Yuling's simplicity and generosity, as well as her gentleness and thoughtfulness.
When the two looked at each other and showed a heartfelt smile, it seemed that the moment they met for the first time, they had a deep resonance, and it didn't take long for them to walk hand in hand into the most important marriage temple in their lives.
Since that moment, Wang Yuling has become Yu Rongguang's most solid and powerful support with her tenacious strength, carrying her husband's dream with her tenacious shoulders and paying silently.
On the occasion of the newlyweds, they welcomed their first lovely baby son and established a small family that was ordinary but full of warmth. With the change of focus of work and life, Yu Rongguang temporarily put aside his love of Peking Opera and devoted himself to the film industry.
When they first entered the marriage hall, Yu Rongguang was still an unknown young actor, most of the performance opportunities were concentrated in Beijing, and as long as he had free time, he would accompany his wife.
He will cook a table of delicious dishes for Wang Yuling to taste, and the two will share the joy of family.
When Wang Yuling became pregnant and gave birth to their first child, Yu Rongguang became more considerate and took on all the affairs of the family, so that his wife could be liberated from tedious housework.
It was so lovingly that they spent the first few years of ordinary and happy time, although the family was not wealthy, they supported each other and created their own happiness together.
However, Yu Rongguang is an ambitious person, and he does not want to spend his life in mediocrity. In the early 90s of the 20th century, he was appreciated by the famous Hong Kong director Xu Xiaoming, and he resolutely chose to leave the mainland of the motherland and go to Hong Kong to seek a new breakthrough in his career.
Thus, the family began a long journey of separation and longing. After several years in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, Yu Rongguang finally won the love of the audience with his outstanding performances in many well-known film and television dramas, and his career gradually became brilliant.
Especially after participating in heavyweight TV series such as "Dongying Ranger" and "The Comeback of the Undefeated East", his influence and income in Hong Kong continue to rise.
However, it also meant that he was increasingly estranged from his family. At first, Wang Yuling was pleased with the success of her career, and the increase in her family income also made her look forward to a better life in the future.
However, as time goes on, she finds that she is often unable to contact Yu Rongguang, sometimes even for weeks without knowing his whereabouts.
When his son's high fever did not go away and his relatives needed surgery and hospitalization, Yu Rongguang never appeared by their side. At that home in Beijing, only Wang Yuling was left alone in an empty room.
The most heart-wrenching scene is that when Wang Yuling was hospitalized and underwent surgery for her own illness, Yu Rongguang, who was thousands of miles away, was like a stone sinking into the sea.
After many years of experience in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, Yu Rongguang has finally won many honors in his career as an actor. He was not only nominated for the Golden Eagle Award for Best TV Drama Actor, but also received high praise from industry leaders such as the gold medal director.
In addition to his superb acting skills, Yu Rongguang is also an all-round investor in the entertainment industry. He has been involved in real estate, film and television production and other fields, and has successfully become a business giant worth hundreds of millions of yuan.
Suddenly, Yu Rongguang can be said to have gained both fame and fortune, and his career and wealth have been gained.
However, the entertainment industry has always been a special environment that is ever-changing, intertwined with fame and fortune, which is full of various temptations and pitfalls. Yu Rongguang can stick to himself in this big dye vat and work silently for decades, which is really commendable.
Throughout his acting career, he has never been involved in any scandals or lace news.
This is not only due to his glorious and noble personality, but more importantly, his deep attachment and cherishment to his family. No matter how busy and tired he was, he always remembered that in that humble residence in Beijing, there was always a wife quietly waiting for his return.
However, this sincere emotion was eventually diluted and worn out by the helplessness of long-term separation. The world has changed, and in the face of his wife's request for divorce, Yu Rongguang can only accept the reality helplessly.
As her husband's career continues to expand, Wang Yuling's disappointment and grievances in this marriage are also intensifying. She used to be a hard-working and capable housewife, who worked hard for the family, but in exchange for a long period of indifference and neglect.
At first, Wang Yuling still had expectations for Rongguang's successful career outside. After all, rising household incomes mean that they will live a better life.
It wasn't long before she realized that her expectations were nothing more than an empty joy.
From the beginning of her husband's career, to gradually entering glory, Wang Yuling watched him miss his son's birthday and his relatives' serious surgery...... The beautiful vision of marriage gradually came to naught.
Until the end, even when she was sick and hospitalized for surgery, Yu Rongguang still had no news and neglected to care about her condition.
In the past, Wang Yuling longed to spend a good time with Yu Rongguang, as if looking forward to her Prince Charming. However, the reality is ruthless after all, and all she is waiting for is endless bitterness and helplessness.
From her initial enthusiastic support for her husband's career, to her dissatisfaction with his failure to attend important moments, to her final disappointment with her entire married life, Wang Yuling's heart has experienced painful struggles again and again.
After countless hardships, she finally strengthened her determination to fight for her right to pursue happiness. So, on that special day on July 20, 2021, when Yu Rongguang had just returned from a long assignment, Wang Yuling did not hesitate to hand over the divorce agreement that shocked him.
That night, Wang Yuling burst into tears, looking back on this 35-year marriage. How she once married Yu Rongguang with longing and expectation, but in the end she got such an ending.
Now she is no longer youthful, but has entered the twilight of her life, and her heart is exhausted as if all good things have left her.
Divorce is undoubtedly a difficult choice for the two old people. However, for Wang Yuling, instead of struggling in a desperate predicament, it is better to bravely move towards a new stage of life, which may be a wiser choice.
She would rather endure loneliness than spend the rest of her life waiting in vain for a redeemer who will never come.
After Yu Rongguang suddenly received his wife's divorce agreement, he fell into deep reflection and self-blame. On his way to the pinnacle of his career, he has achieved remarkable achievements, but at the same time, he has to pay a heavy price for it - the loss of the warmth of family and the companionship of family.
Although money and fame can bring glory a short period of material enjoyment and vanity satisfaction, these are illusory after all, and cannot make up for the longing and guilt of his family in his heart.
A family should be a warm harbor for husband and wife, parents and children to rely on each other and care for each other. However, Yu Rongguang turned this home into an empty house, in which only his wife silently endured the baptism of the years.
As a public figure, Yu Rongguang is undoubtedly a model in the eyes of everyone. He has achieved great success in his career, and his way to wealth is unmatched, and his moral character and integrity are selfless, which many people seem to be overshadowed by comparison.
But how can there be truly perfect people in the world?
Perhaps, in his unique way, he fought hard to become a wonderful husband and loving father, and did his best to maintain the good life of the whole family. However, on this path to the pinnacle of his career, he may have become too focused and gradually neglected his family's most simple but vital need for him – companionship and care.
Life is an endless journey, and we often lose ourselves along the way. Now, Yu Rongguang can only reflect deeply, examine the contradictions and conflicts between career and family, and seek a balance to prevent the breakdown of the marriage again.
The key to the harmony and happiness of a family is that every member of the family can get the respect and happiness they deserve. He needs to be thoughtful, value the present moment and avoid repeating the mistakes of the past.