His 60th birthday is still two months away
Wang Lin (pseudonym) gave birth to twin daughters
She became the oldest pregnant woman in Yichang, Hubei Province
The incident aroused widespread concern among netizens
Recently, the reporter contacted and interviewed Wang Lin and learned that she and her husband are retired at home, with no worries about food and clothing; The son has started a family in Beijing and has a daughter.
Wang Lin believes that compared with life, everything is trivial, "the most difficult has passed, and the rest is the joy of nature, let it be."
Twin daughters
The 59-year-old "elderly mother" gave birth to twin daughters
On September 5, Wang Lin, a 59-year-old "elderly mother" living in Yichang, Hubei Province, received the birth certificate of her twin daughters. With the support of her family and through hardships, Wang Lin gave birth to twin daughters safely in the Second People's Hospital of Yichang City, becoming the oldest pregnant woman in Yichang City.
Wang Lin has been retired for many years and has always liked children, and after the country fully opened up the two-child policy in 2016, she felt that her physical fitness was good, and her eldest son had worked in other places and did not need to worry about it, so she thought about having a second child. But the medical conditions were not ripe at the time, and her idea could not be implemented.
In recent years, seeing the continuous development and progress of medicine, Wang Lin once again came up with the idea of having a second child. After discussing with her lover, she went to Beijing to find expert consultation and conditioning until she reached the conditions for pregnancy.
In December 2022, Wang Lin successfully became pregnant. "During pregnancy, the body has been relatively good, and there is no particularly uncomfortable reaction. Only in the late stage, mild symptoms such as palpitation and edema of both lower limbs will appear. Wang Lin told reporters.
On August 22 this year, Qixi Festival, Wang Lin, who was 38 weeks pregnant, successfully performed a cesarean section with the full cooperation of medical staff from several departments of Yichang Second People's Hospital, and successfully gave birth to twin baby girls, weighing 5 pounds 1 tael and 5 pounds 4 taels respectively.
At present, Wang Lin and the baby have been discharged from the hospital and returned home. After returning home, the baby is not only well-behaved, but also has normal physical development.
Netizens are hotly discussed
The incident caused heated discussions among netizens, some netizens praised the mother's "courage is commendable", and some netizens expressed that they could not accept this mother's approach.
Interlocutors:
20 years of food and grass has been prepared, as the labor force training
September 16,
There are media conversations with this "elderly mother",
In the face of the doubts and puzzlements of some netizens,
She revealed more...
【1】
Sometimes it's just what is missing to make up for it
Reporter: Why did you have twins?
Wang Lin: There is nothing special about it, that is, our family has a small population. Our family has one granddaughter, my son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter are all in Beijing, and they come back once or twice a year, and I have few brothers and sisters, and my wife and I are two people at home. Sometimes it's just missing something to make up for it, and you feel that the family is not popular, so you get two people to play.
Reporter: Are the sons and daughters-in-law okay?
Wang Lin: Anyway, I didn't say yes, I didn't say I supported, I didn't say I was against. Everyone worries about their own affairs, and I didn't let them raise them either, nor did I let them manage it, and they didn't bother to ask.
Reporter: Does the husband have any opinions?
Wang Lin: It's okay, he's idle anyway, because we don't like to have pets or travel, and he loves to see two cuties. A person has a hobby, some people he doesn't want to bring anything, doesn't want to care, he wants to play, play mahjong or something, right, I don't get in the way of those things.
Reporter: Some netizens said that the twins may have to worry about your son after that, what do you think?
Wang Lin: I think compared with life, everything is trivial, especially now many young people say that if they can't give their children a good life, it's better to simply not have children, and they also say that this is also a kind of kindness. I think this is also a selfish aspect of the only child, not only should he live a good life, but his children should also enjoy it.
【2】
Just want twins
Reporter: When did you come up with this idea?
Wang Lin: When I was about 50 years old, I went to the hospital to consult about this, and the doctor said that I was so old, it was not easy to succeed, maybe there were not so many choices in technology at that time.
Recently, I saw that a woman in her 50s and 60s had given birth, so I went to the hospital in Beijing for consultation, and the hospital said that the oldest had been 56 years old anyway. I was 58 years old at the time, but the hospital said that my physical condition was a little better than theirs, and they were confident in me and said that they could try.
Reporter: How much did it cost?
Wang Lin: Almost a hundred thousand. Everyone is different, according to your own foundation and choices.
Reporter: Do you want twins yourself?
Wang Lin: Yes, some put two (embryos) into one, and mine has become both. The doctor said that you are so old, minus one, I said I don't lose, I want twins, twins with a little more spicy.
【3】
"When the workforce is trained"
Reporter: How are you going to educate them?
Wang Lin: Never spoil and spoil, cultivate self-reliance and self-improvement early, and when they are ten or eight years old, the housework will basically be handed over to them. To sum up, it is mainly cultivated as a labor force rather than a "little emperor", to prevent the end of the high or low, just be down-to-earth.
Reporter: What are your expectations for your child's future?
Wang Lin: I didn't think so much, it's better to have creation, and it's okay to be an ordinary person without creation, I think as long as you can be an adult and have a correct world view, it's not much worse. Even a supermarket waiter, with a salary of several thousand yuan a month, can support himself, and plain is true.
Those anxieties are self-inflicted, and you always want to get ahead and make a fortune, and you form anxiety. There are also people who have to take the first place in the child's test, and they can't get the first place themselves, but don't they think it's too much to ask the child so much?
Reporter: What does the child bring to you?
Wang Lin: Power. I used to either look at stocks and lose money, or I just lay motionless in bed and didn't do anything meaningful, and I felt like I could die at any time, why? It seems that no one needs me.
After having these two children, I at least have the motivation to dress them, get some food, and get some business. How cute the two children are, I feel good when I look at them, and I think I will live at least five more years.
【4】
"The hardest thing has passed, and the rest is fun"
Reporter: Will you be anxious because of the age difference?
Wang Lin: No. Some netizens also said, "Then you will have a parent-teacher meeting in the future, how inferior the child is." "Oh, there is such a parent-teacher conference once a year, I don't want children for this parent-teacher conference, is it sick."
I am 60 years old now, and it should not be a big problem to live for another 20 years, when they are also 20 years old, they have the ability to take care of themselves, and it doesn't matter if they have me or not. I think the hardest thing has passed, and all that's left is to have fun and go with the flow.
Reporter: Is there economic pressure?
Wang Lin: Some children bring their own rations, and their fate has been arranged long ago. I can only say that I have prepared food and grass for twenty years, and after twenty I will be self-sufficient.
Reporter: Why are you in such a good state of mind?
Wang Lin: Don't think too complicated about many things, if you think too complicated, you can't do anything. Life is an experience, not to interpret perfection, but to experience, life has to be experienced.
Think of everything perfectly, there is no such good thing. Those who can figure it out can figure it out, and those who can't figure it out can't figure it out anything, just like a person with a broken leg, then some people say, oh, my leg is broken, it's uncomfortable; Some people will say, fortunately, I have a broken leg, and I am still alive.
What do you think?
Comprehensive: Guangzhou Daily, Three Gorges Radio and Television, Yichang Three Gorges Rong Media Center, Yichang Second People's Hospital, etc
Source: Liaoshen Evening News