"You have to crush his dignity, and it's better to scold your own family enough than to be popular with outsiders."
Guo Degang is a fake strict father who is famous for internal entertainment, but this fake is not only cold and hot, but he only presses the stick education on Guo Qilin's head, turning his head to leave happiness and pampering to his younger son.
Years later, Guo Qilin admitted in public that if he had been before, he would have been lying in the dirt and humbly echoing everything that happened around him.
Because of the suppression of education, his self-esteem was frustrated, and it was not until he moved out of Guo's house that he realized what a normal life is...
The current world newspaper often comes quickly, and now Guo Degang can't see Guo Qilin for half a year, and his heart is full of regret.
Before the age of six, the word "father" did not exist in Guo Qilin's young worldview.
When Guo Degang took him to a strange environment, he naively thought that this kind uncle was taking him to Beijing to see Tiananmen.
It wasn't until he lived with seven or eight senior brothers for most of the month, during which he cried and did not see his grandparents to pick him up, that he was forced to accept a new life.
But although he is the only seedling in the family, his status is always at the bottom, and all the good food and fun are all close to his father's dozen apprentices.
Even because of his young age, he does not have his own room, nor does he have his own quilt, toothbrush, or rice plate.
When eating, if there is no bench, he can only carry the bowl to the stairs to pull white rice, next to a small dish of boiled cabbage.
There is naturally meat at home, but because Guo Qilin is a picky eater, Guo Degang punished him for only eating vegetables.
At first, he would shed tears while eating, not because he was aggrieved and had no oil, but because he did not understand that everyone could go to the table, and why only he was shrinking in the corner.
Guo Degang was still not used to it, seeing that he was as sentimental as the little girl, he immediately reprimanded: "You are my son, if you are not used to it, you have to get used to it!" ”
Later, Guo Qilin accepted reality and did not dare to fight for a special identity and practice privileges.
Even if you play badminton and throw yourself into the grass, you just get up strongly, knock off a body of dirt, and still have fun when you look up.
In fact, falling hurts, but his father's disregard not far away makes Guo Qilin more sad, and he can only pretend to be strong.
Many years later, Guo Degang mentioned Guo Qilin's picky eater, and immediately triumphantly shared his way of education: don't mess with me anyway, but you must continue to eat after crying, don't waste food.
Usually when his son makes a mistake, Guo Degang will scold him regardless of the occasion, and the more people he has, the more fierce he scolds.
After speaking, he immediately boasted, saying, "Children must be adjusted, otherwise, when they go to society in the future, they will have to be bullied to death!" ”
In 2012, 16-year-old Guo Qilin participated in the tour for the first time, because he was soft-spoken and had no home venue, so he could only give Yue Yunpeng an assistant.
When the official performance was made, it was quite decent, and the baggage was one after another, but the sudden jamming made his brain immediately knotted.
In the second half, not a single burden sounded, causing the atmosphere of the theater to fall into freezing, in short, completely smashed.
That night, Guo Qilin suffered a great disaster, first being counted worthless by his father in front of all his brothers, and then forced to hold his hair to apologize.
Even if he did so, his father was still uncomfortable and suppressed him in public again: "I'm sorry for the ticket money of the audience!" ”
In 2017, Guo Qilin finally had the ability to move out of his ancestral home, but the environment of the new house was very poor, the light bulbs in the living room and toilet were not lit at all, and there was no shower equipment.
No problem, you can live at home with a little light, it is better to take a bath, and buy the cheapest spray head from the Internet.
When he moved again, Guo Qilin did not forget to move the previously added items one by one, which were all bought with hard-earned money, but could not be cheap landlords.
Occasionally, Guo Qilin would only eat instant noodles for half a month because he did not start working, but even if he was so poor and emaciated, he would never ask his father for money.
At this time, Guo Qilin's half-brother Guo Fenyang lived a "spoiled" life that he never dared to ask for.
Since he was in kindergarten, his father personally picked him up and dropped off no matter how busy he was, and Guo Degang's apprentices became his "royal nanny".
Guo Qilin never evaluates his brother's treatment, but not saying that it doesn't mean he doesn't care.
In 2020, when Guo Degang and Guo Qilin appeared on a variety show together, Guo Degang admitted that he had not seen his eldest son for half a year before.
Guo Qilin stood aside without making a sound, but narrowed his eyes slightly, revealing a helpless smile.
In May this year, Guo Qilin brought his birth mother back from Japan and gave her a house to live in with all his savings.
Usually, Guo Qilin engages in team building with his brothers whenever he has time, and when he takes a group photo, although he stands in the most remote position, the happiness in his eyes cannot be covered at all.
Perhaps in Guo Qilin's eyes, the mother he has not seen since the age of three, and the senior brothers who are not blood relatives, but have given them warm memories since childhood, are far more worthy of attachment than "that family".
Of course, he is grateful for his father's education, but he does not recognize it in his heart: "That is, me, change to anyone, this concept will not work at all."
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