Last semester of freshman military training. I remember one year there was a mother of a freshman in junior high school, because the child was not familiar with the people in the dormitory, he asked the teacher to transfer his child to the dormitory and let the child live in the house of his elementary school classmate. The dormitory has been uniformly arranged before the new students arrive on campus, and the dormitory is transferred in a large area, which is very troublesome. But he didn't care. Finally, until 10:30 p.m., the principal was anxious and opened a new dormitory door, bringing his children and two other classmates from their elementary school, three people in a single room. Seeing that the child was arranged, the parents reluctantly left.
In view of the lessons learned, I issued a notice to parents in the freshman group that no parent was allowed to visit their children at school during military training. Parents can leave school after dropping their children off at the dormitory. Give the child clothes and put them at the gate so that the parents can leave by themselves.
However, some parents turn a deaf ear and not only send their children to the dormitory, but also judge the dormitory. Complain about the poor environment of the dormitory. One parent called the day he checked in and asked his child to follow him home after evening self-study. "The dormitory is in poor condition, the toilets are too dirty and we can't pay for our children to suffer at school. There were mosquitoes dotting mosquito coils at night and our kids were allergic to mosquito coils. Temporarily take home for one night". The next day, when the child was delayed, I called his parents, who said that they had discussed with the child's father and were ready to transfer the child to a private school with good conditions.
Some parents carry their children's clothes to the gate but are delayed, and they have to wait for their children to come out to meet them. I saw a mother and daughter across the iron gate of the school. The child has not yet done much, and the parents are already crying.
During the military training, parents kept calling me to go to the playground and call the children who were undergoing military training to the gate. Children's independent life ability, tenacious character is not automatically grown, and needs to be cultivated by parents. Many parents watch their children become kites, flying higher and farther, but they are always reluctant to let go of the long line in their hands, always willing to let their children appear in their field of vision to be relieved.
Letting go is love, but many parents do not understand this truth.