In this life, people are like a drop in the ocean, with the ups and downs of the sea, sometimes falling to the bottom, sometimes reaching the peak.
Some people fall and sink at the trough of life, some people rise to the top of life, and the ups and downs of life sometimes come suddenly, which is unexpected, but reasonable.
The so-called pampering is not shocked, the waves are not happy, we should laugh at the ups and downs of life, when receiving the aura of honor, we must be calm and steady, and we cannot be complacent because of our achievements, and at the trough of life, people must bear the pressure and find a way to "escape".
Time does not favor anyone, it is always constantly advancing, whether people want to move forward or not, life is slowly moving forward.
Some people catch up with time, think about the future life, and plan the future with a long-term vision, while some people only see the present and are weakly pushed by time.
Everyone's life has difficulties, there will never be a smooth life, setbacks are tests and trials.
Some people are steeled in setbacks, some people are willing to sink in the trough, and the ability to deal with setbacks determines the height of your life.
When life is not going well, do these three points well in order to "change your life"
If you are poor, you will think about change, and if you are poor, you will think hard
We often say that perseverance is victory, we must have perseverance and perseverance to do things, we must not give up halfway, the so-called people who travel a hundred miles are half ninety, and they should stick to the end when doing something.
However, blind persistence is a waste of time and energy, persistence is important, decision-making is more important, poor thinking changes, when your current situation can not be improved for a long time, think about how to jump out.
The trough of life is like a cage, trapping people in a cage, surrounded by fog, people must not only break the cage, but also remove the fog.
This cage is an inner obstacle, and it is inevitable to suffer a blow and become psychologically discouraged, which is also man's worst enemy - himself.
If you are poor, you will think about change, and if you are poor, you will think hard. Strength is always the basis of success, and when we have absolute strength, the pressure of life will disappear.
Diligence can make up for weakness, hard work is the key to self-improvement, there is a way is the first of all evil, lazy people are hit, often choose to lower their standards, in order to avoid responsibility, and their own choice of concession, that is, ideological cage.
Keep learning and improve your strength
People's learning ability determines his future, people who do not love to learn can only stay put, many people are "forced to help" to learn, after all, want to ensure a basic life, and master basic knowledge.
Learning is not limited to theoretical knowledge in books, not limited to various exams, but also to continuously learn the knowledge of how to behave in society and improve one's social "proficiency".
Learning is a brain-using process, and some people resist learning because they don't want to use their brains, arrogantly believing that they don't need to learn.
For a person who is not doing things well and is at a low point in life, learning is timely, and being hit means that there is a defect, there is room for improvement, and there is room for learning.
Learning is a fulfilling process, the knowledge you have mastered represents the scope of your ability, a variety of exams is a test of your knowledge ability, the exam is not the threshold, whether you can learn knowledge is the threshold.
In the face of the trough of life, many people have beaten themselves up, thinking that they are worthless and unable to live in panic. When you don't know what to do, you might as well find a breakthrough through learning.
Control your emotions and stay sane
When a person is influenced by emotions, it will be difficult for him to make due judgments, a person's emotional control ability determines his decision-making ability, will not be able to stunned, emotions will greatly affect people's judgment, restraint ability.
The consequences of impulsivity are serious, and the result is only to vent one's emotions, and the same is true when people are downcast, often self-pity, loss of confidence.
Everyone will have a bad time, and everyone wants smooth sailing.
The world is impermanent, you never know when the blow will come, the soldiers will block the water to cover the soil, it is useless to escape from trouble, no matter how you escape, you should face it or face it, and at the same time, you must control your emotions.
Emotional control is an autonomous ability, which is more about restraint, such as controlling your anger when you are angry, or putting away sadness when you are sad.
The so-called ability to flex and stretch, when we want to release our emotions, we must not be afraid.
Many people actually know what they need to do when they encounter problems, but they always have difficulty controlling their emotions and doing things with emotions, like a machine running with a disease.
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Born as human beings, we are like a lonely boat in the vast sea, sometimes riding the wind, sometimes rough, fighting with heaven and earth.
We will always face all kinds of hardships in life, instead of frowning, it is better to put aside our emotions, clear the clouds and see the blue sky, and end up hard.
If we believe in destiny, then destiny is fixed, life also has destiny, An Nengxing sighs and sighs and recurs; If we do not believe in fate, then we must find ways to change our destiny against the heavens, because we are born with our own talents and will be useful, and we will return after all the money.
Life is a long way off, and everyone should forge ahead.