When "The Legend of Martial Arts" set off waves of enthusiasm, Yan Ni became famous.
19 years have passed, did Zou Wei, who was determined to divorce Yan Ni "clean up and leave the house", regret his choice?
Yan Ni divorced Zou Wei
The sun shines on the earth, and two young hearts are closely connected.
Yan Ni and Zou Wei walked into the temple of marriage with the blessings of relatives and friends, and they believed that the days ahead would be sweet and harmonious.
At that time, the two only had each other in their eyes, and they promised to walk hand in hand no matter what kind of wind or rain they encountered.
In the early days of their marriage, the two, like most newlyweds, filled every moment with sweet days.
Together they plan for the future and look forward to a better tomorrow together.
But with the passage of time, the triviality of life gradually erodes this sweetness.
Work, family, children, etc., make their lives busy, and the time for communication gradually decreases.
Especially when Yan Ni decided to devote herself to acting, this decision undoubtedly increased the distance between the two.
Zou Wei, the nature of his work determines that he often needs to work overtime, while Yan Ni's acting career makes her often need to go out to shoot, and the time between the two is becoming more and more difficult to coordinate.
Whenever Yan Ni returned home, Zou Wei often fell asleep; And when Zou Wei got up early in the morning, Yan Ni was often still filming in the field.
This day-to-day lifestyle makes the relationship between the two more and more tense.
They began to argue over small things, and after these small things accumulated, they became an insurmountable gap between them.
Especially when Zou Wei put forward the request of "all the property in the family will be given to you, you can mention what conditions you have, I will try to meet them, and divorce the marriage as soon as possible", Yan Ni's heart was completely cold.
Although Yan Ni tried to save the marriage, Zou Wei's determination had been made.
He believes that Yan Ni's acting career is the main reason for the breakdown of their relationship.
In his heart, family should be the focus of a woman, not chasing acting dreams.
Yan Ni, on the other hand, believes that everyone should have the right to pursue their dreams, and she does not want to give up her career because of her family.
The two became increasingly opposed, and eventually, they decided to end the marriage.
Although Yan Ni's heart hurts, she knows that the rift between the two cannot be repaired.
This once beautiful can only become a memory in her heart.
Support and encouragement from in-laws
Although Yan Ni and Zou Wei's marriage has encountered many turmoil, in this relationship, a group of people have always stood by her side, that is, Zou Wei's parents.
They are the kind of traditional, simple parents who always give endless love and pampering to their daughters-in-law.
Since Yan Ni became a member of their family, the parents of the Zou family have treated her as if she were their own daughter.
Especially Zou's mother, who always prepares various delicacies for Yan Ni at home, worried that she will be tired from working outside.
Even when Yan Ni decided to devote herself to acting, despite Zou Wei's reservations, her in-laws still stood by her side and encouraged her to pursue her dreams.
They believe that everyone has the right to chase their dreams, not to mention that their daughter-in-law is so talented.
When there was a rift in the relationship between Yan Ni and Zou Wei, the parents of the Zou family did not favor Zou Wei because they were their sons, but persuaded the two to deal with the problem calmly and try to maintain the marriage.
When the two decided to divorce, although the parents of the Zou family were heartbroken, they still gave Yan Ni the greatest support and understanding.
They told her that no matter what happened, their house was always open for her.
After the divorce, Yan Ni experienced a lot of troughs in her career and emotions.
But every time she felt lost and desperate, the parents of the Zou family always appeared by her side for the first time and gave her endless love and encouragement.
They always say, "Nini, no matter what path you choose, we will support you and believe that you can go better." ”
For Yan Ni, it was a thorough spiritual baptism.
During that time, she was often immersed in loss and full of confusion about the future.
She began to reflect on her past, trying to find out why her marriage failed.
Is he too obsessed with his career, or is there an irreconcilable contradiction with Zou Wei?
Yan Ni realized that everyone has their own lifestyle and pursuits.
The contradiction between her and Zou Wei is not only because of her acting career, but also because of the difference in their understanding of life and future.
She began to learn to be independent and no longer overly dependent on the care and affection of others.
Love yourself first before you can get the love of others.
As a result, she began to draw a new blueprint for her future, no longer too obsessed with external evaluations and opinions.
Over time, Yan Ni gradually came out of the shadow of emotions.
She began to actively participate in various public welfare activities, hoping to help those in need through her own strength.
Cherish the time with family and friends, and share your joys and sorrows with them.
Today's Yan Ni is no longer the woman who is always immersed in emotional difficulties, but a woman full of confidence and charm.
Life is not always smooth sailing, but as long as you have a strong heart, you can definitely get out of the haze and welcome the sun.
Regret with future choices
Yan Ni and Zou Wei's different life paths, every choice in life is accompanied by a series of opportunities and losses.
When two people come to a crossroads, their choices can lead to two very different life trajectories.
The story of Yan Ni and Zou Wei is such a typical example.
A restrained and steady Zou Wei formed a pair with the lively and passionate Yan Ni.
Their love used to be so sweet and deep.
But as time passed, the two began to disagree on their pursuit of the future.
Zou Wei hopes to live a peaceful life, while Yan Ni aspires to reach a higher level in her acting career.
When Yan Ni decided to devote herself to her acting career, although Zou Wei supported, his heart was full of worry.
He was afraid of losing the days and nights he spent with her, afraid that she would forget the vows she once made on the glamorous stage.
And Yan Ni, for the sake of her dream, chose to keep moving forward, even if it meant drifting away from Zou Wei.
In the end, the two chose to break up.
Zou Wei once confessed his regret late one night with tears in his eyes.
He said that if he had cherished his time with Yan Ni more, if he had given her more understanding and support, maybe their ending would have been different.
Looking at the radiant Yan Ni on TV, Zou Wei's heart was full of regret.
But he also understands that there are no ifs in life, and every choice is irreversible.
After the blow of divorce, Yan Ni began to pursue her career with all her might.
She is no longer the little woman who depends on men, but an independent, confident woman.
The works were loved by the audience, and her name became synonymous with household names.
She once said that divorce gave her the opportunity to rediscover herself and made her cherish every moment more.
And Zou Wei, although his life is full of regrets, he did not choose to stagnate.
He also began to devote himself to public welfare to help those in need.
Although life has dealt him a heavy blow, he has chosen to stand up and bring hope to those who are more unfortunate than him.
Although the two have embarked on different life paths, they have both found their own value and meaning in their respective fields.
Their stories tell us that every choice in life is a new beginning.
Whether it is regret or gratitude, it is a valuable experience that life has given us.
What we need to do is to cherish every moment and bravely walk into the future.
Life is full of choices and opportunities, and every choice can change our future.
For Yan Ni and Zou Wei, they have both found their own happiness.
The past is gone, and the future is their real goal.
Whether it is Yan Ni or Zou Wei, they firmly believe that the future will be better.