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For the average person seeking wealth, this process usually only lasts 5 to 10 years. After this period, opportunities for wealth are hard to come by.
Those who are particularly interested in money are usually men who seek career success and wealth accumulation. However, achieving wealth is no easy task. It requires not only individual strength, but also timely opportunities.
For men who seek to make a fortune, in order to succeed, the following five conditions must be met in order to achieve success on the road to making money.
1. A man must have a virtuous wife.
It is often said, "Behind a successful man, there must be a successful woman." ”
From ancient times to the present, it is difficult to win by individual ability. Liu Bang's success is due to Lu He, a strong and visionary woman. The reason why Yang Jian, the emperor of Sui, was able to establish a great cause was inseparable from the assistance of Lonely Garo, who helped him stabilize the situation.
It is difficult for men to expand their territory and manage family affairs on their own, so they need a wise wife to assist. The man is responsible for going out and planning, and the woman is responsible for the housework, which can promote the balance of family and career.
Life is full of variables, and with a virtuous wife, you may be able to save more than ten or twenty years of struggle. Without her help, it may be difficult to achieve achievements for life.
Second, men should seize the right moment.
As the saying goes: "One life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four accumulation of yin virtue and five reading." ”
The words "fate", "luck" and "feng shui" here refer to the right time. Whether or not you can meet the opportunities that suit you will determine whether you can realize your wishes and achieve success.
The ancients said: "Fate is reincarnated, luck is uneven." "Whether you can meet your own opportunities is the key to getting what you want, and it is also the way to success.
There was a general who had practiced martial arts since he was a child and was ready to lead troops to battle, but the northern Xiongnu did not come to attack for a long time. He practiced hard outside all year round, but missed the opportunity for the northern Xiongnu to go south. When he died, he was too old and weak to fight again.
Timing is key, and it may not be grasped early, and it may be impossible to cope with it later. Only when you encounter it just right, can you maximize your ability.
Third, men should have the guidance of discerning people.
We often say, "With the support of discerning people, you can do more with less." ”
Historically, although there were many horses, there were very few Bole that could be discovered and cultivated. This led to the sad death of many Maxima and the failure to display their talents.
When Qi Huangong met Guan Zhong, he had the opportunity to dominate; Liu Bang had Han Xin to dominate the country; With Zhuge Liang, Liu Bei was able to make a thousand miles of wisdom and emerge.
Nobles and Maxima complement each other. When two parties meet, their potential and opportunities intersect, often achieving twice as much as the individual achievements.
There are many talented people in the world, and there are also many capable men. However, due to the lack of guidance from discerning people, they often work hard in their lives without seeing achievements.
Fourth, men should work in secret and silently accumulate wealth.
The ancients: "Concealment is progress, arrogance is retreat." ”
In the pursuit of your career, it is very important to keep a low profile. Why? Because jealousy is widespread. If you are flamboyant and too high-profile, it will cause others to be wary and thus set up obstacles for you.
In business, why be "clumsy"? Because in this competitive environment, there are many people who covet your failure. If you are not cautious and too ostentatious, they will constantly obstruct you and prevent you from moving forward.
One of the weaknesses of human nature is jealousy. Knowing this, you should moderate your edge, keep a low profile, keep a low-key personal life, and be unassuming, even if you get wealthy.
As the saying goes, "Kill without blood." "Just as people who show too much prominence attract a storm, likewise, people who are too ostentatious attract criticism. None of them end well.
Men must have courage and decisiveness.
Zeng Youyun: "Although the sparrow is small, it has all the organs. ”
In a competitive society, success requires decisiveness and boldness. However, few people actually have this kind of courage. Even Xiang Yu, the overlord of Western Chu, hesitated at the Hongmen banquet and let Liu Bang go.
In one case, two brothers were faced with an investment opportunity, and the younger brother hesitated and asked for the opinions of others. And the brother decisively decided to invest and did not hesitate. As a result, the older brother made money, but the younger brother missed the opportunity due to hesitation.
Life is like this, and decisive action can lead to failure as well as success. Indecision only leads to failure.
Written by Serena Nightingale;
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