Married for 7 years and did not have children, is such a happy marriage?
Chen Zihan and Dai Xiangyu have the right to speak.
Dai Xiangyu: If one day I get sick and lie there motionless, how are you going to save me?
Dai Xiangyu's words simply hit Chen Zihan's heart.
This is also the 1 disadvantage of not having children after marriage.
If they got pregnant and had children after getting married, the child would now be at least 6 years old.
The reality is that they don't have children. Chen Zihan is 48 years old, and Dai Xiangyu is 39 years old. If they don't have children in the future, they will have to face the problem of how one of them will deal with it if he faints at home.
Dai Xiangyu took precautions, he was very worried that he would be sick one day, and Chen Zihan could not hold him. Because Chen Zihan usually does not do fitness, and the whole person has no strength, she must not be able to hold Dai Xiangyu.
Dai Xiangyu consciously did fitness for Chen Zihan at home, so that she could have the strength to move herself in the future. So they often do sports like wrestling and yoga at home.
The second drawback of not having children also came out. She has no sense of security and certainty about marriage.
Chen Zihan is a person who cares about results and processes. When she does something, she naturally hopes for a perfect ending. She is a person who is easy to hide in her heart for a long time because of regrets, and she is a person with more serious emotions, and she is very afraid of failure because she is not good enough, and she will be very guilty.
People with such personalities are usually women who lack courage and are sensitive and sensitive. At the same time, Chen Zihan is another person with strong comprehensive abilities such as social, emotional intelligence and strength, and she does not allow uncontrolled things to occur in her life.
But marriage is something that Chen Zihan is powerless to control.
She could not predict and guarantee whether the marriage would end well.
In fact, Chen Zihan's heart is still full of insecurity and uncertainty. To put it bluntly, she is still afraid of divorce. So want a perfect ending.
It's just that she doesn't know if this sibling love can have a perfect ending in the future.
In this marriage, Chen Zihan also experienced the joy of marrying a younger brother and also experienced Dink's freedom. Every morning, she could sleep in, her husband made a Western-style breakfast, personally called for breakfast, and leaned down to put on shoes for her.
There are pros and cons. Dai Xiangyu is a very serious and assertive younger brother. In the face of his wife's pickiness, he used to be good at cold violence and did not like to be questioned. Fortunately, he is now mature and has learned to stop throwing his face at the cold war.
Chen Zihan had to coax Dai Xiangyu carefully, for fear that he would suddenly put down his face and get angry.
This is the disadvantage of sibling love.
For the ending of the marriage, Chen Zihan is very concerned about the process and the ending, and she hopes to be the perfect ending. Dai Xiangyu, on the other hand, is different, he is a person who does not care about the ending, including marriage.
He believes that if the process is bad and the ending is perfect, it is also a very bad experience.
Dai Xiangyu is actually a person who lives very transparently and sincerely. He also has his own cognitive system. He was never influenced by his wife.
He can use 17 years to find his sense of mission, bring his TV series to Singapore, and return to China at the peak of his popularity abroad. Even if he wasn't smart enough to be teased, he insisted on doing so.
He doesn't care about fame and fortune, but values the process.
Chen Zihan and Dai Xiangyu are actually two people with different values, Chen Zihan is a social queen, high emotional intelligence and strength, and Dai Xiangyu is a person who does not like to socialize and is simple and sincere.
As long as it's not someone he thinks he can be a friend, he basically won't add someone else's contact information.
In a marriage, the difference in three views is destined to have a person to compromise in order to achieve the same frequency resonance of marriage.
Chen Zihan is destined to be the one who compromises, who let her be a sister and have no children of her own?
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