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introduction
How about being able to be with older people? There is a saying circulating on the Internet that if one party is a fancy girl, then she can be with a 600-year-old person, or with a 6,000-year-old or even a 60,000-year-old, but she cannot be with a 60-year-old.
Why do you say that? Because in the secular concept, a little girl in her twenties is with an old man in her 60s, that is, grandfather and grandson love, which is not accepted by the public and is allowed.
Will doubt what their original intention is together, will not think that they are together because of love, on the contrary think that it is a combination of interests, there must be one party has bad ideas and wants to seek corresponding benefits from the other party.
This is the case with Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan, even if Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan have been married for more than ten years, the controversy over them on the Internet has never stopped, and some people even say that marrying Weng Fan is the biggest black spot in Yang Zhenning's life.
From the beginning, some people said that Weng Fan wanted to use Yang Zhenning as a springboard to step into the field of physics and achieve his own fame and interests, but is this really the case? Soon netizens found out that this was not the case.
In recent years, we can see that when Yang Zhenning attended various meetings, his face was very rosy, you must know that Yang Zhenning was more than 90 years old at that time, and it was obvious that Weng Fan took good care of him.
Yang Zhenning is more than 101 years old this year, that is still healthy and alive, although there may be some minor illnesses and disasters, but it is undeniable that Weng Fan has made great efforts in Yang Zhenning's health.
But how did two people of this age get to this point of marriage?
acquaintance
When it comes to Yang Zhenning, everyone may be familiar with him, he is a famous scientist and scholar in the mainland, and each of us has an infinite worship of Xueba, which also leads many of us to have a filter for Yang Zhenning.
Yang Zhenning cultivated a new type of talent for the development of the country, and was willing to give up the superior environment and high salary abroad to return to China, he chose to give lectures in various universities and attend various conferences.
Weng Fan has loved physics since he was a child, and admired Yang Zhenning, and in a meeting, Weng Fan was selected as a receptionist because of his self-excellence, which was also the first meeting between Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning.
During that meeting, Weng Fan asked Yang Zhenning many questions about physics in one breath, and also made Yang Zhenning feel very happy, thinking that this little girl loved physics very much and was talented.
At that time, Yang Zhenning's wife Du Zhili attended the meeting, Du Zhili liked this studious little girl, the fate between people is so magical, just a short side can make Du Zhili like it so much.
After this meeting, because Yang Zhenning and his wife loved Weng Fan and wanted to help this child who loved physics, they took the initiative to leave Weng Fan his contact information.
Since then, the communication between the two sides began to increase, Yang Zhenning found that Weng Fan really wanted to take physics as the love of her life, he began to love talent, he accepted Weng Fan as his disciple, Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning were still pure teacher-student feelings at that time.
Love
Then someone asked if Yang Zhenning had a good impression of Weng Fan from the beginning? In fact, it is not, those good feelings are just the love of talents, for Yang Zhenning, his wife is the person he loves the most.
Now speaking, Yang Zhenning's wife Du Zhili is Yang Zhenning's white moonlight, he once said that he loves Du Zhili more than himself, from this sentence, we can know that Yang Zhenning is very respectful and loving to his wife.
For Yang Zhenning, as long as his wife appeared with others, his gaze was always on his wife, so in the early days, Yang Zhenning and Wen Fan only had pure teacher-student affection and no other impurities.
When did Yang Zhenning's relationship with Weng Fan change? A very important reason is that in 2003, Yang Zhenning's wife left him forever.
For Yang Zhenning, his loss of his wife is no less than his loss of physics, he was instantly confused, he did not expect that his wife would take him a step and die, and he could not imagine how to spend the rest of his life without his wife.
Many people understand Yang Zhenning's pain in losing his lover, but they can't empathize with him, and they don't even know how to comfort him and persuade him to let go of these griefs and face life again.
During that time, Yang Zhenning lived very gray, as his beloved apprentice, Weng Fan felt that he could not let the teacher go on like this, and for most of the year, Weng Fan took time to accompany Yang Zhenning, comfort him, encourage him, and accompany him out of the pain of losing his wife.
After Weng Fan's efforts for half a year, Yang Zhenning finally came out again, his smile began to slowly increase, in his words, he did not forget his former wife Du Zhili, he just took his wife's love and continued to live well.
It is precisely because of Weng Fan's companionship for most of the past half a year that Yang Zhenning's feelings for Weng Fan have deteriorated, Yang Zhenning experienced the death of his wife once, and found how time did not wait for people, he did not even hesitate and directly told Weng Fan his feelings.
It was Yang Zhenning's telling this time that made Weng Fan flustered, but Weng Fanren confessed to Yang Zhenning that she didn't know if it was love, but she didn't dislike living with Yang Zhenning.
Worldly obstruction
The combination of a young girl in her 20s and a grandpa in her 50s made many people think that this absurd thing was not recognized and accepted by the public in an instant, and Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning were ridiculed by many people together.
They think that Weng Fan is an unscrupulous person, and being with Yang Zhenning does not love him, just to use him to achieve his own goals, in short, it is all kinds of groundless speculation.
In addition, some people began to criticize Yang Zhenning, bluntly saying that he had always advertised that he loved his wife deeply, but soon after his wife left, he found a young man and said that Yang Zhenning was a hypocritical person.
Even some relatives and friends around them do not agree with the two of them together, without exception, it is the problem of age, and worldly obstruction is constantly oppressing them.
If you change to an ordinary person, you may choose to give up because of the worldly voice, but what kind of person Yang Zhenning is, plus Weng Fan is not a person who is easily troubled by the voice of the public.
They don't care what others think, and life and feelings are very important to people like them, so in 2004 Weng Fan married Yang Zhenning.
What can be met is that their marriage is destined to be questioned by the outside world, among which the most concerned is what is Weng Fan's purpose?
"Purpose"
Even after so many years, there are still many people on the Internet who say that the reason why Weng Fan married Yang Zhenning is not pure, it must have some purpose, it may be for monetary interests, and it may be that he stepped into the physics world by taking advantage of Yang Zhenning's fame.
There are all kinds of speculations on the Internet, there are all kinds of everything, few people think that Weng Fan sincerely wants Yang Zhenning to be good, and at every meeting, netizens seem to glimpse Weng Fan's "purpose".
At a meeting, Yang Zhenning attended with a cane, and the action looked very inconvenient, but people could not ignore the happiness and health on Yang Zhenning's face, and no one would accuse Weng Fan, after all, Yang Zhenning was eighty or ninety years old at that time.
The eighty or ninety-year-old man's body can be so healthy and uplifted, it is enough to witness how well his family takes care of him, when Weng Fan saw Yang Zhenning faltering, her expression immediately changed, and the relaxed smile on her face immediately disappeared, all of which were worried about Yang Zhenning.
By seeing this, everyone can also feel Weng Fan's importance to Yang Zhenning, Weng Fan once revealed that he had persuaded Yang Zhenning to do some appropriate things, take good care of his body, and not let himself be under so much pressure.
Weng Fan also said that Yang Zhenning was willing to dedicate his life to the country's physics cause, so it was difficult for Weng Fan to persuade Yang Zhenning to put down his work and take good care of his body.
Weng Fan once told the public that she would be touched by Yang Zhenning's love for physics every time, she knew Yang Zhenning's dream, and because she was inspired by Yang Zhenning, she wanted to complete her dream with Yang Zhenning.
Some time ago, the news of Yang Zhenning's hospitalization broke out on the Internet, Yang Zhenning was lying alone in the hospital ward, Weng Fan, who was once inseparable from Yang Zhenning, was not around, so that countless netizens opened their brains Is it Weng Fan saw Yang Zhenning seriously ill and finally revealed his true face.
The reason why Weng Fan did not accompany Yang Zhenning was that she attended a meeting instead of Yang Zhenning, and for Yang Zhenning, he preferred Weng Fan to attend the meeting instead of wasting time by his side.
Weng Fan has been with Yang Zhenning for many years, and she has also learned a lot of good qualities from Yang Zhenning, for Weng Fan, when Yang Zhenning cannot move, Weng Fan will take over Yang Zhenning's baton and continue to complete his unfinished business instead of him.
In fact, Weng Fan's purpose is very simple, she just hopes that Yang Zhenning can rest well, raise his body, and let herself replace Yang Zhenning and complete his dream and career, the purpose is simple, and it is not as intriguing as she thinks on the Internet.
Weng Fan and Yang Zhenning once attended the meeting together, the two clasped hands, looking very affectionate, even if there is no so-called love between them, but there is also a strong family affection.
For Yang Zhenning, Weng Fan is not only his wife, but also his own family, his recognized student and successor, and the relationship between the two cannot be summed up by a word of liking or disliking, they should be comrades with common revolutionary friendship.
epilogue
Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan have known each other for more than ten years, for Yang Zhenning, Weng Fan has accompanied him for more than ten years, in these ten years, the relationship between them is gradually sublimated, they can walk together, exercise together, can also explore physics knowledge together, they are also teachers and friends.
For Weng Fan, in the past ten years of accompanying Yang Zhenning, she has learned a lot of things from Yang Zhenning, which are all intangible wealth, which will benefit him a lot in his future life path.
Weng Fan is also very grateful to Yang Zhenning for helping him in the past ten years, and she has also spent 19 years to confirm that she is not using Yang Zhenning, but sincerely.
Weng Fan has not left in the past 19 years, accompanied Yang Zhenning through many difficulties, the so-called purpose has finally been achieved, Yang Zhenning can also rest well and recuperate his body.
Love is a matter of two people, we have no way to empathize with Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan, then we will minimize the requirements for them, reduce the world's judgment on them, and only hope that Mr. Yang Zhenning's body can recover as soon as possible and be healthy.