As we all know, Zhang Guoli is our national first-class actor and is highly respected.
It stands to reason that the dragon gives birth to the dragon and phoenix, and such an excellent Zhang Guoli should also have an excellent son.
But his son Zhang Mo is a Dou who can't support the wall.
He not only abused his girlfriend, but also twice was imprisoned for drug abuse.
Obviously, the family has a difficult scripture.
Zhang Guoli, who has such a brilliant career, is not a qualified father.
What did Zhang Mo experience in the process of growing up?
Why did he delay in forgiving his father?
Zhang Mo violently beat his girlfriend
In 2003, Zhang Mo was a sophomore in the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama.
At this time, he and nursery rhymes have been dating for a long time, and the relationship between the two has been relatively stable.
One day, Zhang Mo called as usual to meet nursery rhymes at the school gate.
The nursery rhyme dresses herself up with joy and looks forward to meeting her boyfriend.
As a result, as soon as the two met, Zhang Mo scolded the nursery rhyme, not saving face for the woman at all.
The nursery rhyme didn't want to deal with him, so he turned around and left.
This practice angered Zhang Mo even more, and he caught up and began to punch and kick his girlfriend.
With a thin body, she had no ability to fight back next to Zhang Mo, who was tall and big.
Tong Yao didn't know what happened, so she just begged Zhang Mo for mercy.
But Zhang Mo still did not adhere to it, and did not mean to let her go at all.
More and more students were watching, until someone shouted 120 to end the farce.
The next day, Zhang Mo's violent beating of his girlfriend was reported in major news headlines.
Zhang Guoli immediately left for the school and wanted to personally find a nursery rhyme to apologize.
The nursery rhyme was afraid that the Zhang family father and son would threaten him, so he refused to meet.
Zhang Guoli waited in the doorman's hall for 6 hours before learning that the nursery rhyme had gone to the hospital.
Later, Zhang Guoli tried to "wipe his ass" for his son.
He personally apologized and used financial and material resources to get forgiveness from the nursery rhyme and his family.
But in the end, Zhang Mo did not escape the punishment of being expelled from the play.
Obviously, Zhang Mo's character is flawed, and he has no trust in his girlfriend.
After the accident, he did not feel any guilt for his father.
Even said in one show:
"Even if I make a mistake, I will blame my father because he didn't care about me."
And directly said that he likes to solve problems with violence.
Zhang Mo's words stung Zhang Guoli's heart.
So what did Zhang Guoli do to let his son have such an evaluation of himself?
Perhaps all this is related to Zhang Mo's childhood experience.
The harm caused by the family of origin
In the eyes of outsiders, Zhang Mo is a second-generation star, not short of money, enviable.
But there are always problems in the world that money can't solve.
For example, childhood injuries cannot be healed with much money.
Zhang Guoli worked in the literary troupe when he was young, earning a small income.
But he was very lucky to meet a rich girl, Luo Xiuchun.
Luo Xiuchun's father was a public official and powerful.
Her parents couldn't look at Zhang Guoli, who had poor family conditions, and at first did not agree to the two being together.
When Zhang Guoli learned the news, he was not discouraged, but worked hard to help the Luo family.
Every time I chat with Luo Mu, I can make her happy.
He proved his sincerity to Luo Xiuchun's parents with his actions.
Therefore, Luo Xiuchun's father also gave his daughter to Zhang Guoli with confidence.
At this time, Father Luo probably did not expect that he saw the wrong person.
In 1982, Zhang Guoli married Luo Xiuchun.
In the same year, their son was born and named Zhang Mo.
I thought that the arrival of the child could make the couple's relationship stronger.
Unexpectedly, it accelerated the time for the end of this marriage.
With his son, Zhang Guoli felt that the burden on his body was getting heavier and heavier.
The income from the literary troupe was too small to support the family, so they began to find another way of living.
When Zhang Guoli was young, he had a very good appearance and studied acting.
Soon he set his sights on the actor industry, filming can not only make money, but also become famous.
After his father-in-law and mother-in-law learned of Zhang Guoli's idea, they used their connections to give him the opportunity to perform in "Crooked Stone Path".
As a result, Zhang Guoli lived up to expectations and fought a beautiful turnaround with the play.
After that, Zhang Guoli officially became an actor and began filming to make money.
Luo Xiuchun is very happy, thinking that her husband can finally let the family live a prosperous life.
But she didn't know that from the moment Zhang Guoli stepped into the entertainment industry, the countdown to their marriage also began.
After the first play, several directors handed Zhang Guoli the script.
Zhang Guoli is busy with work every day and has filmed several dramas in a row.
By chance, Zhang Guoli met Deng Jie.
In the process of getting along, he began to lose control of his heart.
Although Zhang Guoli has a family, he is still hopelessly in love with Deng Jie.
Knowing that Deng Jie had also entered marriage, Zhang Guoli decided to keep this love silently in his heart.
Unexpectedly, Deng Jie divorced her husband due to emotional disagreements.
At this time, Zhang Guoli could no longer control his feelings, and regardless of his wife and children, he wrote a letter to Deng Jie in private to express his intentions.
But Deng Jie is not a stupid woman, and resolutely told Zhang Guoli that she would not be a junior.
The implication is to divorce Zhang Guoli.
After much deliberation, Zhang Guoli decided to abandon his wife and pursue true love.
He almost left home and took Zhang Mo to Beijing to marry Deng Jie.
At this time, Zhang Mo was only 6 years old, and he didn't understand why his father was separated from his mother.
When he first arrived in Beijing, Zhang Guoli still knew nothing about Zhang Mo.
But he soon realized that he couldn't do both.
As soon as he was busy with work, Zhang Mo would be left behind by himself.
He couldn't entrust Zhang Mo to Deng Jie to take care of, and after thinking about it, Zhang Guoli returned the child to Luo Xiuchun.
Zhang Mo was like a leather ball, "kicked around" by his parents.
The failed marriage made Luo Xiuchun's personality change greatly, and when she saw Zhang Mo, she would think of Zhang Guoli's betrayal.
Zhang Mo was trembling at home, and once he made his mother unhappy, he would exchange it for a beating.
Zhang Mo at school was isolated by his classmates, and others said that he was a child without a father.
Other children have the support of their parents, but Zhang Mo does not.
He called the heavens and the earth unworked.
The childhood that most needed the company of parents was consumed in resentment.
Perhaps at that time, Zhang Mo secretly began to hate his father in his heart, hating his father for ignoring him.
It was not until he graduated from junior high school that Zhang Guoli took Zhang Mo to his side.
At this time, the father and son were already a little rusty, and Zhang Mo did not have the innocence of his youth, and he treated his father very coldly.
Zhang Guoli knows that he is sorry for his son, he does not force himself in studying, and in life, he is obedient to Zhang Mo.
But he didn't know that this kind of education method also invisibly destroyed Zhang Mo.
Twice went to jail for drug use, ruining his life
After Zhang Mo's beating of his girlfriend was exposed, the old father Zhang Guoli humbly apologized and used financial and material resources to solve the matter.
Publicly apologized for his son in front of the media, saying that it was a dereliction of duty as a father, and did not say a word about his son's no.
In private, he did not scold his son.
And Zhang Mo, not only did not understand his father, but also attributed himself to Zhang Guoli for becoming what he is now.
Zhang assumed that his father was absent from his upbringing, and he should be held responsible for his mistakes.
At this time, Zhang Guoli did not know that his connivance would make Zhang Mo go to prison.
Since then, Zhang Mo has become more reckless.
He felt that he was a child who no one loved, infinitely magnifying his misery.
He thinks he deserves to do anything wrong.
Zhang Mo goes in and out of such improper places as bars and nightclubs every day.
Until one day, the police came to the door and took him away directly.
Zhang Guoli once again wanted to use his connections to solve problems for his son.
But when he learned that his son had been arrested for drug use, he froze in place.
Nian was a first-time offender, and Zhang Mo was only detained for a while.
After coming out, Zhang Guoli couldn't wait to tie Zhang Mo to his belt.
He hated that iron could not become steel, and strictly supervised Zhang Mo, carefully taught, and even took it with him for filming.
Unexpectedly, history repeats itself again.
Zhang Mo was once again arrested in his villa for drug use and for allowing others to take drugs.
Allowing others to take drugs is a felony, and this time, Zhang Mo was sentenced.
Zhang Guoli was powerless to return to heaven, but he never really blamed his son in his heart.
Even after Zhang Mo was released from prison, he transferred the company's equity to his son.
After being released from prison and "gnawing the old", the father still protects his son
After being released from prison, Zhang Mo could not stand the online violence and chose to settle in Thailand.
He often posts photos of himself on social media.
Now he still drives luxury cars, lives in villas, smokes cigars, and lives a life of drunken gold.
Some careful netizens found that he smoked 1200 yuan a cigar.
Many people laughed at him at the age of 41 and still gnawing at the old.
But for the second generation of stars, maybe 1200 yuan is not much money in their eyes.
Now, Zhang Guoli has not mentioned Zhang Mo for a long time.
I don't know whether the relationship between father and son has been eased, or the contradictions have intensified.
Zhang Mo has been staying in Thailand, and obviously the second scenario is more likely.
Zhang Guoli could never have imagined that because of his negligence in his youth, his only son would have such a big misunderstanding of him.
Where in the world is there a parent who does not love their children, it can only be said that Zhang Guoli used the wrong method.
And Zhang Mo has always been unwilling to come out of his sad childhood.
His childhood experience has created Zhang Mo now, and Zhang Guoli has always understood his problems.
To this day, he still has not taken strong measures to educate his son.
Instead, he constantly condones, and it is his bottomless doting that single-handedly raised his son like this.
epilogue
A lucky childhood can heal a lifetime, but an unfortunate childhood can be healed with a lifetime.
Money is not the only measure of a family.
In addition to basic living security, children need the love of their parents in the process of growing up.
A good native family can exercise a positive and sunny child.
And Zhang Mo's native family is obviously unfortunate.
Coupled with his mother's disregard, his father's excessive connivance, and his own lack of progress.
As a result, Zhang Mo's life became what it is now.
I hope that all parents will take this as a warning and give their children a warm home.
I also hope that Zhang Mo can get out of the haze of childhood as soon as possible, return to the family, and be filial to his parents.
Text | Nan Nan