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preface
There are many star couples in the entertainment industry who are in love because of drama, some love and sweetness, some turn against each other, and finally embark on the road of divorce.
And when the star couple divorces, in order not to affect their respective acting careers, they will also try to suppress public opinion as much as possible, but there is such a typical couple in the entertainment industry, divorced for 26 years but still entangled, that is, Song Dandan and Yingda.
Many netizens suspected: "The divorce of the two is another hidden affair, Song Dandan was calculated..." So is the suspicion of netizens correct? What exactly happened between the two?
Song Dandan tells of a failed marriage
In January 2021, Song Dandan was invited to participate in the variety show "Strange Words", and was asked about the topic of "first love" in the program, Song Dandan was very calm, and said and laughed about the marriage secrets that had been buried in his heart for a long time.
When she was young, she also had a sweet first love, and the first date between the two was also chosen in the zoo, and when they were about to leave after visiting the zoo, the two kissed each other sweetly across the fence, thinking that this life was necessary for each other, but the relationship had no results, and finally broke up.
Later, in order to be able to make up for the pain caused by his first love, three months later, Song Dandan chose to flash marry others to eliminate his pain, but this lightning marriage, the consequences are also serious, the two quarreled constantly because of various small things, and even had the idea of divorce.
So, after only one year of the marriage, the two ended the marriage on the grounds of incompatible personalities.
After the divorce, Song Dandan decided to turn sadness into motivation and strive to develop her acting career, and then during the filming of the drama "Arsonist", Song Dandan met Yingda, and the two talked very happily in the process of getting along, and at this time, Song Dandan was in urgent need of another person to help her come out of her sadness because of the failure of her marriage, Yingda's appearance brought her warmth and happiness, and soon the two fell in love and got married.
But after marriage, her husband Yingda was busy with work all day, went home less often, and cared less about his family and wife and children, and Song Dandan felt lost and lonely in his heart, so he publicly said that he cheated in marriage, forcing Yingda to agree to divorce.
Then the public opinion was in an uproar, and netizens talked about the divorce and cheating of Song Dandan and Yingda, so what is the marriage between the two?
Song Dandan's derailment has other hidden secrets
Looking back at the marriage of Song Dandan and Yingda, it is not difficult to find that the two also have a lot in common, Song Dandan had a brief marriage before marrying Yingda, and Yingda was married once before this, but the difference is that this man is very proud of his previous marriage, and said that in that marriage the other party "betrayed" him.
After Yingda and his former wife got married, they went to the United States to study together, but after graduation, his wife changed the agreement between the two and decided to stay in the United States to work, while Yingda returned to China, and the two broke up unhappily and eventually divorced, and then Yingda also labeled his ex-wife as "betrayal".
After returning to China, Yingda worked as an intern assistant director in the filming of the drama "Arsonist", and at this time, Song Dandan happened to play a small role in this drama, and the two looked down and did not look up during the filming process on the set, plus they are both Beijingers, naturally there are many more common topics.
And Song Dandan's personality is very hearty, the two in the process of getting along, but also said anything, Song Dandan also regarded Yingda as a confiding object, told each other about his last failed marriage, Yingda also deeply agreed, and Song Dandan shared his story, so the two became good friends.
After that, during the filming process, Yingda also cared about and took care of Song Dandan, which also made Song Dandan, who had just experienced a divorce, feel warm, and then after a shooting, Song Dandan found Yingda to show his feelings for him, and the two were together.
Two years later, in the summer of 1989, the two entered the palace of marriage, and Song Dandan's acting career began to rise sharply after marriage.
In this year, Song Dandan was invited to the Spring Festival Gala, and her performance on the stage was very wonderful and loved by many audiences.
But not long after, Song Dandan became pregnant, and in the face of family and career, she did not give up her work, went home to raise a baby and have a child, but participated in several sketches during her pregnancy, and quickly became popular.
After the explosion, Song Dandan not only rose in fame, but also brought higher and higher salaries, which made her husband Yingda gradually become unbalanced.
Because Yingda graduated from Peking University, coupled with his experience in studying abroad, so his personality has also become very proud, watching his wife become more and more popular day by day, and his name is forgotten by everyone, for a long time, everyone still called him "Song Dandan's husband", for a while Yingda felt that he was very faceless, and was pressed by his wife.
Later, because his career did not develop smoothly, the works he shot were never recognized by everyone, and Yingda's self-esteem was frustrated for a long time, and negative emotions also breeded, and then he did not care about Song Dandan in the past, and he was not even willing to return home.
Until Song Dandan gave birth, Yingda still rarely went home, indifferent to his wife and children, Song Dandan noticed the psychological changes of her husband Yingda, and began to run forward and back to pull Yingda together.
Until 1993, Yingda wanted to shoot a sitcom, and at that time, because he had never filmed this type of drama before, no one from the funders dared to risk supporting him, while Song Dandan was fully supportive, and even used his connections to find actors and investors, and also pulled his best friend Liang Huan to be the screenwriter.
Later, Yingda's "I Love My Home" drama not only won the Outstanding Comedy Award that year, but also made him famous in the directing industry, but Song Dandan's help to Yingda did not restore the relationship between the two to the beginning, on the contrary, let the relationship between the two go farther and farther, and the reason for this was also picked up by careful netizens.
A netizen once secretly broke the news that the real reason for the relationship between the two was getting farther and farther apart was not because Song Dandan was too red, and pressing Yingda made him faceless, but that Yingda liked Song Dandan's best friend Liang Huan, and finally forced Song Dandan to divorce himself, which was also premeditated by Yingda in advance, and it was Yingda who calculated Song Dandan...
Before the filming of the drama "I Love My Home", Yingda had already known Liang Huan, because Liang Huan's family and Yingda's family had a family affair, and the two families occasionally gathered together to eat, naturally the two also knew, and then when filming this drama, on the surface, it was strange Song Dandan who led wolves into the room, but in fact, the two had already had private contacts.
By filming the TV series, Yingda and Liang Huan got together again, often chatting and communicating, plus Yingda was tired of Song Dandan pressing him, in contrast, Yingda naturally chose to be with Liang Huan.
It didn't take long for the crew to have rumors that Yingda cheated on Liang Huan, and everyone also knew that Yingda was Song Dandan's husband, and some people told Song Dandan about the intimate behavior of the two in private, but Song Dandan didn't believe it at first, and ran to Yingda to ask about it.
And Yingda naturally won't admit it, so he told Song Dandan that those are rumors are not true, Song Dandan looked at the eyes of the two when they communicated, and also found some clues, just for the sake of the child, did not say it, so he decided to turn a blind eye and let this matter pass.
But Yingda and Liang Huan's approach became more and more excessive, and even the two went out to dinner alone, Song Dandan couldn't bear to call Yingda and said that he wanted to divorce, and Yingda also knew that once there was a divorce as a public figure, it would definitely affect his reputation and career, so he refused Song Dandan's divorce, and claimed that he was just eating with Liang Huan to discuss work, and there was nothing else.
At this time, Song Dandan didn't believe it at all, but there was no substantial evidence, and after repeatedly looking for Yingda without success, he said angrily: "Aren't you very face-loving, then I'll give you a cuckold, don't believe you don't divorce!" ”
And Yingda is still indifferent, which also makes Song Dandan completely lose his mind, so he disclosed the news of divorce to the media, and said that the reason why the two divorced was because they were unfaithful to marriage and had an extramarital affair.
Subsequently, Yingda also agreed to Song Dandan's request for divorce, and claimed: "Song Dandan cheated in marriage, I don't blame her, only blame myself for being busy with work and not having time to care about her..." This remark caused heated discussions among netizens.
Spread on the Internet: "I really feel worthless for Yingda, Song Dandan has no morality in engaging in extramarital affairs, shameless, and irresponsible..."
However, shortly after the two divorced, news came that Yingda and Liang Huan were married.
At this time, netizens also realized that the divorce was not what Song Dandan said: "Yingda divorced and married someone else, think about whether he was already with others when Song had not yet exposed his cheating, Yingda's chess game is really powerful, counting his wife and children in it, the first to cheat is not to mention divorce, cold violence Song Dandan, when she can't help but mention divorce, everyone's public opinion will point to her..."
Later, some netizens commented: "Song Dandan claimed that he cheated, but he couldn't stand Yingda's cheating, so he said so in order to want to divorce Yingda, but the two eventually divorced, and the most hurt was the children..."
So in the face of the divorce of the two, what affected the child Batuu, and what now?
The failure of the marriage hurts the children the most
At the time of divorce, Batu was only 7 years old, without the role of a father in life, he often suffered from the white eyes and bullying of others, Song Dandan in order to protect him, but also intervened in everything, over time, Batu's character became more timid, indecisive, very poor ability to deal with things, and often liked to rely on others.
And after the divorce, Yingda not only married but also had two children with Liang Huan, Yingda is also very fond of these two children, especially his youngest son, knowing that his son likes to play ice hockey, so he sent him to a professional learning institution to train, in contrast, Batu did not get the care of his father Yingda.
Yingda also claimed in a variety show that he only has one son of Ying Rudi, Batu is not surnamed Ying, and in private Yingda is unwilling to give Batu his phone number.
What's more, Batu's grandfather died of illness, Batu asked his father Yingda several times, wanting to go back to pay homage to his grandfather, but in the end he refused, and even refused to let Batu in, at this moment Batu was completely disappointed in his father.
Now more than ten years have passed, Batu is also married and has a son, the family of three lives very happily, and often takes Song Dandan to live together, and the son and daughter-in-law are very filial.
At this time, Yingda seemed to be very defeated, living alone at home, his wife and children were developing abroad, at this time, Yingda remembered Batu again, and repeatedly proposed to Batu to see his grandson.
But Batu was naturally unwilling, and then also refused Yingda's request, but Yingda pestered and shouted: "I divorced your mother back then, because your mother cheated in marriage, and it was she who was wrong, and now I can't even look at my own grandson, are you too ruthless..."
As soon as this remark came out, netizens came forward one after another and said: "It's been 26 years since the divorce, we finally understood this big chess game you played, before marriage, it was clear that he first engaged in underground affairs, cheated on Song Dandan's best friend Liang Huan, but pretended to be innocent, and did not divorce Song Dandan, and then he was even more cold and violent Song Dandan, and finally forced Song Dandan to say that he was cheating, so that he was able to agree to divorce along the water, now it depends on his grandson, and blame Song Dandan for the mistake in front of his son, you are really powerful in this chess..."
More netizens said bluntly: "Yingda's wife and son now ignore you, they also deserve it, in the early years, they ignored Song Dandan's mother and son, and now they feel lonely and want to find their son, but as a result, their son does not pay attention to you, so you move out of Song Dandan's cheating, although the chess game is good, but no one looks at it..."
epilogue
From acquaintance to mutual resentment, and then to the final stranger, the love life of Song Dandan and Yingda is like this, and how many couples in the entertainment industry are not like this, everyone shows that Xing's marriage is the most unreliable, but the reality is also the same, lightning marriage and quick divorce, what is this for?
The marriage of celebrities seems to be mixed with various interests, many stars choose to get married for their own interests, and they will also choose to divorce because of interests or other temptations, but whether it is celebrities or us ordinary people, the most hurt after divorce is not only the two parties personally, but also involves children and the families of both parties, and everyone needs to be cautious in the face of marriage in the future.
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