"At the beginning of man, the nature is good", it is worth that when everyone is born, they are like a "blank piece of paper", naïve and pure, not familiar with the world, it is with continuous growth and seeing more things that will form personal character and ideas, and thus become an independent individual.
As the old saying goes, "three years old see big, seven years old see old", look at a person's appearance when he is a child, you can see what he looks like when he grows up, and behavior also determines future development, and 7 years old happens to be an important stage of entering primary school, although it is simple and simple, but basically should understand the truth.
Especially in the Internet era, all kinds of information are huge and flooded, and adults still can't tell the truth from the fake, let alone children? Especially they are in the stage of ignorance and fearlessness, and it is likely that even they do not know whether their actions are right or wrong!
The 7-year-old boy took his mother's "intimate photo", which is chilling: people don't rot all at once!
"He/she is still a child, what can she understand?" This sentence is not very familiar, often used by elders as an excuse to cover up mistakes, as if all the mistakes of children should be forgiven, and it is wrong for others to say more.
But does a person suddenly become bad? The answer is no, everyone's growth is a process, experiencing setbacks, happiness and many other things, in order to gradually form a sound personality and thinking.
In contrast, many young parents in order not to let their children follow their own "old road", will pay more attention to student education, but also respect students' personal privacy, so that students can grow freely, but obviously not completely "laissez-faire", uneven will bring "shock" to parents.
A mother said on the Internet that her son is 7 years old this year, usually likes to play mobile games, and likes to take photos of himself, one day the father took his son, looked at his son's mobile phone only to find that the mobile phone album is full of mother's photos, and sourly said: My son loves you so much, I will shoot you if I don't take pictures.
But soon the two couldn't laugh, because the photos gradually changed from eating and sleeping to "private photos", such as secretly taking photos from the crack in the door when my mother was bathing, and photos of myself wearing cool pajamas when sleeping.
The two felt that something was wrong and asked their son why he took these photos, but at first he refused to say, but after his father repeatedly pressed him, his son told the truth and said: his netizens have new skins, and he also wants them, and the way to get new skins is to share photos of the daughters in the family.
And this remark is also chilling, what kind of group will use students to do this kind of bad behavior, and even "one person a dollar" crowdfunding, you can get a new skin, the price is a woman's photo.
And the 7-year-old boy took his mother's "private photos", which also made people sigh: sure enough, people don't rot all at once! Without parents knowing, it will be slowly eroded by darkness. And then think of some college students secretly photographing women's toilets, girls' skirts and other behaviors, isn't this what they look like when they grow up?
Behind the natural "bad seed" is the lack of family education, and parents should not be careless
Students of lower ages often do not have a systematic concept of their own behavior, and the views of good and evil, right and wrong, and outlook on life need a little transmission and guidance from parents.
Just as a 7-year-old boy wanted to play with a new skin, he knew that it was wrong, but he still couldn't resist the temptation to do it, mainly because the parents did not notice the problem, did not understand the needs of the students, and did not pay attention to the real purpose behind the students' daily behavior.
The author believes that small trees are not repaired or straight, in the face of major right and wrong, parents should have the correct three views, transmit students' more correct behaviors and concepts, especially "sex education" can not be ignored!
Correct view of students' mistakes, active guidance is the key, parents need to start with themselves
No man is born perfect, let alone be born to know, all sentient beings, everyone will make mistakes, but the size of the mistake is not the same, some small mistakes can be slightly guided, but some big mistakes need to be paid attention to, and constantly transmit students' more correct thinking and ideas, so that students know what is right and what is wrong, but don't expose any mistakes gently, then grow up?
Parents should also give students positive feedback, recognize students' correct behaviors and thoughts, and encourage students to express themselves bravely, so that students can better understand what is wrong, and at the same time have the ability to accept mistakes, rather than scolding and criticizing at every turn if there is a slight mistake, that is just a symptomatic treatment.
Good family education is often the basis for guiding students on the right path, but external factors can not be ignored, especially the flood of network information, which will also make students of lower ages unconsciously "crooked", but when parents guide in time, they will naturally go on the right track.
Written at the end: children's "evil", often the real "evil", they do not understand what is right and wrong, just by subconscious action to do it, and to become good and bad need a process, "boiled frog" is also a very simple truth, parents can seize the opportunity, actively guide students, and transmit students' correct and correct three views, but don't let it go, that will only eat its own consequences!
Topic: What do you think is "evil" for children?
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