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Kou Shixun, a professional family on the screen, also lived himself as a "master" in life, not only had a wife and a concubine, but also each woman gave him a son and a daughter, and they lived in a house and were happy.
But in recent years, he has publicly stated that he has some regrets and will never choose such a life again.
Why is that?
●—≺ Gratitude for the wife, the grace of knowing ≻—●
His original match is Cui Yaoqi, the two have known each other since childhood, they are childhood sweethearts, and when he was not famous, Cui Yaoqi has always been by his side.
Cui Yaoqi has a docile personality, an atmospheric appearance, and a kind of nobility in her gestures, and she is still a good hand at housework.
If it weren't for Cui Yaoqi's repeated encouragement and support for him to take on his first play, he might never have had a chance to become famous.
In the early years, because of his facial features and tall and burly figure, he was selected by the director to join the crew.
But at that time, the public's aesthetic was biased towards the cream boy, so he never got the opportunity to star.
When cornered, the opportunity quietly came to the door, when the "Pure Love" crew was looking for a male protagonist, but because the male protagonist in the plot was burned by fire and his face was destroyed, many famous actors could not put down the shelf and were unwilling to star.
After several twists and turns, the crew found Kou Shixun, hoping that he could play the male protagonist, and he has been hesitating after receiving the invitation, after all, filming with a burn costume affects his personal image.
Cui Yaoqi thinks this is an opportunity, because this drama does not look at appearance and acting skills, which just avoids the disadvantages of his appearance. Hearing his wife say this, he had an epiphany at once and immediately agreed to participate in the show.
Sure enough, as soon as the TV series was broadcast, it immediately exploded and became the trump card in the ratings of major TV stations.
Kou Shixun also became popular because of this, and received many TV series invitations one after another, and he finally had a place in the entertainment industry.
To gain the recognition of the audience and the director, it is inseparable from his wife's original suggestion, and Kou Shixun has always been grateful to the original partner Cui Yaoqi.
The husband and wife have such a deep relationship, how did the "concubine" take advantage of the void and win Kou Shixun?
After Kou Shixun became popular, he went around filming in various places, and the number of times he went home became less and less, and after his wife Cui Yaoqi gave birth to a son and a daughter, the focus of life was on children, and the communication between the two became less and less.
Cui Yaoqi also wanted to contact him more, but the housework was too trivial, and she was afraid of disturbing his mind and delaying his shooting, so she always chose to avoid talking about it.
Kou Shixun is busy on the set every day like a spinning top, and sometimes he is very tired and wants to ask Cui Yaoqi for concern, but as soon as he calls his wife and is taking care of his children, he is embarrassed to say it again.
The husband and wife do not meet often, and rarely communicate by phone, and gradually the relationship fades.
Kou Shixun handed over the salary he received to Cui Yaoqi every month, which became a regular communication between the husband and wife.
Cui Yaoqi originally thought that the old husband and wife were gone, and there was no saying that it was normal, as long as the children were taken care of, even if they fulfilled their responsibilities as a wife. As everyone knows, at this time, there are already other women who have taken a fancy to their husbands.
Kou Shixun's emotions were nowhere to be released, and a woman named Xu Lidan walked into his line of sight and entered his heart step by step.
Xu Lidan was originally a bodybuilding lady, but after winning the ranking in the competition, she never had a chance to develop, so she turned to the crew to film.
At that time, Kou Shixun was distressed because of poor communication with his wife, and there was nowhere to solve his troubles, Xu Lidan was not only sweet-looking, but also very understanding, plus admired Kou Shixun very early, and the two got closer and closer in the crew.
At the beginning, Kou Shixun regarded Xu Lidan as the object of confiding, but the lonely man and widow spent a long time in the same room, talking about everything, and always had to spark. Kou Shixun did not control himself in the end and was with Xu Lidan.
Xu Lidan knew that he had a wife and children, and he did not expect to have a name, as long as he could be with him.
After knowing Xu Lidan's thoughts, he couldn't calm down in his heart for a long time, on the one hand, he was the wife of his childhood sweetheart, and on the other hand, he was a new love who was always around, and he didn't know how to choose.
Just when he was in a dilemma, Cui Yaoqi learned from others that he had cheated on Xu Lidan. Cui Yaoqi called to ask if he was real, and he was silent for a long time and replied: It's true.
He originally thought that Cui Yaoqi would cry and shout, accusing him of not being easy over the years, and scolding him for being a negative man. But Cui Yaoqi did not do this, but said calmly: "Bring her back, I'll take a look!" ”
He couldn't figure out Cui Yaoqi's true thoughts, so he prepared to break the cauldron and sink the boat and brought Xu Lidan home.
As soon as she entered the house, Cui Yaoqi received Xu Lidan warmly and did not talk about the relationship between the three. The three of them sat at the same dining table to eat, and Kou Shixun and Xu Lidan looked very uncomfortable.
After Cui Yaoqi saw the restraint of the two, she put down the bowl and chopsticks and said: "She can enter the door, but the financial power must be controlled by me!" ”
When Kou Shixun heard this, his jaw dropped in shock, since he promised to take Xu Lidan home, he had rehearsed many kinds of scenes of the three meeting in his mind.
But he didn't expect Cui Yaoqi to be so calm, and offered to "live with three people"!
Kou Shixun originally made a divorce plan to leave the house, but now it was completely disrupted, and in the face of Cui Yaoqi's request, he agreed without thinking.
After getting Kou Shixun's affirmative answer, Cui Yaoqi walked back to the room with her strength, and then cried loudly.
It's not that she can't let go of Kou Shixun, but she can't bear to see a pair of children lose their fathers, and she is unwilling to give up her hard-working family business.
If Cui Yaoqi is really as generous as she shows, how can she ask for control of financial power? She just wants to fight for the greater good for herself and her children.
How have the three of them lived all these years?
●—≺ Upstairs and downstairs, there is a discussion and a quantity ≻—●
At first, Kou Shixun thought very simply, and found a room for Xu Lidan in the existing house. Every night when Kou Shixun went to Xu Lidan's room to spend the night, Cui Yaoqi could hear the footsteps passing by.
Cui Yaoqi is looking forward to Kou Shixun coming to his room more, but how can he and Xu Lidan be considered newlywed Yan'er, naturally every day is like glue, and the original equipment is snubbed!
One night, after Cui Yaoqi heard Kou Shixun go to Xu Lidan's room again, she couldn't help but burst into emotions and cried.
The son saw Cui Yaoqi crying sadly, so angry that he knocked on the door and called Kou Shixun out to quarrel. Kou Shixun then knew how much damage he had inadvertently caused to Cui Yaoqi.
After thinking about it, Kou Shixun decided to change to a three-story single-family villa, Cui Yaoqi lived on the third floor, Xu Lidan lived on the second floor, and the lobby on the first floor was a public area.
This not only established Cui Yaoqi's status as the main room, but Kou Shixun would not pass by her room when he went to find Xu Lidan again, adding to her troubles.
Sure enough, after Kou Shixun arranged it this way, Cui Yaoqi's mood was obviously much better, and her attitude towards Xu Lidan was also eased.
After Kou Shixun returned home, he often saw the two talking and laughing in the kitchen cooking, and even going out for beauty together.
The peaceful scene at home made Kou Shixun feel very relieved and enjoyed, but after a long time, he was a little overwhelmed.
Why is that?
●—≺ Impartiality, Master Duanshui≻—●
He wanted to make fairness a seamless matter at home, and even gave birth to children, so that his wife and concubine had a son and a daughter respectively.
What Cui Yaoqi has, Xu Lidan must also have, and the four children must be impartial at all times.
Every time he comes home, he plays the role of Duanshui Master, like a tightrope walking acrobat, who will fall into the abyss at the slightest mistake.
When the tongue did not touch the teeth, the wife and the concubine lived together every day, and naturally when there were quarrels and fights, he also had to play the role of judge.
He juggled between his wife and concubines every day, for fear that he would favor either side and make everyone unhappy.
Adults sometimes don't account so much because of face, children are different, once they find out who the father gave a little more smile, they have to make a big fuss.
The palm of his hand is meat, and the back of his hand is also meat, so he has to try to be fair, usually buying food with double portions, a son and a daughter on both sides are the same.
Even on the phone, he had to call his sons and daughters on both sides separately, saying the same thing twice.
Even if he is in a bad mood, he must patiently communicate with his wife and children on both sides, for fear of snubbing one side.
Years of caution have long since lost the happiness of having a wife and a concubine.
And he had to take on the responsibility of supporting his family, so much so that he had to stay up on set with young people at an age.
Kou Shixun has endured the life of one wife and one concubine for so many years, why did it break out at this time?
This also starts with his sudden "stroke" on the set, although he was sent to the hospital in time and his symptoms were not serious, he obviously felt that his physical fitness had declined, and he was unable to return to the crew to shoot.
It stands to reason that he could have retired at this age and live at home, but because he has two wives, two sons and two daughters to support, and the family of seven has a lot of expenses, he can't enjoy the blessing if he wants to.
In recent years, affected by online short videos, the traditional TV industry is difficult to splash, and the ratings of several TV series he participated in are dismal.
He supported a large family of income sources, relying only on a meager salary, often stretched thin.
If two sons want to marry and have children, he needs to prepare the marriage room and the dowry, and if the two daughters want to marry, he needs to prepare the dowry.
To maintain a delicate and decent life, the two wives need him to pay high fees.
A large family needs money everywhere, and as soon as he opens his eyes, he has to run non-stop.
The long period of mental tension consumed Kou Shixun's love for his family. For him, life now is more like a "sweet burden", to be precise, a little heavier.
Everyone envied his happy life of one wife and one concubine, but only he knew the suffering.
In the face of media interviews, he helplessly said that he regretted it, if he could re-elect, he would definitely not choose three people to live together.