"Hello, my name is so-and-so..." This is the first thing people often say when introducing themselves. A name is a symbol of a person, but also a symbol of a person's identity. A good name can make an impression.
Therefore, many parents will rack their brains when naming their children. From the child's name, you can also see the parents' expectations and blessings. However, when some children grow up, because they do not like their own names, there are many cases of requesting to change their names.
A young man after 00, in order to change the name, he took a lot of trouble.
<h1>Wu Yifan, a young man after 00, applied to change his name, only because his name was similar to his</h1>
Wu Yifan, speaking of this name, if it is not somewhat related to Wu Yifan, it may not attract your attention at all. Before Wu Yifan did not "have an accident", as a top stream, his name was very valuable. Even if you have a little touch with him, it will attract much attention.
Since Wu Yifan was arrested, there has been a strong contrast, and everything about him has been despised, even by name.
Wu Yifan, a 00-year-old boy in Nanling, Anhui, was very troubled because of his name. Although there is only a one-word difference, wu yifan is almost exactly the same as Wu Yifan in pronunciation.
Before Wu Yifan did not "roll over", the young man did not have such a big opinion on his name. However, after Wu Yifan became a prisoner of the order, others knew that his name was Wu Yifan, and he always threw a strange look, which made him feel very uncomfortable, and it had affected his normal life.
In the end, the young man went to the police station and applied for a name change. After the successful name change, he breathed a sigh of relief, saying that he had "finally regained his life."
However, it is still relatively rare to change your name because your name is the same as the name of a star. In daily life, the most common situation is that your name is the same as the name of ordinary people, or even exactly the same, resulting in an embarrassing situation.
<h1>Parents follow the trend and take the name for a while, but it is the child who is bitter</h1>
When the school started in September, a first-grade teacher complained that he had brought a freshman class, and on the first day of school, he was caused a headache by the student's name.
"A class gathered Xinyi, Jiaxin, Jiayi, Zihao, Haojie, Zihan, Zixuan... When I read the name, I felt like I was speaking crosstalk at the Deyun Society. ”
Although some parents may not be very happy when they hear it, they feel that their children's names are taken by their parents, there are so many people in China, and there is no fuss about the similar names. But the survey tells us that it's not that simple.
The post-80s and post-90s generations all grew up watching Taiwanese idol dramas and Korean dramas, and after becoming parents, they gave their children names, and there was also a strong Taste of Mary Sue. For example, Xinyi, Jiaxin, Zihan, Yuxuan and other romantic names, among the children after 00 and 10, the repetition rate is very high.
A company in Suzhou conducted a survey and found that among the names of 5 million newborns, the three words Xuan, Han and Zi appeared most frequently. Among them, the male baby is called Zixuan the most, and the female baby is called Zihan the most.
A set of data released by the Household Administration Research Center of the Ministry of Public Security also shows that the three names most used by female newborns in 2020 are Yinuo, Yinuo and Xinyi, and the three names most used by male newborns are Yichen, Yuxuan and Haoyu.
Parents of the post-80s and post-90s, see here, have you been shot?
It can only be said that the names of people of different eras have distinct characteristics of the times. Parents of the post-80s and post-90s may not think so much when naming their children, simply think that the name is good, or others use this word, then we are also right.
However, for children, recognizing their own name is an important stage of self-awareness, if you often "collide" with others, children will inevitably have resistance to their own names, think that their names are "common", have no sense of exclusivity, and are prone to become inferior.
In addition, the repetition rate is too high, and the teacher does not easily remember the child's name. After all, there are dozens of children in a class, if there are several children called "Zixuan, Zixuan, Yuxuan" at the same time, then the teacher is also easy to confuse, resulting in a decrease in the attention of children with the same name, which is not conducive to improving academic performance.
Not only in school, but also in society when you grow up, you will also because the name repetition rate is too high, affecting communication, so that it is gradually marginalized, which is not conducive to the development of the workplace.
<h1>Give your child the name Long Dim Sum, several ways to refer to</h1>
Therefore, when parents name their children, they really have to have a snack and do not blindly follow the trend, so as not to adversely affect their children's lives.
There are many ways to choose a name, and you don't have to stare at idol dramas. Of course, some parents want to find another way, let the child's name flourish, deliberately take a strange word, it is also not advisable, the same may make the child frustrated in the name.
XiaoYa Ma summed up several methods, if parents have encountered bottlenecks in naming their children, they may wish to refer to it:
1. Flip through dictionaries and ancient books
Flipping through the dictionary to name is the practice of many parents, especially when the name of the child has no clue, randomly open the dictionary, find a word with a good meaning, and then combine, a good name will come out. Chinese culture is broad and profound, and in some ancient books and classics, there are also many good names hidden, such as the "Book of Poetry", "Chu Ci", etc., parents can read more and find the right one.
2. Check the naming network
If parents have already thought about what name to give their children, they can first check the duplicate name rate on the Internet, if the duplicate name rate is too high, it is recommended to give up another name. Parents can also search for some better names on the naming network, and then combine the actual situation to select a few satisfactory ones and let the family vote for one.
3. Ask for help from netizens or knowledgeable people
Xiaoya's mother often sees parents posting on the Internet for help, asking the vast number of netizens to give their babies a name. Not to mention, some netizens still take the name of quite a level, parents can try it. Or you can ask the knowledgeable people around you to "give" a name. People with a wide range of knowledge are more particular about naming names, and it is easier to come up with good names.
Write at the end:
The name is the first gift a parent gives to a child and must be taken seriously. As the saying goes, "Man is his name." "In a way, names may also affect a person's life. Therefore, when naming children, parents should spend more time. If you also have any tips for naming names, you may wish to share them with you in the comments section!