On the afternoon of February 27, 2021, Wu Mengda, a gold medal laugher, passed away due to illness.
His departure has caused many people to grieve, but looking back on his life, it seems that he has a bad record.
Not only did he get caught up in gambling and lose his family property, but he also lingered in the flowers and played with all the beauties. In the end, he gained 3 wives and 5 children.
Such a person, such an act should have been pushed to the "shame shelf" by everyone a long time ago, but he was highly respected in this life, why is this?
After he left, he left only half of his inheritance to his current wife, why is that?
What kind of life did the third wife, who was 22 years younger than him, live? Let's take a look at it today.
Wu Mengda was born in Xiamen, although his family was not very good when he was born.
But then my father started a small business and unexpectedly made a good life for the family.
Seeing that the business was doing well, his father wanted Wu Mengda to inherit his "mantle" and return home to do business in the future. But Wu Mengda had no interest in doing business at all.
He wanted to be an actor, for no other reason than to feel the scenery after the explosion.
But his father could never agree, so he had to secretly run to apply for the artist training course, originally thinking of learning behind his father's back, and then telling his father when he had achieved something.
As a last resort, after Wu Mengda swore in every possible way that he would not delay doing business, his father was relieved.
It was during the training course that Wu Mengda met Chow Yun-fat. At that time, most of the people who chose to enter the course were from families with difficulties, so everyone was very poor.
However, Wu Mengda has money in business, so he often invites everyone to eat, drink and have fun everywhere.
It is said that the relationship between Zhou Yunfa and Wu Mengda is so good, Zhou Yunfa often lives in Wu Mengda's house, and even sometimes uses Wu Mengda's new purchase after wearing underwear.
It can be said that such a relationship is really good.
At the same time, Wu Mengda met his lover.
This woman is called Mi Lili, and by chance, Wu Mengda, who is lingering in the flowers, accidentally noticed this "butterfly", so he pursued it at all costs, and finally under his fierce attack, Mi Lily sank.
The two who fell in love soon got married and didn't even take a little time to cultivate their relationship.
After marriage, the appearance of a pair of twin girls brought their happiness to another level.
I thought that this kind of life was also on track, the husband worked hard to earn money outside, and the wife took care of the children and the family at home.
However, soon all this disappeared with Wu Mengda's popularity.
In 1979, Wu Mengda survived the road of actor, and the role in "The Legend of Chu Liuxiang" made him suddenly fire from Hong Kong to Taiwan, and it is not an exaggeration to say that he was one of the "top streams" at that time.
Wu Mengda, who easily achieved the ideal of "scenery", suddenly floated, and he began to sink in the life of drunken gold fans.
"I can't hold on."
To say that he is scum, he is indeed very honest, and every time he is asked these questions by a reporter in front of the camera, he can very honestly reveal his heart.
But his sobriety only exists in his mind, and in reality he is still profligate, and then he gradually fell in love with gambling, and soon consumed all the savings he had accumulated when he was in the scene.
Although life has become like this, Mi Lili still does not back down, she feels that as a husband and wife, she should face and get through these storms together.
So she seriously appeased Wu Mengda every day, hoping to wake him up with her own intimate heart, and indeed this method had some results, but unfortunately, such a good relationship did not last long.
After working hard and putting aside distractions for a while, Wu Mengda began to hook up with his sisters and sisters outside.
Ignoring his wife's thoughts, he directly lived with actress Lu Shaoci outside, which is even if he let the other party give birth to a daughter of two.
How embarrassing Mi Lili's situation was at that time, you can imagine. But Wu Mengda seems to have a little conscience, considering the grace of husband and wife for many years, he did not file for divorce with Mi Lili, but rarely went home.
I thought it would be good to live like this, although there is no love, but the name is there.
But what Mi Lili didn't expect, even Lu Shaoci didn't expect, was that he didn't want to divorce just because he hadn't met the person he really wanted to marry home.
In 1993, on the set of "Happy Events in the Flower Field", Wu Mengda saw the slim girl as soon as he entered: Hou Shanyan.
For Wu Mengda, although there is a wife at home and a lover outside, this cannot stop him from wanting to pursue the little girl.
At that time, Hou Shanyan was still a fledgling little girl, where could she resist the temptation of the veteran of the love scene, and quickly delivered her sincerity.
Seeing that Wu Mengda was so unrestrained, Mi Lili completely collapsed, and she couldn't help but take the initiative to ask Wu Mengda for divorce.
And more devastated than Mi Lili is Lu Shaoci, she has always thought that her behavior of "moths to the fire" can make Wu Mengda collect her heart, and can completely let Wu Mengda get closer to her shore.
But the final result was abandonment, and it was at the cost of 5 years of nameless companionship and a daughter.
It can be imagined that with such a chaotic love history, everyone must be skeptical of Wu Mengda's new relationship.
The most important thing is that Wu Mengda at that time had long become a "rich man" with many films, and Hou Shanyan, a fledgling girl, looked like she saw Wu Mengda's money.
At that time, Hou Shanyan endured a lot of gossip, and I am afraid that ordinary people have long been unable to bear to break up, but Hou Shanyan is indeed different, she said very firmly: They say that they say, what should I do or what will I do.
In such a firm love, Hou Shanyan soon became pregnant.
If she could follow Wu Mengda without regret before she had children, but after having children, perhaps because of hormones, or perhaps for the sake of the child's future, she began to fear that her final outcome would be the same as Lu Shaoci.
In order not to let that terrible end befall her, Hou Shanyan took the initiative to give Wu Mengda a choice: get married and give birth to children; Leave, knock out the kids.
Xu's life of playing outside also tired Wu Mengda, and he finally chose to marry Hou Shanyan back home.
In 1996, the two entered the palace of marriage, and then their daughter was born.
When Wu Mengda was 51 years old, Hou Shanyan brought him another big surprise and gave him an experience of "getting a son of old age".
Life has always come to an end.
But at this time, a storm almost ruined the relationship between the two.
Inadvertently, Hou Shanyan found that Wu Mengda would always send money out regularly, and the amount was not small.
After learning about this, Hou Shanyan's first reaction was that this guy would not find a little wife outside again. So she found someone to help her investigate.
In the end, it was found that the money was actually remitted to his ex-wife Mi Lili and ex-girlfriend Lu Shaoci.
Over the years, Wu Mengda has been sending money to the two families he once abandoned, and it adds up to a lot of money.
This matter was so angry that Hou Shanyan didn't eat for several days, and after Wu Mengda returned home from filming that day, Hou Shanyan's overwhelming questioning reached his ears.
Hou Shanyan felt that since he had chosen to separate from them, he should not continue to entangle like this.
But in fact, this is one of the reasons why Wu Mengda is so amorous by nature, and finally gains everyone's respect.
Although he loves beauty, there is still kindness and responsibility in his heart, so he has very strong feelings of guilt in his heart for Mi Lili and Lu Shaoci.
That's why it was like that, and he didn't offer to break up with Mi Lili.
After the divorce, he would send money every month to the two women and children who had been hurt by himself, each of which was enough for them to live a comfortable life.
Although Hou Shanyan was very angry, she also sincerely admired this man.
In 2000, Wu Mengda was diagnosed with diabetes, he should have rested, but thinking of his 5 children, he still worked hard, shooting more than 20 works a year, such a work intensity is many young people can not do, but he did it, he is atonement for the absurdity of his youth.
"I want to earn more money to leave to them, they are all my children, and none of them can have a bad life."
To say that he is a good father, he is rarely seen when children grow up; But if he is not a good father, his love accompanies the children in every material comfort.
It is said that Wu Mengda gives each family 800,000 yuan a month for living expenses, which means that he sends out more than 2 million yuan a month, which is not a burden that ordinary people can bear, so he can only work hard.
For his ex, he gave them safety injections over and over again, telling them that no matter what they encountered, as long as it was "enough" to do something, he would not refuse.
In 2014, his body finally couldn't support it, and after fainting many times and being sent to the hospital for rescue, the media would break the news that he was about to die.
But every time he is in the movie, he is able to break the rumors.
But in fact, his body has indeed been unable to support his high-intensity work for a long time.
Once, when he was in the hospital, the doctor warned him that his body had developed heart failure and that if he did not recuperate, he could leave at any time.
But despite this, although lying on the hospital bed full of tubes, Wu Mengda still nags all day to get up quickly and go to work to earn more money for his family.
So he was still running between the crew when his body was very weak, and "The Wandering Earth" was filmed by him dragging his sick body.
In the face of such a Wu Mengda, the women who have been hurt by him actually get along very harmoniously, especially Hou Shanyan, as the most righteous one, has a good relationship with the other two and each other's children.
It is said that reporters often photograph Hou Shanyan taking Wu Mengda and several children born to others out to play.
Such a sacrifice made Wu Mengda very moved.
On the occasion of his death in 2021, Wu Mengda held Hou Shanyan's hand affectionately and said to her: I'm sorry for you in this life, and you will live well alone in the future.
Love is very complicated, it stands to reason that love mixed with so many foreign objects is not love at all in the eyes of many people, but Hou Shanyan was moved by it.
After Wu Mengda left, she was heartbroken and visibly emaciated. After enduring the strong sadness in her heart and dealing with Wu Mengda's death, she began a life alone.
Perhaps thinking that it is not easy for Hou Shanyan to take care of herself in this life, in short, in the end, Wu Mengda divided his inheritance into two halves, half of which was Hou Shanyan's, and the other half was divided equally among the children.
Faced with the inheritance left by Wu Mengda, Hou Shanyan did not enjoy it for herself, but began to devote herself to the care of Wu Mengda's parents.
Many people persuaded her to find someone to marry again, but she felt that it seemed good to live with the memories left by Wu Mengda.
In this way, a generation of golden supporting actors left this world with his legendary life.
He has been extremely absurd in this life, and many of the things he has done are ridiculous, but it is worth affirming that there is always a bottom line in his heart that reminds him: you can not be sorry, but you can't be sorry.
His affair broke the hearts of those around him, but his sense of responsibility enveloped everyone who had a happy time with him. We can't judge his life, but his sense of selfless responsibility is rare in the world.