In the era of AI intelligence, children need four abilities.
Stop training kids like crazy! It is urgent to cultivate these 4 abilities! Last year's AI robot took the college entrance examination and scored 105 points in 22 minutes. In the same year, the digital man Du Xiaoxiao created a propositional composition of 48 points in one second. So many people shouted that education should be reformed, and examination-oriented education can only cultivate a high score and low ability! Wrong! Everyone thinks about school education too important, you see Einstein Fabre, they can still bloom brilliantly under the exam education. Then this is inseparable from their excellent family education.
If you want to raise a future-oriented child, you must do these 4 things at home.
The first one: Cultivate a sense of meaning in children. In 2018, Peking University conducted an assessment of new students, and 40% of Peking University freshmen felt that living was meaningless and worthless. Because parents never tell their children what is valuable, you study well now and you can create value later. This is wrong. Because we should make the child feel that every moment he lives, he is creating value.
For example, if we go out to walk our baby, does this also increase the amount of exercise? Then you can tell him that thanks to you, I am healthier. Our family laughs and mom also begins to learn, often making the child feel that he has brought help and inspiration to his parents. So there is no point in living like this?
The second: develop children's ability to integrate. It is to encounter a thing, in addition to doing it yourself, think more, how can we borrow strength, how can we complete it more efficiently. Don't feel like you're powerful all day long, and no one cares about people who use resources, so that you can become the creator and user of tools in the future.
For example, I often ask my child to think from a system perspective, and when you see a courier, I ask him: What if you are a courier and can't contact the buyer? Do you have to wait for him all the time? Can you ask someone else to help you collect it? Is there any other way? The child will know. It turns out that the original express cabinet of Cainiao Station came into being, so the use of power can make children feel efficient and happy.
Develop children's aesthetic abilities. Don't underestimate this, I've never seen a well-dressed person living in embarrassment. So be sure to take your child with beautiful things, take him to the elegant shops of high-end shopping malls, and see more of the vast grasslands and majestic mountains.
Such a child, he can't wear ugly clothes, he can't live in a nest room, and the pursuit of life is the upper limit of his efforts. The ability to tell stories, in this world, it does not lack knowledge and reason, what is lacking is a moving story, people who can tell stories are easy to fall in love, and it is easier to talk about business.
So every week in our house, there will be a story meeting, stretch out five fingers, these 5 angles to tell an interesting story about his day. Remember that if you don't give your child the opportunity to express it, the child will not find it useful to give a thumbs up in the future. You can come to my live room.
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