Recently, Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing's Be aesthetics suddenly became popular - this marriage, which ended in 2009, has actually "died" for 14 years.
After 14 years apart, the two ex-offs have found a better partner for each other, but why is the public "obsessed" with their past stories?
In fact, digging deep into this "old thing", it is easy to find that it seems to gather all the elements of romance novels:
When the two met in Weiwei, a famous family later fell in love with the jade girl "Cinderella", they accompanied each other at the peak of their careers, but after more than 20 years of entanglement, in a rather bloody way, ended the bondage...
Looking at it now, the story of the two is comparable to the modern marriage apocalypse:
Yi Nengjing also tells a fantasy dream in her own way, and now, they each retreat into each other's lives, burying everything.
In fact, there are many such stories in your circle, but the real regret may not be the hero and heroine, but the audience who wants to live in their dreams.
1. The old story of "The Prince and Cinderella"
In 2009, Yu Chengqing, who was 48 years old, released an album called "18 Years Old Until Death", announcing that he was still full of vitality.
In the year before, he had been deeply involved in the divorce dispute with his predecessor Yi Nengjing.
This was a major event in the entertainment industry that year, after all, in the previous impression, Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing were a model couple in the Taiwan entertainment industry, and the two contributed many topics of affection together.
These have also become evidence of today's public archaeology of their "expired sugar".
Yi Nengjing, whose real name is Wu Jingyi, was born in a large family, she is the third daughter in the family, her father prefers sons to daughters, and she was told to her mother when she was not born: "If I have another daughter, I will have a son with others." ”
Therefore, the mother almost beat her off, but fortunately the neighbor said: "This child is quite like a son", so that Yi Nengjing survived.
Later, his father still left, and his mother had to go out to work, causing Yi Nengjing to grow up in a loveless environment since he was a child.
Until his mother married the Japanese Shomitsu Ino, Yinō Shizune also changed his name to Inō Shizue after his stepfather's surname.
Yu Chengqing's family is completely opposite to hers: her grandfather ran a cigarette factory and was the mayor of Kunming, her father Yu Jialin was in politics, and her mother was Zhang Zhengfen, a famous Peking opera actress.
Growing up in such a family, Yu Chengqing received a good education and strict tutoring since he was a child, so although he liked music, he did not debut until he graduated from college at the age of 25.
This is 1986, Yu Chengqing came out with his debut album "Sad Singer", which sold 100,000 copies, and he himself is responsible for the composition, arrangement, singing and production of all songs.
Because he successfully broke into the entertainment industry, he met Yi Nengjing, who was 8 years younger than him, when he participated in a variety show.
At that time, Yi Nengjing was discovered by singer Liu Wenzheng and invited her to join the Flying Eagle Sanshu girl group.
At the age of 17, she returned to Taiwan from Japan, and the headline of the news at that time was "Liu Wen is chasing the girl back from Japan", which made him have a scandal since his debut, and also made Yi Nengjing's topic directly soar.
The following year, Yi Nengjing met Yu Chengqing, and the two fell in love for 14 years, which can be said to be together "under the pressure of the world".
A long time later, she still said in an interview: "One is a talent, the other is a female idol, these two cannot be together."
Especially the man's mother Zhang Zhengfen has never looked down on Yi Nengjing, and once publicly described her as a "little song girl who is not in the flow".
And the de facto Yi Nengjing, soon after her debut, she achieved a cross-class level, in addition to singing, she also acted, and has been nominated for the Golden Horse Award twice for films.
Fortunately, Yu Chengqing was very good to her, and it is said that he once promised her:
"Believe me, although I don't have as much money as him now, I can make you ten thousand times happier in the future."
But in fact, these details about the relationship between the two were basically revealed by Yi Nengjing, because they have been in love for many years, and they have rarely appeared together in public.
The only time they walked hand in hand was at Anita Mui's public sacrifice ceremony.
The rest of the time, Yi Nengjing disclosed the intimacy of the two by herself:
For example, when he came home from work in the early morning, Yu Chengqing waited at the door;
She was bitten by a mosquito, and Yu Chengqing got up in the middle of the night to help her apply ice;
Finding out that the tumor may affect fertility, Yu Chengqing also bluntly said that "life is more important"...
In order to commemorate each other's love, Yi Nengjing also wrote a book "Life and Death Last Words":
"The best thing in my life is my husband, because I have known this man since I was 17, I have him in my 17, I have him in my 22, I have him in my 30s, I can't take it, that's it."
But in fact?
Why doesn't this story of the prince and Cinderella have a happy ending?
Perhaps the details have already told us the answer.
2. The "top-notch Be aesthetics" is actually full of holes
In 2000, Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing registered their marriage in the United States, and the beginning of this marriage seems to be problematic:
At that time, Yi Nengjing was found to have a tumor, and it was later found to be benign, and the two finally ended their long-distance love run because of this incident and chose to enter marriage.
In fact, before this, the woman had expressed her desire to get married more than once, but the man always felt that the time had not come.
Indeed, at that time, their relationship was always opaque and not yet supported by the man's family.
The two didn't even have a particularly decent date, they had only seen 3 movies in the 14 years of love, and they bought tickets separately, and "bounced off immediately" after watching them.
She also used to be full of fear and insecurity about this relationship:
"We never talked about being together, and once we broke up in that situation, my 10-year life would be blank."
Later, when talking about marriage in "Kangxi is Coming", Yi Nengjing looked giggling on the surface, but what he actually said was: "He proposed? It's good if I don't kneel", the implication is actually a lot of grievances.
What about life after marriage? She later used the phrase "that's not my home."
As mentioned above, Yu Chengqing grew up under strict tutoring since childhood, and even if he became famous as a singer in the future, he still lived with his parents.
Yi Nengjing also moved in after getting married, but in addition to her in-laws, there are also a large family of people such as her husband's aunt and sister to face.
After a long time, she revealed herself:
"I'm in your (Yu Chengqing's) house, with your family, and the TV never stops. But no time is your own. ”
Moreover, when she and her mother-in-law quarreled over trivial matters, Yu Chengqing would always stand on her mother's side, neither mediating nor supporting her wife.
Under heavy pressure, Yi Nengjing's marriage had irreversible problems, and later some netizens who knocked on this expired sugar found that she was on "Kangxi is coming" twice, and when talking about the other half, the state was diametrically opposite.
After getting married, every time she and her husband were photographed, they were walking, because "there are too many people in the family", resulting in the two of them having no two-person world at all.
Yi Nengjing once wrote in her autobiography about her feelings about this relationship, and her words were full of sadness and helplessness:
"Falling in love with you is destined to be a bitter love, and I indulge in it to feel all the joys and sorrows."
However, although she has been emotionally entangled in marriage and family life, Yi Nengjing's career luck has always been good, which can also glimpse the rational character characteristics under her weak appearance.
In 1999, Yi Nengjing has successfully transformed into an actor, and entered domestic entertainment to shoot "April Days on Earth", and then successively filmed "Daqing Harem" and "Huanhua Washing Sword Record" and other works.
It was also because of filming in the mainland that she met actor Huang Weide.
The man is 3 years younger than Yi Nengjing, and he was one of the popular students at that time, acting in "Princess Huaiyu" and "Jinghua Smoke".
The two met in the filming of the costume drama "Daqing Harem", and then they were photographed holding hands - this is also the famous "hand-holding door incident".
Ironically, on the day he was photographed, Yu Chengqingyuan took his son to buy vegetables in Taiwan.
When the news came, he immediately supported his wife: "Please don't chase the wind, Yi Nengjing will not betray the family." ”
But the photo is real, and Huang Weide then came forward to cry "whitewashing", saying that "Yi Nengjing took the initiative, and I am also a victim."
In fact, as early as 3 years ago, Yi Nengjing told the media that her love with her husband was too dull, "I really want to have a vigorous love."
After the outbreak of the "holding hands door" incident, she held a press conference and said firmly and bluntly without humility:
"My life is not a show, no media can interfere with my life, good or bad I define by myself."
Perhaps, it was this "openness" that made Yi Neng, who was deeply caught in the turmoil of derailment, land quietly and safely, and his career was not affected too much.
There are even many fans who believe that she deliberately took the hands of others to accelerate the disintegration of her marriage.
After a long time, Yi Neng Jingyun lightly thanked Jin Xing Yu Chengqing, and she said: "It's good that it's him, because he is kind." ”
The two broke up by agreement in 2009, Yi Nengjing turned back to the rhythm of serious career, and a few years later met actor Qin Hao, who was 10 years younger than him.
Since then, this relationship story that has been entangled for 23 years has come to an end.
It is worth mentioning that when Yi Nengjing announced his marriage to Qin Hao in a high-profile manner, Yu Chengqing was rumored to have "an uncomfortable heart" that day.
Since there was no wedding when the two got married, the woman held a grand wedding banquet with her current husband in a high-profile manner, and said bluntly more than once: "I finally have a wedding!" ”。
Yu Chengqing later changed the rules of his predecessor and said in an interview with Lu Yu: "I can't control it."
In 2016, Yi Nengjing, who married Qin Hao for a year, gave birth to a daughter in the United States, and her ex-husband Yu Chengqing married anchor Zhang Jiaxin, and then gave birth to a daughter and a son, and her life was more complete.
3. There are many aesthetics in your circle, and each paragraph is worth thinking about
In the entertainment industry, similar to the story of Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing, it is Sun Yi and Dong Zijian, who suddenly officially announced their divorce last year.
Dong Zijian's mother is "China's No. 1 agent" Wang Jinghua, and Sun Yi is a second-tier actress with general career development, so her love with Dong Zijian also shows the meaning of "sparrow becomes phoenix".
However, when the two were in love, Dong Zijian publicly showed affection countless times and praised him for marrying a good daughter-in-law, but in the end the relationship was born without warning.
The two have been together for 6 years and quickly gave birth to their daughter, but it is said that there was no wedding, and Sun Yi said more than once that he was with the man, not his family background.
But obviously, after 6 years, she still did not integrate into the other party's "wealthy family", but with her own efforts, she obtained a lot of resources, and her career gradually rose.
After the official announcement of the divorce, Sun Yi still said on the show that she would get along peacefully with her ex-mother-in-law's family, and her condition was getting better and better.
And Yang Ying and Huang Xiaoming's CP is more like the perfect combination of "the boss falls in love with me", and to this day, some people are still full of doubts about the woman, thinking that she "took a shortcut" through beauty.
But in fact, now looking at the marriage of the two is just to take what they need, both parties have obtained what they want through this marriage, which is good.
More similar to them are Zhang Jiani and the rich second generation to buy super, and the story of the two has also been told many times:
In the early stage, the man vigorously pursued, and later the woman let go and was the only beautiful side.
This relationship is also quite similar to Yi Nengjing and Sun Yi, both of whom are not blessed by each other's families.
But in the end, they all chose to "let go" to gain freedom and decency, which is commendable.
As for the former couple of Song Zhongji and Song Huiqiao, who everyone regretted at that time, it even explained how sweet it was before and how bitter it may be in the future.
They fell in love because of the play, and then held a century wedding, which was as beautiful as a painting, but in fact, the marriage is not only beautiful, but also the families of both parties, each other's habits, and the view of things...
Therefore, the rapid tearing of each other after the two lightning marriage may have been a precursor.
Looking at the above so-called "Be aesthetics", in fact, they all reveal several truths about modern marriage relationships:
Yi Nengjing and Sun Yi's Be fully explain that in marriage, one party cannot rely on one party to redeem the other, the sense of security still comes from oneself, and non-attachment is the most equal feeling.
Yang Ying and Zhang Jiani's Be will give people the illusion of "I raise you" at the beginning of their relationship, but it is actually just a transaction.
The Be of "Double Song" is a bit of too deep confusion for the audience into the play, which may be described by Zhang Ailing's sentence "marriage is a gorgeous robe full of lice".
After the breakup, the above pairs have their own scenery, which is also a regrettable beauty. Share.