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A while ago, Dou Jingtong released a new album "Spring Tour", I listened to a few songs and was amazed.
First of all, Dou Jingtong has long hair this time, you must know that Dou Jingtong has always been short hair style before, and it is really short, and the cool appearance is even shouted by fans "Jingtong husband".
But this time's long hair style is completely different from the previous short hair, but it feels like Dou Jingtong, and there is no sense of violation at all.
There is also a long curly hair and a Morandi light orange hat, which feels like a playful French girl, which is also very in line with the feeling of "Spring Tour".
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Rebellious but well-behaved girl
Everyone knows that Dou Jingtong's family relationship is a bit complicated, she has 2 fathers and 2 younger sisters, one sister is Li Yan, the younger sister of Faye Wong and stepfather Li Yapeng, and now she is also a beautiful and frank big girl.
There is also a younger sister is Dou Jiayu, the daughter of Dou Wei and his second wife Gao Yuan, who is 21 years old this year. She and Dou Jingtong also have a lot of interactions, and in Dou Wei's album, the two sisters also collaborated with Dou Jingtong on two songs.
To know how many children who grew up in divorced families have become problem teenagers, many people are planted in such native families, but the psychological term "native family" does not seem to exist in Dou Jingtong's world.
To know that Dou Jingtong is indeed a little rebellious, to know that Li Yapeng Guang is indeed a good Chinese father who is dedicated to his father, at that time, in order for Dou Jingtong to go to a good school, he waited for the principal at the gate of Beijing No. 4 Middle School for more than three hours, only to see the above and chat a few words, and finally nodded to let Dou Jingtong enroll.
But she only read for a year and said she didn't like it, didn't fit, and dropped out of school.
At the age of 15, Dou Jingtong was admitted to Berklee Music School with 3 original songs, and Li Yapeng worked hard to help her realize her dream of music school. But before she graduated, 2 years later, the girl felt unsuitable and dropped out. This is really rebellious, don't rebel anymore.
In 2015, 18-year-old Dou Jingtong appeared for the first time as a professional singer at the Beijing Ideal Music Festival. This was her debut, chosen in Beijing, and Li Yapeng took Li Yan with him to see her perform that day.
That night, Dou Jingtong had short gray hair and tattoos on her arms, untamed, and sang in a style as casual as the wind, singing 6 songs in a row. Many people said that they saw Faye Wong's shadow in her.
In the eyes of the public, rebellion can easily become bad. Just when everyone was worried about whether Dou Jingtong would learn badly one day, Faye Wong was very calm.
Even if her daughter dyes her hair of various colors, tattoos of various tattoos, and even smokes and drinks, Faye Wong feels that she is the best daughter in her mind.
Now it seems that Faye Wong is right. Dou Jingtong not only did not become bad, but was very well-behaved.
People who have been in contact with Dou Jingtong all say her
For a while, Dou Jingtong had a long line pierced her chin, and many people thought that she was rebellious again, who likes to tattoo herself so ugly. But in fact, there is a very heartwarming story behind this tattoo.
At that time, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng remarried and gave birth to their daughter Li Yan, but Li Yan was born with rabbit lips and was very, very inferior at first. As an older sister, Dou Jingtong, in order to encourage her and other rabbit-lipped children, tattooed a line on her chin to her neck to tell them that this was nothing, just a mark.
And when she met the paparazzi to secretly photograph Li Yan, she also rushed in front as soon as possible to try her best to protect her sister and prevent her from being criticized, which is really very loving. She also wrote a song called "Lola" under Li Yan's English name - there is a sentence in it: "Lola my dear, you are so cute, you don't need to change." "It was really warm.
In addition to Li Yan's sister, she also has a very good relationship with Dou Wei and Gao Yuan's daughter Dou Jiayu, not only calling for her music, but also going to her grandmother's house together.
Dou Jingtong not only has a very good relationship with his family, but also has a very good relationship with many star friends in the circle, such as Zhou Dongyu, Ma Sichun, Mizuhara Kiko, etc., and even Zhou Xun, who is the same generation as his mother, is her friend.
In the variety show "Nice to Meet You", there is an episode with the theme of "death", which explores loss, farewell and the meaning of life.
Zhou Xun told Dou Jingtong on the show that she was sad but couldn't cry when her grandmother died. This emotion has not been released, and the whole person has always been very uncomfortable.
Unexpectedly, a year later, Dou Jingtong still remembered that he took her to Chinese medicine to pat his back, Zhou Xun's emotions were photographed, he cried, and the suppressed negative emotions were finally released, and his body was immediately comfortable.
Such an understanding Dou Jingtong, who can say that he is not well-behaved.
Many people will wonder how a girl whose parents are divorced, who dropped out of school twice and rebelled, can be so good. You know, her mother is Faye Wong!
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Be yourself and don't care what others think
Who Faye Wong is, I don't need to introduce it.
But I think she has the biggest label on her.
It is said that Faye Wong is the person who really does herself in the entertainment industry.
Even when facing emotional marriage problems, her own attitude is very direct, and she can express what she thinks in her heart.
When Faye Wong and Dou Wei divorced, the reporter asked her if the divorce procedures had been completed.
Faye Wong asked rhetorically: What does it have to do with you?
The reporter said: You are a public figure, and the fans are also very concerned.
Faye Wong said again: What is it about them.
When she was good with Nicholas Tse, others said she was not a qualified mother.
She said again: Is it up to you to meet the qualifications? Why should I pursue what you see as the "perfect mom"?
Even when someone said that she was really unseemly pursuing so-called love at such an age, she said: "I'm sorry I didn't pursue so-called decency according to your ideas, but how I live is my own business." ”
Cecilia Cheung, who was rumored to be involved in her and Nicholas Tse at that time, was still very calm and calm.
In one interview, a reporter asked Faye Wong about Cecilia Cheung and her relationship.
Unexpectedly, Faye Wong killed her in seconds with only 8 words: What does it have to do with you.
This incident made the reporter angry enough. Because from the perspective of a reporter, I feel that Faye Wong is a public figure, how can a public figure have secrets, for the sake of fans and entertainment effects should be told.
But from the perspective of artists, they believe that although they are also public figures, they should also have privacy. So Faye Wong replied to the reporter: I am a public figure, do I have to tell you all my situation?
I have to say that Faye Wong is really too domineering. You know,
And
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Be yourself and live at peace with the world
In 2021, Dou Jingtong starred in the movie "A Sudden Trip", in which the theme song can really be listened to. The MV of this song was filmed in Tibet, and you can see the attitude of a very low-key, casual, and life-loving girl.
Don't look at the picture, just listen to the song, you can hear the pure, simple and pleasant tune, the voice is ethereal and pure, there is really the shadow of Faye Wong, I have to sigh at the strength of genes.
Look at the lyrics again:
Everyone is looking for Happy Land
A paradise without restrictions
No need to panic
Forget all your worries
Everyone yearns for Happy Paradise
A paradise for dreams
……
Occasionally get drunk and make a fuss
A little bit of excitement is also nice
It doesn't matter how much it disturbs
I just want to be happy and live until I grow old
Everyone is looking for Happy Land
A paradise of lies
Forget about happiness just
Another annoyance
——Dou Jingtong, "Paradise"
I like the lyrics of this song too much, although they were written by Sanshao, but they are tailor-made for Dou Jingtong, and the lyrics sing about her attitude to life. I think this is also the result of Faye Wong's teachings.
Even her best friend Na Ying knows:
But many mothers only have children in their eyes, only their other half, but they don't have themselves. As a result, the child did not live like himself, and the other half was lost. In fact, what is the most important thing for a child's growth? It is they who really understand what the meaning of their life is, not that this person tells him a little, that person tells him a little, and pieces together someone else's worldview.
How this process is formed, of course, it is best for the child to realize it by himself in the process of growing up, through his own observation and his own experience of dealing with others, which is the child's real own world view.
She will not accuse her other half in front of her children like other divorced parents, nor will she prevent her children from seeing their father, nor will she let her children participate in her emotional problems.
This point is indeed written in Dou Jingtong's own new song "Fireworks": I believe this is Dou Jingtong's highest evaluation of his mother Faye Wong's love.
If you see the scene of Dou Jingtong's birthday, you know that Faye Wong's treatment of people is really not ordinary. She was able to invite Dou Wei's mother to Li Yapeng's home and celebrate her birthday with Dou Jingtong. And there is no screwing, a peaceful atmosphere on the surface, more peaceful inside, how did Faye Wong do it?
Because the point is that she is comfortable, she is comfortable, the world around her is comfortable. If she is herself, then the people around her are naturally being herself.
Just like the reporter asked Dou Jingtong how he thought about Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse getting back together, Dou Jingtong knew:
Faye Wong can be herself and be true to herself, without caring about the judgment of society, and at the same time does not affect others. This ultimate realm is like an immortal, no one can surpass it. Just because she is truly herself, completely integrated inside and out.
I've bought this album
Faye Wong once said: "If I don't sing one day, I hope everyone forgets me." "In this way, you can sing if you want, dance if you want, jump if you want, do whatever you want, and walk in this world more freely, no one disturbs, just for yourself."
May all mothers have this open-minded, ageless heart, be loyal to their own heart, stay young forever, and go their own way!