Emotional intelligence is very important for a person, if you want to have a place, you can not have a high IQ, but you can not do without high emotional intelligence, and emotional intelligence is reflected in all aspects of life, such as getting along with girls!
In the latest issue of "Daughters in Love", Geng Sihan and Jinsha opened the third date, I thought that after having a certain understanding, Geng Sihan would open up some tricks, know Jinsha's preferences, do some things that make Jinsha happy, the result? Don't say that jinsha is happy, even Jinsha's physical condition, Geng Sihan does not care at all!
Why? When Geng Sihan and Jinsha met, Jinsha had already said that she was sick, and she still had a little cough, and her throat was not very comfortable!
You know, when girls are sick, they must avoid getting cold, and they can't eat cold food!
But what about our Gengsham? Did two things that the backstage observers couldn't watch, one was to take Jinsha to ride a motorcycle, and the other was to buy crabs for Jinsha!
Count nine midwinter, with girls riding motorcycles on the highway, this should be the plot of the movie, maybe Geng Sihan's original intention is good, is to bring some sense of picture to Jinsha, but he ignored, Jinsha has been sick, this time riding a motorcycle, is not afraid of the wind?
In addition, Geng Sihan also bought crabs on the side of the road, crabs are cold food, not suitable for sick people to eat, the worst thing is that Geng Sihan also bargained twice, which is to set up his own family boy's person to sit down!
The plan can not catch up with the change, encounter unexpected situations, is the most able to test a person's emotional intelligence, after learning that Jinsha is ill, the grand situation should arrange some more reasonable things, rather than according to the original plan to ride a motorcycle, to eat crabs, from this point of view, Geng Sihan is indeed far from the previous grand situation!
Of course, everyone has their own style of doing things, Jinsha has not replied to Geng Sihan's text messages, from the beginning there was no respect for each other, did not treat each other as dating boyfriends, people do this, maybe just to complete the task!