This year's Beijing International Film Festival Zhang Ziyi was said to be "snobbish" because of several group photos and was on the hot search.
It's actually quite simple.
At the Beijing International Film Festival, director Chen Kaige took the initiative to greet Zhang Songwen a few meters away, after all, Zhang Songwen is now the most trafficked and topical male artist, and at that time, Director Chen was chatting with Zhang Ziyi, that is, suddenly she was left to the side, watching Director Chen and Zhang Songwen greet.
Of course, Ziyi was slightly unhappy, but Zhang Songwen was such a clever person, once he found that Ziyi's sister's face changed slightly, he quickly pushed Zhang Ziyi between himself and Director Chen, so that Zhang Ziyi could stand in the C position when taking pictures, but said that it was too late and fast, Director Chen turned his hand and pushed Zhang Ziyi to his left, so that he himself was in the C position!
▲ This picture shows more clearly, Zhang Ziyi was pushed by two people at the same time, Zhang Songwen pushed Zhang to the C position, that is, Chen Kaige's side, and Chen Kaige pushed and pushed Zhang out of the C position, allowing her to her to her left hand, so that she was next to Zhang Songwen.
▲ The expressions of the two people in this picture are more interesting, Zhang Songwen found that Zhang Ziyi was pushed out of the C position and was confused, and Zhang Ziyi was also surprised.
The final group photo presentation is like this:
Chen Kaige very intimately put his right hand on Zhang Songwen's shoulder, and the bodies of the two people were next to each other; And his left hand is in his pocket, which is obviously separated from Zhang Ziyi by a large gap.
And Zhang Ziyi's expression was that he found that he was "disliked", with a look of disdain and coldness.
Later was evaluated by the media: a black face.
This large group photo also has a GIF, in fact, it is Zhu Yilong and Zhang Songwen next to Zhang Ziyi to let and go, only she and Chen Kaige are not moving.
Zhang Songwen's expression always has one: Why was I pushed to Vanity Fair? About the story of Zhang Songwen, we have written before,
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Finally, Zhang Ziyi's photo on Weibo is a group photo with Wu Jing, which looks intimate, interesting and full of interaction.
This move was also rated by netizens: she didn't fancy Zhang Songwen, a little actor, at all, and never interacted with him the whole time, with an indifferent face.
Then netizens turned out a video of Zhang Ziyi's previous interaction with Wu Jing, Shen Teng and Xu Zheng.
Zhang Ziyi is very lively, even the body language is very in tune and jumpy, like a little girl, there is no "cold" indifference expression at all.
Netizens reacted very unkindly to such different faces.
I think why does Zhang Ziyi's group photo have such a big movement?
It's really because she has fallen into the pit for group photos several times before.
Everyone still remembers the scene of the 2017 Bazaar Charity Night, in the chaos, Zhang Ziyi took off one side of her coat to expose her shoulders and successfully attracted everyone's attention, right?
Because the performance of that time was so obvious, it was discussed for a long time - how Zhang Ziyi successfully seized the C position.
Below is a GIF of this group photo.
Once "grabbing the C position" has become the public's stereotype of Zhang Niangniang, then everyone will widen their eyes every time they take a group photo to see how she domineeringly "occupies the C position".
Another unattractive quality is Zhang Ziyi's completely different attitude towards people, which is what we call "seeing people on the dishes".
The most typical of these is Sumang. The story about Sumang,
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When Ms. Su Mang was the editor-in-chief of Harper's Bazaar, Zhang Ziyi and her were like best friends, often traveling together in public and private.
▲ Zhang Ziyi and Su Mang went to South Korea to attend the wedding of Shuang Song together, and also took a group photo with their faces.
▲ Su Mang also traveled to the United States with Zhang Ziyi, full of girlfriend style of a relaxed vacation.
As a result, when Su Mang left "Bazaar", they attended Dior's activities together, and Zhang Ziyi's side became Carina Liu and Milk Tea Sister.
In this group photo where Zhang Ziyi undoubtedly occupies the C position, later netizens found out that they actually cut her former best friend - Su Mang.
Although Su Mang is often criticized, this kind of person walks the world cold, and whoever sees it will feel it.
When you are popular and you are powerful, I will play with you, you are not popular and powerful, you can not appear in my photos, this is Zhang Ziyi's deepest impression, everyone still remembers when he just debuted, at Jackie Chan's birthday party, he gave Jackie Chan 5 fragrant kisses, and fed Jackie Chan to eat grapes The photo was exposed, and the Hong Kong media felt that she was too "stubborn" the big guy.
Therefore, this time, she just put a cold face on Zhang Songwen, and she was criticized by everyone on the hot search.
Zhang Ziyi, who is particularly discerning
In fact, this group photo, the biggest responsibility is Director Chen, Zhang Ziyi is only a victim at best, but about Zhang Ziyi's snobbery for so many years, it is indeed one of her characteristics.
In fact, to say snobbery, everyone is snobbish, people in the entertainment industry is even more, if you are not snobbish, you can't survive, snobbery is a kind of business trade-off in a very short time, you choose to be good to whom, choose to put energy in, are a trade-off, and finally even become an instinct, vanity fair snobbery is innate, after all, human energy is limited, and Vanity Fair resources are also limited, you choose some will have to give up some, you give up some people, you will inevitably leave a cold face for some people.
To put it another way, the human affection behind snobbery is what we call "seeing with eyes".
Zhang Ziyi was famous for "seeing children" before becoming famous.
Many years ago, I heard a friend tell the story of a teacher who once tutored Zhang Ziyi before she was admitted to Chinese opera.
He said: At that time, I knew that Zhang Ziyi would definitely get ahead, because she was very serious in preparing for the exam, and she was particularly discerning.
A friend asked at that time, what is "eye view".
The tutor said: As soon as she enters the door, she will ask the master if she is okay, and if the lady prepares a hot water bottle, she will immediately grab it and pour tea; If Master wanted to sweep the floor, she had already taken the broom in her hand.
"Seeing with your eyes" is actually a very magical word.
As Beijing girls, we are required to "see with our eyes" from a young age, and this word can be translated horizontally as: "things will come." ”
Generally, the place where girls are blamed is, you see the aunt next door is coming, and you don't know to pour a glass of water; The head teacher has come to visit your home, don't you hurry up and say hello to the teacher.
And so on, very trivial requirements.
In general, it is necessary to be diligent in being a girl, to smile when she sees elders and honorable people, to say hello, to sit, and to know how to greet.
Zhang Ziyi's "eyesight" means that she is a girl who is particularly good at things.
It basically meets the requirements for a "cultured" girl in Beijing.
In particular, in the early days, Beijing lived in hutongs, and everyone was fighting courtyards.
Who is honorable and despised in a family, that is to be clarified.
To say that it sounds good is to "understand the feelings of people", and to put it badly, "you must know how to order dishes when you see people".
It is a very down-to-earth "pragmatism" - to please the strong and alienate the weak.
Later, the host Jin Xing often put "eye view" on her lips, and she said that she would train her daughter to become a person with "eye view".
She also said when she was on "Very Quiet Distance": "This is a patriarchal society, women have the ability to see, reasonable, and you can live better in all aspects."
She also mentioned that when she and her husband had different opinions outside, she never said a word, went home and talked to him in bed to save enough face for him.
▲ Teacher Jin Xing seems to have an obsession with "eye view", and often listens to her use this standard to evaluate women.
Few men are required to have "eye vision" from an early age, of course, not to say that there is none, but this kind of requirements are not so much, the requirement for boys is to learn skills, have a professional level, as for "eye power", there is, there is none, but for women it is different, women have been educated and scolded since childhood, and must have "eye vision".
The content of this "vision" includes that you want to give the initiative to men, you know how to give men face, you must take the initiative to return to the private sphere of the family, bear the heavy responsibility of having children, do not allow yourself to have equal dialogue with men, obey the rules of the game in a patriarchal society, become a male helper rather than a competitor, and the reward is more convenience and even approval.
Rules for Chinese women
Eyesight has profoundly influenced Chinese women, in fact, the most typical case is Tang Wei, who has just debuted, and was also questioned by netizens for zipping director Ang Lee in public.
Ang Lee's embarrassment and uneasiness are evident in the photo.
▲ Wang Leehom and Tony Leung next to him also had restrained expressions, and they both put their hands behind their backs to remain gentlemen.
I can actually understand Tang Wei's performance at that time (but she didn't realize that this performance was very indecent at the time).
Since childhood, Chinese girls have been required to be polite to teachers or elders, and there is nothing wrong with Ang Lee, as her "mentor", taking care of him and helping him tidy up his clothes.
This "thoughtfulness", or "flattery", is actually part of "eyesight".
However, I have lived in Canada for so many years, and I have never heard parents teach girls to be particularly "eye-catching" and other similar rules.
There are many boys among girls who can also be accepted by everyone.
Two days ago, when the BMW "ice cream" incident was relatively loud, I also opened the video and watched it.
When treating different guests, the expressions of the two girls are different.
When the first female guest asked if she had any ice cream, she was replied "no", and the expressions of the two girls did not matter.
When handing ice cream to foreign guests, he not only carefully instructed how to open ice cream, but also smiled like a flower
When asked again, he said that there was no more, and when he finished sending it, his expression was still relatively perfunctory.
I personally feel that this incident is actually an "oolong" PR incident - not preparing enough ice cream, and the ice cream left for my own employees is not eaten in the internal venue.
However, the expressions and performance of these two girls are also very uncomfortable.
The expression before and after, the change is too great.
But isn't this what we are usually taught?
To special people, to superiors, to authorities, to be sweet.
This is a kind of pragmatism, a soft body, a climbing high and stepping low.
To some extent, this is the same as Zhang Ziyi's performance at the film festival.
Too utilitarian.
And this incident made me, as a mother of two daughters, have a special feeling:
1) Don't teach your daughter to be too "seeing" and short-sighted.
Always observe and pay attention to the environment and people around you, but don't be extra enthusiastic because you are "useful" and "authoritative".
To be honest, maintaining a friendly attitude towards everyone is a cultivation.
Don't let us be enthusiastic right away just because who's stronger.
Even people who are inferior to your status or qualifications should be polite.
Treat everyone around you like a spring breeze, rather than different people with different faces, which will make everyone feel your sincerity.
2) Let the daughter "dull" a little more, and don't be so sensitive to show likes and dislikes and judgments about everything right away.
Especially the judgment of a single standard.
In fact, I like people who are friendly at first meeting, but keep their distance, and even a little silly and do not react.
People don't have to be so clever and pleasing most of the time.
If you are wise and foolish, the kind of people who do not immediately show their likes and dislikes are long-term friends.
3) Let children have their true selves and true preferences, rather than always "wronged" themselves and "please" others.
Because it is actually very uncomfortable to always please others and use a sweetness to get everyone's love.
We have to look for a real friendship and a real link in the crowd, replace it with "eye seeing", and get no real friendship.
That's what we call plastic camaraderie.
As an audience, I still like Zhang Ziyi's stubbornness, disobedience and strength, but this kind of snobbery would be good.
If she can be an old lady who is unconvinced by anyone, this is really tough.
After all, I really like the jade Jiaolong she played when she was young, hard and free, willful and free.
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