At dinner last night, during the small talk, the conversation between the wife and the baby caused contradictions.
Here's the thing. My wife cooked a dish that included edamame, square legs, and lettuce. The wife said to the baby, "Is this dish delicious?" Wa said, "It's delicious, Mom, did you burn it because I love edamame?" My wife listened and was very happy. Wa explained, how, this is a white lie, isn't it very pleasant?
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I thought to myself, although this child said it in front of his wife, it was a little strange, is the dish not delicious? Or don't like edamame? But it seems to be getting more and more sensible. But then there was a reversal.
My wife asked Wa: "Where did you lose your score in this Chinese test?" And she said, "I forgot to add the title of the book." The wife said, "What? What's wrong again? "Wa was a little impatient at first, maybe his wife told him about this before. A few seconds later, the baby suddenly became energetic, blushed, and roared: "What's wrong?" I'm wrong, what's wrong? You talk about it every time, is it interesting? ”
As soon as I saw that the situation was wrong, I immediately said: "Okay, okay, don't say it, what are you so excited about?" Eat well. ”
After that, I found the baby and patiently told him that the mother was a little verbose, but there was no malice, and you promised to pay attention next time, won't this matter pass? Why don't you use white lies at this time? Why get angry and yell at your mother? Eventually, Wa finally realized something was wrong.
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Looking back on this dispute, my feeling is this, the child is slowly maturing in the process of growing up, and when he comes into contact with a theory or an event, he gradually has his own thoughts, his own judgments, and his own reason. Just like "white lies", the son wants to make his mother happy with a sentence, although it is not used appropriately, but the starting point is good, the wife also appreciates, and the atmosphere at this time is quite harmonious.
But the wife also raised the study problems that she felt were important in this relaxed situation, and also brought up the mistake of nagging her son again, which touched her son's nerves and caused her son to break out. I think that if the son calms down and does it again, it is possible to pass with a haha, which is the so-called white lie, because careless mistakes in learning cannot be completely changed, at most improved.
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Dear parents, have you ever had a conflict with the baby? How was it solved? Let's talk about it.
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