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<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 preface</h1>
Revisiting the drama "On the Beach", I like to watch Ding Li's mother appear.
She always behaves and speaks very decently, bringing a touch of warmth to people in the love-hate, bloody and windy Shanghai Beach.
I don't even know what her name is.
Looking back, Ding Li was able to get acquainted with Xu Wenqiang and marry Feng Chengcheng, which was not entirely a coincidence, and the pure and virtuous side of his nature really stemmed from the fact that he had a good mother.
Ding Li's mother was born poor, had no culture, and did not look good, but she was the most positive woman in the three views of this drama.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 First: Be a person, don't forget the original</h1>
The tree is tall and does not forget the roots, and if the people are brilliant, they do not forget the grace.
Ding Li's mother often said: "Ah Li, you can't forget your roots as a person." ”
Before Ding Li developed, they lived in the Zhabei slum in Shanghai, where mother and son were crammed into a log cabin, unable to afford running water, and living off Ding Li selling duck pears.
At that time, they were very poor, but the mother was kind and filial to the child, and treated people warmly.
Ding Li met Xu Wenqiang, who had made a living in Shanghai, on the street, so he took Xu Wenqiang home for one night, and his mother was also warmly welcomed, "Mr. Xu, please sit casually." ”
Later, Ding Li ran to be a killer in order to earn money, knowing that he might lose his life, but the first thing he did when he got the money was to buy his mother her favorite roast goose leg.
After Ding Li developed, they moved to the rich area of Xiafei Road, lived in a big house, had someone to serve, and lived a good life.
When Ding Li saw his mother squinting her eyes and trying to mend a worn-out dress, he said: "We are not without money." ”
As soon as his mother wanted to say that they had lived in Zhabei in the past, Ding Li interrupted her, and what he hated most was to mention the past.
Ding Li was forgetting Ben.
He was ashamed of his past poor days, and he also abandoned his straightforward and serious self.
Feng Jingyao is Ding Li's father-in-law, even if he has committed many evils, but for Ding Li, Feng Jingyao is also benevolent and righteous.
Ding Li ate, drank and gambled, and lost millions of public funds, and Feng Jingyao did not pursue it for his daughter.
Ding Li was not satisfied, but instead used the opportunity of bailing Feng Chengcheng to force Feng Jingyao to hand over his family property, but Feng Jingyao did not agree, and he helped Xu Wenqiang design to kill Feng Jingyao.
Xu Wenqiang is revenge, but what about Ding Li?
He is forgetful, he is ungrateful.
I don't like Ding Li, even though he's the big winner in Shanghai Beach.
Compared with the cold, sinister and sophisticated Shanghai Beach Overlord, I admire the straightforward and affectionate young man more.
Once a person forgets the book and forgets the roots, he loses himself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 Second: help, don't help relatives</h1>
When the husband and wife quarrel, if the mother-in-law is present, who will she help?
Many female friends will not hesitate to say: "Of course it is to help his son, who let me be an outsider!" ”
Helpless, aggrieved.
After Feng Chengcheng got married, he was busy with the drama rehearsals of the society, and he had to rush home to visit his sick father after work, often leaving early and returning late.
For this reason, her husband Ding Li often complained that she used her home as a hotel.
The mother-in-law not only did not blame Feng Chengcheng in the slightest, but also personally stewed red date tea every night for Feng Chengcheng to come back and drink.
She said to Feng Chengcheng, "Somehow, I won't be able to sleep until you come back." ”
Care, love.
Feng Chengcheng was detained in the patrol room because of the drama club, but Ding Li was outside hanging out with other women. Xu Wenqiang could not find Ding Li, and in desperation, he bailed Feng Chengcheng out of bail and sent her home.
As soon as the mother-in-law saw Feng Chengcheng, her first words were: "Cheng Cheng, are you okay?" Really, the hands and feet are cold. ”
Ding Li felt that Feng Chengcheng had humiliated him and caused trouble.
Every time Ding Li quarreled with Feng Chengcheng, the mother-in-law would protect Feng Chengcheng, scolding Ding Li for making unreasonable trouble and not knowing how to cherish, and then pulled Feng Chengcheng aside to comfort her.
Ding Li really needs to be scolded.
His impulsive and reckless personality, within a few words, was about to draw his gun at Feng Chengcheng.
Feng Chengcheng really likes her mother-in-law.
If it weren't for such a reasonable mother-in-law, Feng Chengcheng would have divorced a long time ago.
Only by treating people with sincerity can we harvest true feelings.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >04 Third: Educating children is a lifelong thing</h1>
When Ding Li and his mother were still living in the slums, one day, Ding Li suddenly bought his mother's favorite roast goose leg.
He gleefully handed the roast goose leg to his mother, who looked at it and asked, "Where did you get so much money?" ”
Money must be earned by oneself, and it must come from the right way.
After Ding Li developed, he had a generous hand, and his clothes were a little torn to be thrown away, and his mother taught him not to be extravagant.
Remember the bittersweet and cherish the present.
Ding Li married Feng Chengcheng, and her mother was full of joy and repeatedly advised: "If you marry such a good wife, you must cherish it." ”
When Ding Li quarreled with Feng Chengcheng for trivial matters, his mother roared angrily: "Don't come back to see me in the future, I don't have your son." ”
Ding Li has grown up and developed, but as long as he does not do it right, his mother will always nag twice.
Educating children is the lifelong cause of parents.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >05 is written at the end</h1>
Ding Li's mother was the most ordinary.
She is simple and simple.
Ding Li's mother was the most extraordinary.
Poverty and wealth did not make any waves in her.
Looking at the drama "On the Beach", she is the one who lives most calmly.
Today's topic: Do you like Ding Li's mother? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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Author: Suzune Qinxin; every life is worthy of being cherished!