"What does parting mean to you?"
I believe that many people will scoff at the topic of emotional chicken soup like this, but how many people have really seriously considered how much weight these two words occupy in life?
Minzi Lisha shared a "passer-by" - everyone is a passer-by in your life, the beginning means the end, the moment he knows you, it means that one day he will leave.
Liu Kuan believes that "parting is the normal state of life", as long as the relationship between time and space has changed, each other has changed, and the original balance has been broken, that is eternal parting.
Ye Yuhan gave another answer--except for life and death, there is no one who cannot be seen, no matter what, the people who want to see will see.
Three different answers collide gently, without much profound truth, but the words poke the heart, making people's hearts tremble slightly.
The above dialogue comes from a Youku self-made light talk variety show "Girl on the Roof", which is the last episode of the first season, where the three girls come to a village far away from the hustle and bustle of the city, sit on a undisturbed roof and frankly discuss the topic of parting, and also wave goodbye to the audience.
This show is a treasure variety show that was inadvertently discovered during the epidemic, and after the first season was broadcast, the Douban score was 8.2↓↓
Many netizens left their real feelings about this show ↓↓
Sincere, delicate, warm and vivid, this show gives people the first impression.
The program was launched in a special period, without too much publicity, but brushed out a unique sense of existence at the moment when cloud variety shows were popular.
There is no big coffee traffic and fancy links, the form is very simple, less than half an hour of the program presented only one content - Hunan Satellite TV host Li Sha Minzi, original musician Ye Yuhan, documentary director Liu Kuan, three young women who have never met before on the roof, chatting about life.
So, 8.2 points of praise, where is the good?
Compared with the fireworks of the "cloud variety shows", "Girl on the Roof" is a program suitable for feeling alone behind closed doors. It is like a secret garden belonging to girls, with an extremely delicate tentacle, reaching into the heart of the girl in front of the screen, gently stroking their respective memories of growth.
Six growth epiphanies
Six self-dissections
As a light talk show, what to talk about and who to talk to is very important, and I have to say that "Girl on the Roof" was lucky to meet the right person at the right time, and everything was just right.
Li Sha Minzi, a burning and mournful Leo girl, can play a host who can sing, full of talent.
Ye Yuhan, a talented and beautiful Scorpio girl, but enjoys being alone.
Liu Kuan, a free and romantic Pisces girl, is also a documentary filmmaker who turns the world into a vision.
Three girls with very different personalities, different family backgrounds and cultural backgrounds, have sparked different fireworks in the show.
In the process of chatting, they are extremely honest and open their hearts, and gently accept their differences. In them, we not only see the differences in individual lives, but also feel the beauty of this "harmony and difference".
For example, when it comes to the first "exodus" in her life in the process of growing up, Li Shaminzi has been alone for many days and nights with disappointment in order to dream of drifting north; Liu Kuan chose to study in a distant place, from being incompatible to slowly adapting, and was forced to grow up; while Ye Yuhan took the initiative to flee, began to live alone early and felt unprecedented freedom. These choices may be unexpected by outsiders, but for them, it is a spiritual departure that is ready to go, diluting the pain of breaking out of the shell, but full of joy in looking forward to the future and freedom.
Regarding appearance, they discuss the relationship between beauty and effort, just like two lines, the pursuit of beauty and effort is not in conflict, what matters is how you make choices.
Talking about the loss of love, Li Shamin wrote heartache and miss into a song, wanted to be a passerby who did not disturb, but still couldn't help but say "see you tomorrow" to that person; Ye Yuhan was indented into the shell to let time slowly heal the wound; Liu Kuan still couldn't help but shiver when she mentioned the love that had been brutally hurt, but she turned the wound into a hard armor.
When it comes to loneliness, Ye Yuhan enjoys eating alone because she can devote herself to the food in front of her; Li Sha minzi is afraid of loneliness and only feels safe when she is surrounded by crowds and bustle; Liu Kuan says that "loneliness" is a word that is over-packaged by consumerism, and she has learned to be alone with herself in loneliness.
There is no preaching, no flattery and pandering, no deliberate sensationalism, this is just a free chat that happens in the wind, but for the audience, it is like having a wonderful afternoon tea time with friends who have not been seen for a long time, and the body and mind are happy.
If you continue to watch, you will have a new feeling about their chat content – light and deep.
Three different souls
A wonderful encounter
The format of the program is complicated and simple, and the three girls spread out their lives around a topic, which is simple and simple, but closer to the essence of the program.
The speaker is still unfinished, and the listener is thoughtful.
In just over twenty minutes, you will not feel bored and boring, and the "rooftop girls" will dominate the entire program with a light rhythm, so that this "small and beautiful" show can exert the greatest emotional energy.
The topics discussed by the "rooftop girls" in the six programs are "growth", "appearance", "lost love", "girlfriend", "loneliness" and "parting", without the guidance of the host, they speak freely, starting from their own life experience, and deconstructing the keywords that these women must go through in the process of growing up.
It is worth mentioning that the atmosphere created by the three girls is also very delicate, they form a harmonious aura with each other, and at the same time, they affect the audience in front of the screen, making us seem to have become one of them, unconsciously following along with them to go back to the first half of their lives.
This rare sense of participation and dialogue actually comes from their respect and tolerance for each other, and this is where the show is most successful.
In addition, the valuable point of "Girl on the Roof" is that as a variety show for the young women's market, it does not deliberately make a fuss about "girls".
In recent years, we have watched too many programs and goods that sell women's anxiety, and under the leadership of "her economy", girls have been packaged by consumerism into a vivid and beautiful synonym, and "girlishness" has become the goal pursued by many female stars.
For a long time, women in order to maintain the dignity and glamorousness of "girls", and fell into the ambiguous whirlpool, just like Liu Kuan said in the show, many people are pursuing the "self" shaped by the outside world, but that self is empty and soulless.
Look at them
I'm also looking at myself
This show directly faces the real confusion and confusion of girls, removes their glamorous identities and labels, only shows the purest side of girls, and restores the blurred faces of young girls into fresh young people again by tracing the problems that have occurred in their growth.
You will find that without milk tea, star chasing, makeup and other customized consumer goods for girls, they can completely settle down, return to themselves, and think about the relationship between people and the world.
Therefore, we also know that to describe a girl, it can be transparent, open-minded, spontaneous, naïve, intellectual, calm... And not just cookie-cutter youthful beauty.
"Girl on the Roof" records the anxiety of girls growing up, thinking about the world, and the confusion of life... It shows girls who have been abandoned and embraced by the world, but still try to find the beauty of their own rhythm in it.
But it is not only doing records and emotional expressions, it tells everyone in a gentle way that the girls in the show are not perfect but vivid, are they also like you?