After all, a person's life is lonely. From the beginning of the fall, a person comes to this world, after experiencing the joys and sorrows of life, another person leaves this world. Even the lover who has been with us the longest cannot stay with us for the rest of his life.
Perhaps he has already seen through this ending, so Chen Jin made up his mind at a young age not to marry for life. She is like a bird that soars freely, free and unrestrained. Others think she is bitter, but she feels very enjoyable.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > play a role in the hearts of the people</h1>
Chen Jin was born into a military family, and her father was a professor at the National Defense University. Influenced by her father, she was strict with herself from an early age, and had a stubbornness not to bow to fate.
For Chen Jin's name, many people may feel unfamiliar, but the role she plays is deeply rooted in people's hearts. She is the "wife" of Chen Daoming in "Tangshan Earthquake", the Lord of Pingning County in "Know It or Not, Know It or Not, It Should Be Green Fat Red Skinny", or the scathing Su Mu in "All Is Good".
Chen Jin graduated from the Drama Department of Shandong Academy of Arts with a bachelor's degree in fine arts, and after she was first assigned to the Air Force Repertory Theatre to perform in drama works.
Her talent was developed in "Mountains Don't Turn Water", which won the second prize of the 11th China Television Feitian Awards, and then she was discovered by the director, and then starred with Li Youbin in the TV series "Tide Rises and Falls", which won multiple awards.
Chen Jin is a veritable old drama bone, a national first-class actor. At that time, in order to make a good scene, she made a fierce heart. Although Chen Jin is already very thin, the director still said that she looks a little fat and does not take pictures, so she also missed a lot of works.
In order to go better in the show business world, she began her long road to weight loss. Self-discipline is more free, in order to maintain her figure, she did not eat rice for 20 years, so that she finally became thinner.
After starring in a number of excellent works, she won various awards such as Feitian, Huabiao Award, and Magnolia Award. Her acting skills were recognized by everyone and she became a veritable actress of the post-film level, and soon she was also rated as a national level.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > her agreement with her brother</h1>
When her acting skills were recognized by everyone and her career was smooth, many people began to care about her personal life. After all, at the age of 56, she is still single and has not even been in love once. Later, when the reporter was interviewed, she said the reason why she had not yet married.
Chen Jin and his brother have a particularly good relationship since childhood, and the two have been very independent since childhood, and at the same time they have a very tacit understanding. When she was young, she made an appointment with her brother not to marry for the rest of her life, and promised to take care of each other when she got old. I thought it was a joke, but I didn't expect that most of my life had passed, and she and her brother were really unmarried, one was not married.
"Whether you have a family or children, a person will always be with himself for the rest of his life. Freedom is when you stand on your own, without attachment or fear. Chen Jin said.
Perhaps in the eyes of most people, marriage and children are the ultimate destination of life, and for Chen Jin, the best destination in life is to learn to be alone with herself.
Her brother shares her values. The older brother is a photographer, and like his sister, he is still unmarried and has no children. When my sister first stepped into the show business circle, my brother did not help less. "Chen Jin, I hope I live the longest, and that I live long because I can take care of you until I am old." Chen Jin's brother had comforted his sister more than once.
Some people think that Chen Jin has not even talked about love, has not enjoyed the sweetness of love, and it is a pity not to get married. Some people also said that Chen Jin was running away, and she was afraid of being hurt.
In fact, Chen Jin, who came from a military family, became very strong and independent under the good education of her parents. Living with such a woman, most men will still not be able to stand it, and it cannot be said that she is cowardly, afraid to try to fall in love, afraid of being hurt. But Chen Jin was too kind, she just didn't want to hurt others.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > more and more people are starting to live themselves</h1>
Now more and more people are beginning to live out their lives without going with the flow. Everyone has the right to choose their own life, some people are willing to live in peace and regulation, and some people like to stand on the cusp of the storm and live a life of rapids.
Everyone's pursuit is different from everyone's, not getting married and not having children, nothing new anymore. In addition to Chen Jin, there is another dance artist who has not yet been married, and she is Yang Liping.
In fact, the difference between Yang Liping and Chen Jin is that she has been in love and married, but later chose to divorce her husband because she could not have children.
Because her husband and his parents want to find Yang Liping to have a child, but Yang Liping's love for her dance career is more than anything, if she has a child, it may have some impact on her future dance path, so she prefers to choose to continue on the road of dance alone.
At that time, Yang Liping became popular throughout the country with the peacock dance and became a well-known dance artist. Like Chen Jin, Yang Liping also wanted to maintain her figure, and she had not eaten rice for more than twenty years, and she was more fierce about her body.
Never eat breakfast, only a few apples and a few pieces of fish for lunch. She claimed that if she exchanged an apple for an apple one day, she would overeat.
Yang Liping's husband loves her very much, and Yang Liping has a deep understanding. When she went to her mother-in-law's house, she was prompted several times. Her feelings for her husband are also very sincere and deep, and she feels that she can't be so selfish, so she has also been shaken.
However, when she went to the doctor later, the doctor told her that if she wanted to get pregnant, she had to have a certain percentage of fat in her body. But if after gaining weight, she will have to have a long time to not dance again, which is extremely painful for her. However, she was more reluctant to hurt her husband.
She hesitated between the two, but made the final decision. She and her husband divorced, and many people expressed incomprehension of her decision, and more malicious people attacked her. In the face of all kinds of evil words, Yang Liping said: "What I dance is not dance, I am dancing life." ”
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="12" > summary</h1>
She did dedicate her life to the dance career, and Chen Jin also dedicated her life to the acting career, and they lived out the way they wanted to live.
There are infinite possibilities in life, and people like Chen Jin have chosen a life of wanton freedom. Some say the decisions she made were stupid and she would regret it one day. However, I think this is the wisdom of life, and it is the most essential thing of life. What do you think?
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