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In 2007, Shao Feng appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for the first time.
He became famous with the sketch "Going Home", and then appeared on the Spring Festival Gala a total of 10 times.
Although Shao Feng brought a lot of joy to everyone on stage, few people knew that he had experienced hardships in real life.
After the marriage, his wife was diagnosed with "undead cancer", and he traveled around to borrow money to treat his wife.
During the treatment, his wife did not want to drag him down, and he filed for divorce twice, but both were rejected by Shao Feng.
In this way, Shao Feng, whose wife has been ill for 23 years, has never given up, what kind of love is this?
1.
As a child, Shao Feng was born into a family that had nothing to do with art, his mother was a pharmacist and his father was a worker.
Shao Feng in junior high school lived with his grandparents because his parents were busy with work.
The two elderly people did not have much energy to pay attention to his growth, and could only ensure that he ate enough every day and did not starve.
In this way, Shao Feng became more and more mischievous.
Every day he ran around outside, sometimes skipping class to go out to play.
At that time, he was a negative teaching material in the mouths of his neighbors, and even taught his children not to play with him.
It wasn't until he was in high school that something happened that changed him.
It was the first day of high school because I found that a nail on my desk hadn't been smashed in.
So he went downstairs to find a brick and brought it with him to smash the nail.
As a result, I met the principal in the corridor, and as soon as the principal saw him holding a brick, he began to question him:
"What are you doing with bricks? Who are you going to fight with again? I tell you, you can go to this school because your dad came to me! ”
At that time, Shao Feng was blindfolded, and then explained that he was trying to smash nails.
This incident made him realize how wrong he was doing, so he made up his mind to fight for his breath.
After that, he began to study hard, but because of his poor foundation, he memorized many things.
In his first midterm exam, he took the first place in his class.
Shao Feng's father was also very pleased when he saw it, and after that, he began to study hard, and also became the president of the school's student council and the head of the publicity department.
After graduation, Shao Feng was originally going to enter a factory as a worker, and the positions had been arranged.
But his father felt that "a good boy must become a soldier", so Shao Feng entered the army.
2.
At the beginning, he was not a literary soldier, and the reason why he could get acquainted with literature and art was because he sang without going out of tune.
At that time, each company had to choose someone to go to the regiment to learn songs, and then come back to teach everyone after learning.
And Shao Feng got this opportunity because he sang out of tune and became a conductor.
His command was different from others, there would be changes in strength and weakness, and he was noticed by the propaganda officer in the regiment.
So I found him and asked him to sing a song and listen to it.
As soon as the propaganda officer heard him sing, he felt very good, and Shao Feng was selected into the propaganda team.
I thought that after being selected, I could do literature and art-related, but I didn't expect to put him in the cooking class.
But at that time, Shao Feng couldn't cook at all, and everything could only be learned.
At first, he was somewhat uncomfortable, but he did not give up, but took every opportunity to learn talent.
At that time, the army would sometimes invite teachers to rehearse skits, often late into the night.
Shao Feng said to make them a late-night snack, but they couldn't cook food, so they could only cook some noodles.
Noodles can't be made in advance, otherwise it will collapse.
So Shao Feng offered to watch them rehearse on the side, and when it was almost over, he went out to cook noodles.
At that time, the teacher thought that Shao Feng was quite dedicated, so he agreed to this request.
After that, whenever he came to rehearsal, Shao Feng would move a small bench by himself to watch from the side.
Looking at Shao Feng, he thought to himself: Some actors are really stupid, the teacher has said so many times that they can't.
At that time, Shao Feng had already memorized the lines because he had read it too many times.
Then one day the chief came to check the rehearsal of the program, and asked to see this skit by name.
As a result, on this day, the actor who played this sketch happened to take leave to go out, and there was no mobile phone at that time that could not be contacted.
Just when everyone was anxious like ants on a hot pot, Shao Feng took the initiative to stand up and said that he could.
At that time, the captain was also half-convinced of him, let him take the script to the stage, and specially greeted the chief that he had just started rehearsals.
As a result, I didn't expect that Shao Feng didn't take the script at all when he went on stage, and the captain was a little anxious offstage at that time.
But I didn't expect that the effect of Shao Feng's performance was unexpectedly good, and the audience, including the chief, laughed forward and backward.
After the sketch ended, the chief pointed to Shao Feng and said, "This kid is acting too well." ”
It is because of this sentence that this skit has been played by Shao Feng since then.
This sketch later won awards throughout the Military Region, and Shao Feng became famous and was transferred to the Jinan Military Region Repertory Troupe.
While his career is rising steadily, Shao Feng has also gained his own love.
A friend saw that he had always been single, so he offered to introduce him to a partner.
Shao Feng also felt that he was indeed the boss and not small, so he agreed to meet him.
The introducer left after introducing Shao Feng and Zhao Xia to each other, and the two were ready to eat.
Before eating, Shao Feng asked Zhao Xia a question: "What do you like to eat in your staple food?" ”
Zhao Xia said rice, but when she ordered, the waiter said that there was no rice in their store.
In fact, Zhao Xia could eat nothing else without rice, so she didn't say anything at that time.
But Shao Feng turned his head directly and went out after hearing this, when Zhao Xia was still confused, I don't know what he was doing.
Shao Feng soon returned, still holding a bowl of rice in his hand.
It turned out that he went out specifically and went to the restaurant next door to buy a bowl of rice.
It was this detail that moved Zhao Xia, and her first impression of Shao Feng was very good.
After that, the two would go out to eat together from time to time, and gradually confirmed their relationship.
3.
Their relationship went very well, so they got married after six months of acquaintance.
They had a sweet time after marriage, and the two had a son.
Just when they were immersed in the happiness of the family, soon an incident happened that hit the family deeply.
In 2000, Zhao Xia always felt unwell.
At first, she felt nothing, maybe she was too tired from work some time ago, just take a break.
But I didn't expect that with the passage of time, it became more and more serious.
She was visibly emaciated, and her whole body began to hurt, making it difficult to get up on her own.
Seeing this, Shao Feng strongly asked Zhao Xia to go to the hospital to take a look.
Zhao Xia still felt that there was no big problem at this time, but she couldn't stand Shao Feng's insistence, so she agreed.
At first, she was worried that she would delay Shao Feng's work, so she said that she could just go by herself.
But Shao Feng couldn't rest assured, and still insisted on accompanying her.
So it was agreed that the two would go to the hospital early the next morning.
When they arrived at the hospital, there was already a long line of doctors at the door.
Shao Feng helped Zhao Xia and began to line up.
Soon the doctor came and subconsciously glanced at the team when he opened the door.
Then he beckoned to Shao Feng so that they didn't have to queue up to come first.
At that time, the other patients thought that they knew the doctor, but in fact, Shao Feng was also confused.
After entering, the doctor asked Zhao Xia some questions about her condition, and then asked Shao Feng to prepare for hospitalization.
At that time, Shao Feng did not realize the seriousness of the matter, and wanted to go home with his wife to clean up and come to the hospital tomorrow morning.
Unexpectedly, the doctor said:
"Don't go tomorrow morning, go back by yourself, your lover can't leave to stay for the examination, you go back and prepare a hospital deposit."
At that time, Shao Feng chuckled in his heart, feeling that his condition might not be simple this time, so he asked how much money he needed to prepare.
The doctor asked him to prepare 100,000 yuan first, and Shao Feng's bad premonition in his heart became stronger, so he asked the doctor what kind of disease it was.
Only then did I know that Zhao Xia had an intractable disease in the immune system, which was called "undead cancer".
Then Shao Feng would go to raise money, in fact, all his savings at that time added up to only three thousand yuan.
He had to admit his wife to the hospital first, and then go around raising money himself, borrowing it all over by friends and colleagues.
After the friends learned about this, they also did their best to help Shao Feng.
During that time, the two people could be said to be exhausted, and Zhao Xia was tormented by illness and lived very painfully every day.
At that time, all the people living in the same ward were her disease, and many people died because of it.
This situation is a big psychological blow for people who are sick.
And Shao Feng has to run around to borrow money to make money in addition to taking care of his wife, and both of them know that it is not easy for each other.
Zhao Xia saw Shao Feng's efforts in her eyes, and she couldn't bear to let him work so hard because of herself.
And there is no chance of cure for this disease, Zhao Xia really does not want to drag Shao Feng, so she took the initiative to file for divorce.
But Shao Feng said that he didn't agree with anything, and comforted her in turn:
"We're going to get through this together, and we're going to watch our children grow up together."
Zhao Xia was very moved after hearing this, and began to actively cooperate with the treatment, facing every day with optimism.
At that time, everyone in the same ward was surprised that Zhao Xia could continue to be optimistic in this situation.
But only Zhao Xia herself knows that this is the only thing she can do.
Only in this way, Shao Feng will not worry more about himself.
The two of them have always thought about each other and done what they can for each other.
At that time, Shao Feng relied on his death salary to not cover the cost of his wife's treatment, so he began to join the entertainment industry.
He began filming various scenes, and almost all of the money he earned was used to treat his wife's illness.
At first, no one in the entertainment industry knew him, and he could only run some tricks.
It was a very hard day, but Shao Feng did not complain of bitterness, and every time he went to the hospital to see his wife, he smiled.
Zhao Xia knew that she needed a lot of money to cure this disease, and her family did not have so much savings.
So occasionally ask Shao Feng money-related questions, and every time Shao Feng says:
"You don't have to worry about the money, it's all handed over to me, and you can rest assured to cooperate with the doctor in the hospital."
Zhao Xia understood that Shao Feng didn't want to worry herself, she was distressed and powerless.
At that time, all she could do was actively cooperate with the treatment.
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At that time, Zhao Xia was once admitted to the intensive care unit because of this disease.
After finally controlling it, necrosis of the femoral head was found.
At first, she was able to move forward with Shao Feng's help, but later she could only sit in a wheelchair.
Because necrosis of the femoral head is irreversible, surgery is the only way to heal.
However, because Zhao Xia herself suffers from a disease, the possibility of accidents during the operation is greatly increased.
So at first they just want conservative treatment, and if they don't develop more serious, they are satisfied.
But the heavens did not favor them, and eventually developed to the point that they must be operated.
After discussion, Shao Feng and Zhao Xia unanimously decided to undergo surgery.
As a result, they could not meet doctors who dared to operate on them, and at that time, they found many doctors in order to be able to operate smoothly, but they were all rejected.
Because the risk of operating on Zhao Xia was too great for them to bear.
Zhao Xia's originally optimistic attitude was hit because of this.
During that time, she pretended to be fine on the surface, but she still felt very uncomfortable in her heart.
So after a period of consideration, she filed for divorce from Shao Feng again.
Shao Feng understood the entanglement in her heart during this time, but it was absolutely impossible for her to agree to divorce.
But this time, he didn't say much, but tried his best to find a doctor who could operate on her.
During that time, Zhao Xia's mood was very bad, and the whole person became sensitive and irritable.
During this time, Shao Feng once said to his son:
"You must pay attention to finding a daughter-in-law in the future, nothing else matters, but you must find a healthy one."
At that time, Zhao Xia was very angry after listening to it and said:
"You regret marrying me, a sick man, right? It's too late to regret, I'll depend on you for the rest of my life. ”
As a result, Shao Feng asked her to cooperate with the treatment, and he was very happy to be relied on by her.
Zhao Xia also understood that Shao Feng did not actually dislike himself, but hoped that he could get better than anyone else.
She felt that Shao Feng had not given up, and she couldn't give up.
At that time, Shao Feng tried hard for a long time, but he still couldn't find a doctor who was willing to do surgery.
So on this night, Shao Feng said to Zhao Xia:
"Let's not do this operation, no matter what happens to you in the future, I don't dislike you."
Zhao Xia was very moved after hearing this sentence, since she fell ill, she has lamented more than once that she has not married the wrong person.
In fact, when she first got married, Zhao Xia always felt that she loved Shao Feng more.
But it wasn't until she found out about this disease that she found out how much Shao Feng loved herself.
Fortunately, in the end, they managed to find a doctor and agreed to operate on Zhao Xia.
Others may have only one page of consent to surgery, but Shao Feng signed a full three pages.
Because it is important to tell the patient's family everything that may happen so that the surgery can be performed.
In fact, during this time, Zhao Xia has always been very insecure.
She panicked at the thought that she might never be able to walk again.
But after the surgery, she still only showed her optimistic side.
The day after the operation, she still had various tubes inserted in her body.
Zhao Xia smiled and said to Shao Feng that he was half-numbed when he underwent surgery yesterday, and when he saw his legs, he could feel that his bones were shaved.
Although Zhao Xia said it with a smile, Shao Feng's eyes were moist as he listened.
He felt that Zhao Xia had suffered too much, and Shao Feng took good care of Zhao Xia after the operation.
After his care, Zhao Xia's body is getting better and better day by day.
The surgery was a great success and all the bad things that could have happened did not happen.
At the same time, the diseases of the immune system are also well controlled, although they cannot be cured, but they will not affect life too much.
This very difficult period for the two of them finally passed.
After that, someone also asked Shao Feng if he had thought about giving up during that time.
Shao Feng's answer was no.
Because he felt that Zhao Xia married him and gave birth to a son, he had become a part of his life, and he couldn't give it up or give up.
After Zhao Xia's condition was under control, Shao Feng began to concentrate on his career.
Because of the process of treating diseases for so many years, he borrowed a lot of money, and he wanted to pay it back as soon as possible.
In 2007, Shao Feng appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for the first time and performed the sketch "Going Home" with Guo Donglin.
Since this night, the national audience has known this actor named Shao Feng.
It was at this time that his career began to officially develop.
After that, he appeared on the Spring Festival Gala ten times and starred in many film and television dramas.
He also paid back all the money he owed, and gave his wife and children a better living environment.
When Shao Feng is busy with his career, it is inevitable that he will not be able to go home for a long time.
But he did not snub his wife because of this, and when he was working, whenever he was free, he would call his wife.
Now 23 years have passed since the diagnosis of the disease, Zhao Xia's condition has been well controlled, almost no different from ordinary people.
Their son has also grown up, and the family of three is living a happy life.
In fact, when the diagnosis was first diagnosed, the doctor had given the worst plan.
It is said that Zhao Xia did not have much time left at that time, but now the deadline for her to survive has far exceeded.
Now Shao Feng is still active on the screen, bringing you a lot of wonderful works.
On February 27, 2023, the second season of the fire series popular science short drama "Daqing is Coming" was launched.
Shao Feng also participated in a guest appearance in it, and the audience is looking forward to what kind of wonderful performance he will bring.
5.
Shao Feng has had many opportunities in his life, and it is precisely because of his efforts that he can seize those opportunities and become an excellent actor.
Although his life fell into a trough later because of his wife's illness, he never gave up and went all over the world.
Even in the most difficult time, Shao Feng never thought of giving up.
Zhao Xia has been ill for 23 years, and Shao Feng has always been by her side and accompanied her through one difficulty after another.
People can't have smooth sailing in this life, and many times they may think that they have encountered a desperate situation that they cannot get by.
Hold on a little longer at such a time, and it may be a better tomorrow.