"The Road of Life" Why does Gao Garin like Huang Yaping? Like that she can dance, or envy wealth

On March 29, the TV series "The Road of Life" was updated to episode 15. Liu Qiaozhen came to the city to visit Gao Garin, and Huang Yaping also made an appointment to take photos with Xiao Gao, but the reporter was embarrassed, and in the end, he quickly persuaded Liu Qiaozhen to go and rushed to find Huang Yaping. Later, reporter Gao and Announcer Huang traveled to Xi'an on business, but Gao Garin was very happy.

Obviously, in "The Road of Life", Gao Garin talked about Liu Qiaozhen in the countryside, which was considered to be eating from the bowl, but the city looked at Huang Yaping in the pot. This kind of style will obviously not be sympathetic to the young women of today. Friends who have read Lu Yao's original "Life" also know that Gao Garin really likes the girl Huang Yaping in the city. We might as well ask, why does Gao Garin prefer the girl in the city Huang Yaping?

The ostensible reason is that Huang Yaping can dance, knows poetry, also understands reportage, etc., and is even more good-looking, and is a former school flower. It can be said that there is a common language between Gao Garin and Huang Yaping, especially through literature. In "The Road of Life", there are lines that reinforce this. Huang Yaping and Gao Garin said that the dance they loved, watching carefully, is actually a literary language, and then invited Gao Garin to take pictures of themselves.

Based on the common love of literature and art, let Gao Garin like Huang Yaping? This can certainly be seen as a superficial and superficial reason. However, if any young man achieves a marriage based on this, the common language between them will eventually disappear as the marriage continues. True literary people have a clear understanding of this point. Take an example.

The TV series "Echoes" that has just ended is the work of serious literary writers. In this work, Dongxi (pen name) created a male protagonist in the direction of literary theory, and created a female friend and novelist for him. The two men share a wide range of common languages in literature and art. However, in the end, even if they were divorced, they still couldn't walk together. Serious literary workers know the truth - based on the common language of literature and art, it is impossible to become a husband and wife.

In the dimension of romantic poetry, we always say that we should find a soul mate. This is actually an empty phrase that deceives young people. Mr. Zhang Xianliang, who is also a well-known literary scholar, has another sentence, which is not empty words, he said: husband and wife are the relationship of forming a production team, that is, the labor cooperation together. This is something that young people should listen to. For example, teachers who now have stable jobs always like to find doctors with stable jobs as companions. Doctors and teachers, what is this common language?

Therefore, Gao Garin likes Huang Yaping because they have a common language, which I don't believe. This Gao Garin, when he was in the countryside, did not see him talking less with Liu Qiaozhen. He and Liu Qiaozhen can talk about a lot of content, but I didn't see him say that he has no common language. When he entered the city, he felt that there was no common language. Eating rice in one pot all the time, it is easy to give birth to a common language.

So, at a deeper level, why do the Gao Garins like Huang Yaping? Note that I use the word "we" here. The story in "The Road of Life" is actually about two groups. Gogarin represents a group of poor young men from rural areas. Huang Yaping, on the other hand, represents a relatively affluent group of women who have been living in cities. I don't know if netizens remember it, a few years ago, a male student in Hengzhong swore on a TV show: Inspirational to go to the cabbage in Gongcheng.

That's what it means. Why do rural young men always have love fantasies about urban young women? This is actually a goddess fantasy. And this kind of goddess fantasy, only women based on a relatively favorable environment, can become the so-called goddess. The Gao Garins did not so much like Huang Yaping, but they envied Huang Yaping's excellent urban life, especially in people who saw the advanced nature of urban life.

In the era when rural young women still used gala oil, urban young women began to use various brands of cosmetics. This is the appeal of the goddess that the Gogarins worship. And this appeal does not come from literature, poetry, dance, etc., but from the relative prosperity of life. Deep down, the Gogarins yearned for this rich lifestyle. And Huang Yaping just provides a model for young women in this lifestyle.

Our group of middle-aged and elderly men always say that girls should be rich, and this is the truth. We want to let the girls cultivate an urban lifestyle through a relatively rich and prosperous life. This kind of grace and elegance belongs to itself, and it can also shine on many male young men of the right age. Liu Qiaozhen, who drives a tractor every day to send powder, certainly does not have this kind of grace and elegance. She is just the grace and elegance of the village of Gogarin.

In "Great Rivers", the same poor Song Yunhui was finally admitted to university, got out of his poor family, entered a stable large factory to work, and lived the life he longed for. At this time, who does he like? He likes Cheng Kaiyan. Why? Because Cheng Kaiyan has been a child who grew up in the city since he was a child, he has the grace and elegance of urban life. Gao Jalin is to Huang Yaping is no different from Song Yunhui to Cheng Kaiyan.

However, in "Big River 2", the generous and elegant Cheng Kaiyan has finally become the "yellow flower of tomorrow" of Song Yunhui, who has been promoted, and he began to dislike his wife. The sense of grace and elegance of the goddess back then disappeared with Song Yunhui's own life also entering this state. I think, Cheng Kaiyan's "tragic fate" is not Huang Yaping's?

Based on this, I want to say, the road of life, Yaping runs. (Text/Ma Qingyun)