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Song Chunli
Song Chunli is a well-known performance artist with virtue and art, starring in hundreds of film and television dramas such as "Plainclothes Policeman", "Jiuxiang", "Goddess Out of the Smoke", "The Day Of Leaving Lei Feng", etc., and has won more than ten chinese film "Golden Rooster Awards", "Hundred Flowers Award" For Best Actress, Best Supporting Actress and other honors.
Song Chunli mostly portrays the image of a strong, stoic, kind and loving mother, and is known as a "mother professional household". However, in life, she did not have children of her own. After she and her husband, Sun Weixi, a professor at the Central Conservatory of Music, entered old age, the couple tasted the pain of "Dink"... After the friction, they wisely resolved the hidden worries of their old age and ushered in a happy and happy old age for the "Dink family"!
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In September 2010, at the age of 65, Sun Weixi retired from the Central Conservatory of Music. "Alas, decades pass in the blink of an eye." With some emotion, he confided with Song Chunli: "You are also 59 years old, when you were young, we were busy with our careers, and the reunion time was very small. In the future, you will shoot fewer scenes, and we should live our own lives. Song Chunli declined: "My body is tough, no illness and no pain, I can hold on." Besides, every year so many good dramas come to the door, where do I give up? Old Sun, give me another 5 years, and then I will listen to what you say. ”
Song Chunli and her husband
Song Chunli and her husband are a "Dink couple" and do not have children of their own. A week later, Song Chunli rushed to Yimeng, Shandong Province, with the crew of "Earth Affection", and Sun Weixi stayed at home alone. For decades, Sun Weixi has treated students as his own children, and he has some emotional sustenance; now that he is far away from the campus and does not have the pure smiling faces of children around him, he feels deeply uncomfortable.
Retirement is too lonely, and a person's life is too boring! Sun Weixi frequently talked on the phone with Song Chunli, nagging and talking about his life in every detail. In the past, Song Chunli used to call home, and her husband was often either in the college or on the way to the college. Husband is not a trivial person, Song Chunli can feel his loneliness. Therefore, no matter what Sun Weixi nagged, Song Chunli patiently listened.
One morning at 6 o'clock in the morning, Song Chunli just opened her eyes, and Sun Weixi's phone came: "Last night I was soaking in the bathtub, listening to music and falling asleep. At 12 o'clock in the evening, fortunately, the Persian cat jumped on the bathtub and licked me awake with his tongue licking my hand, otherwise I would have had to catch a cold. At the end of the evening, Song Chunli just entered the hotel, and her husband complained on the phone: "At noon, I invited 5 students to come to the house for dinner, they promised to be good, I was purchasing and cooking, and I made a full table of dishes, but only two students came." You don't know how depressed I am..." The husband was lonely like fireworks, Song Chunli had a good comfort, and Sun Weixi's mood calmed down.
In December of that year, "The Affection of the Earth" was completed, and Song Chunli returned to Beijing to reunite with Sun Weixi. In order to compensate for her husband, Song Chunli played the role of a virtuous wife to the extreme: she pushed away all social activities and activities to accompany her husband at home. Song Chunli washed away the lead and plunged into the smoke-filled kitchen to make her husband's favorite steamed fish head. Sun Weixi did not sleep well, and could only sleep for three or four hours a night. Song Chunli personally cooked peanut tea for her husband according to folk remedies. She found organic peanut leaves from a farmhouse in Daxing, Beijing, washed and dried, took 10 grams each time to make a powder, and then mixed with ginger rice and goji berries, and brewed them into peanut tea with boiling water. After Sun Weixi drank for 3 weeks, the quality of sleep improved significantly.
In January 2011, Song Chunli was about to go to Hengdian, Zhejiang Province to shoot a drama. Before leaving, she bought beef, yogurt, dumplings, ravioli and other foods from the supermarket, filling the refrigerator to the brim. Carefully, she also pasted small notes on each grid for her husband to use. Sun Weixi stood in front of the refrigerator, as if he had lost: "I would like to eat all these things in two days." Sun Chunli smiled and asked, "Aren't you afraid of breaking your belly?" Sun Weixi's tone was humorous: "Only in this way can you go home and buy it for me as soon as possible, and I can be reunited with you." "Song Chunli realized her husband's deep attachment to herself, and she had a special taste in her heart...
As soon as Song Chunli left, Sun Weixi fell into loneliness again. The couple lived apart for two or three months, and Song Chunli often spent traditional festivals such as the Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, and National Day in the crew. Seeing the neighbors eating a reunion dinner happily, playing mahjong together or going out to watch movies together, Sun Weixi had the sad feeling of "a thousand sails on the side of the sinking boat". On the evening of June 3, 2011, Sun Weixi went downstairs to walk his dog, accidentally sprained his left leg, and his ankle was swollen like a bun, and he collapsed on a stone bench and could not go home. When she received a call from her husband, Song Chunli panicked: "Old Sun, what can I do about this?" I'm thousands of miles away from you, how can I get there? Sun Weixi twisted his facial features in pain: "I want to find a way to go to the hospital myself." ”
Sun Weixi
Song Chunli quickly called her husband's student, and half an hour later, two teachers from the Central Conservatory of Music rushed over and took Sun Weixi to the hospital. The two students took turns caring for their mentors in the hospital until Sun Weixi was discharged from the hospital a week later.
Although Song Chunli and Sun Weixi have status and status, the couple is low-key and humble, and they get along very well with their neighbors. After Sun Weixi was discharged from the hospital, his neighbors came to visit home with fruits and health care products. Looking at the dim light shining on the lonely Sun Weixi, the neighbors were very emotional: "Professor Sun, you have been busy all your life, you should have enjoyed a happy old age, who knows that this kind of day has been." If you and Teacher Song had a child, it wouldn't be like this. ”
People are the most vulnerable in pain. The neighbor's words aroused the resentment that Sun Weixi had accumulated in his heart. That night, Song Chunli came to greet her husband by phone, and Sun Weixi obviously had emotions in her words: "I have a family with a wife, but there is no difference between me and the widowed and the elderly." I need to be taken care of the most now, and I can't even see your shadow, what kind of life is this? Song Chunli patiently comforted: "Old Sun, I owe you too much in this life, and I will definitely compensate you well after the shadow is over." ”
It hurts for a hundred days. In mid-August, Song Chunli returned home from filming, and Sun Weixi was still walking on crutches. When the husband and wife met this time, Song Chunli had mixed feelings: her husband was old and haggard, his sideburns were white, and his mental state was not good. Seeing Song Chunli, he reluctantly said hello, and then leaned back on the sofa to read the newspaper. Look at the home, the window sills, coffee tables are full of dust, unwashed dishes, bitten apples, steamed buns scattered across the table... The husband is getting older day by day, and he really needs to be taken care of around him. Song Chunli consulted with her husband: "Old Sun, this time is difficult for you, let's still hire a nanny, so that I can be at ease when filming outside." Sun Weixi threw the newspaper away, and his tone was indifferent: "No matter how good the nanny is, who has his own children intimate?" Every time I see a neighbor's child come back to see my parents, I cry and think, how nice it would be if I had a child! Word by word, it touched the sore spot in Song Chunli's heart, and tears unconsciously filled her eyes...
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Song Chunli was born in February 1951 in Ji County, Hebei Province, and was admitted to the Guangzhou Military Region Drama Troupe at the age of 13. At the age of 27, she formed a family with Sun Weixi, a young teacher at the Central Conservatory of Music.
Stills of Song Chunli's "Adulterous Details"
In the third year after marriage, Song Chunli filmed the film "Adultery" in Heilongjiang and accidentally found that she was more than 2 months pregnant. She had shot more than 200 shots and didn't know what to do, crying on the phone and asking her husband for advice. Sun Weixi resolutely stated: "It is not easy for you to win this role, don't give up easily; and changing roles now will cause immeasurable losses to the crew." Let's get rid of the baby, we are still young, and it is not too late to have a baby in two years. ”
Song Chunli just rubbed shoulders with the children in her life. In the following years, Song Chunli became pregnant twice, both of which were forced to terminate their pregnancies due to the needs of the role. With the popularity of a series of classic film and television dramas such as "Plainclothes Policeman", "Mandarin Duck Building", "Jiuxiang", "Mother and Child in the Next Life", Song Chunli ushered in the heyday of her career, and has won the Best Actress and Best Supporting Actress Award of the Chinese Film "Golden Rooster Award" and "Hundred Flowers Award" for more than ten times, and the Best Supporting Actress Award of the Chinese Television "Golden Eagle Award" and the "Feitian Award" for Best Supporting Actress, becoming a well-known "Film Queen". Because most of the images of loving, kind, optimistic and strong mothers are created, Song Chunli has won the reputation of "mother professional household".
A flash of 10 years has passed, Sun Weixi has entered middle age, and his father's love is surging in his heart. He consulted with Song Chunli again and again: "We can't afford to wait any longer, and the matter of conceiving a baby should be put on the agenda." Doctors have said that children conceived by elderly parents are prone to physical defects. "Busyness is the main theme of Song Chunli's life, how can she stop? Song Chunli said casually: "I remembered your words, and everything followed fate." A few years passed, and the matter of having a child was shelved by Song Chunlisheng. After so many years of hard work, Song Chunli's body was seriously overdrawn, and after the years were not confused, her health, physical strength and energy did not allow her to conceive a child again, which became an eternal hidden pain in her and Sun Weixi's heart...
Young Song Chunli
Song Chunli apologetically said to her husband: "Old Sun, I'm sorry, I didn't let you enjoy a man's complete life." Sun Weixi's expression was dark: "It's too late to say anything now, I knew today, why did I do it in the first place?" Song Chunli was sad. After all, it is a loving couple who have been married for more than 30 years, Sun Weixi can't bear to blame his wife anymore, he walked to the piano and stood wildly playing Beethoven's "Symphony of Destiny". Song Chunli heard the frustration, resentment and pain in the notes, and the heavy bits fell into her heart.
Since her debut, Song Chunli has won more than 30 honors, trophies and certificates are placed on a wall, she is filming outside, and Sun Weixi wipes them every once in a while. During that time, Sun Weixi neglected this work due to a leg injury and a bad mood. On September 6, 2011, Sun Chunli saw that the trophy had fallen to a layer of ash, and while wiping it with a flannel cloth, she joked with her husband: "Old Sun, these trophies are bought by me for my youth and life, you can't let them be dirty." Sun Weixi said in his words: "What is the use of taking more trophies?" The trophy can't talk, nor can it pour us a cup of water or a cup of tea. Heartache struck again, and Sun Chunli's eyes were covered with water mist...
Song Chunli's nephew Song Chuyan is a well-known young actor, a young man in his early 30s, who looks like a talent. One day, Song Chuyan came to his aunt's house as a guest. Song Chunli gave him a task: "I have been in the crew all year round, your uncle is very lonely at home alone, and when you are not filming, you will come to accompany him." The nephew quickly agreed: "Sister, I am not as busy as you, and I strive to come over every week to play chess and chat with my uncle." ”
After the nephew left, Song Chunli smiled and said to her husband: "Old Sun, Chu Yan is also our family. After I am not in Beijing, I will hand you over to him. Sun Weixi was depressed: "No matter how filial the nephew is, he does not have his own children to be intimate." Song Chunli, who had been patient for a long time, broke out: "It was also your idea to kill the first child in the first place, how come it has now become my sin?" I am the mother of a direct child, and I have more pain than you. To whom do I confide in my troubles and grievances? "If you didn't take one less play back then, it wouldn't be like this now." This loving couple made a fuss about it...
Song Chunli was saddled with huge psychological pressure, sleep disorders, Sun Weixi's mood was also very bleak, and the atmosphere at home was dull and depressed. In November of that year, Song Chunli filmed the TV series "ManQiu" in Dalian, Liaoning Province. Every evening at the end of the work, she took the initiative to call her husband to greet her. Sun Weixi's tone was polite: "You don't have to worry about this heart, I will take care of myself." The husband's politeness reflects the differences and estrangement in his heart. Song Chunli's heart was like a punishment.
A few days later, Song Chunli received an email from her husband. Just one glance, she burst into tears. Sun Weixi wrote: "You are busy in the crew, and you can't feel my mood at all. The loneliness of old age is bone-chilling, the home is as quiet as a temple, and I really want to escape. But I'm old, my legs and feet are not flexible, where can a person go? Occasionally live in a relative's house for two days, go home and push the door, the cold and lonely face comes, the home is full of dust, can not smell a little fireworks. I often sit with a Persian cat in the middle of the night. Am I destined to be alone for the rest of my life? Does our state of life continue like this until the end of our lives? ”
Her husband's spiritual monologue shocked Song Chunli and also caused her to think deeply: life is an art full of regrets, and she has gained too many honors, flowers and applause, but what she and her husband are left with is the pain and regret of the "Dink family". Since the fact that not having children cannot be changed, it is my own responsibility and obligation as a wife to minimize the regret and pain of her husband...
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Never leave your husband alone again! Two days later, Song Chunli booked a ticket for Sun Weixi and invited her husband to visit the crew. She pushed her heart to confide in her husband: "Old Sun, I finally figured it out, at my age, wealth and honor are all over the clouds, and only a good old age is the most important." In the future, I will take less drama and take more time to accompany you, although we have no children, we will be happy and happy in our old age. ”
Song Chunli's planning for the future stimulated Sun Weixi's enthusiasm for life, and the haze in his heart was suddenly swept away. Yes, instead of arguing and hurting each other, it is better to face the reality and find ways to live a good life in the present. Sun Weixi squeezed Song Chunli's hand: "Will our change start today?" Song Chunli nodded, "In the future, you and I can't be separated for more than half a month." She booked a hotel near the crew and let Sun Weixi stay together. The conditions of the crew are difficult, although Sun Weixi eats a box lunch with the staff every meal, and his stay is not comfortable at home, but he feels very down-to-earth when he sees Song Chunli dangling in front of his eyes every day.
Song Chunli did what she said, and after the completion of "Full Autumn", she adjusted her life plan: she only took two or three plays a year and gave more time to her husband. When Sun Weixi was young, he had a dream, that is, to travel around the country. In 2012, Sun Weixi turned 67 years old, and her husband would not go out for a walk anymore, and he would not be able to walk anymore. Song Chunli strives to help her husband realize his dream. In April of that year, when spring was in full bloom in Beijing, Song Chunli asked her nephew to drive a car and take her husband and her south for sightseeing. The three of them set off from Beijing, passing through Hebei, Henan, Hubei and Hunan, and the trip continued to Guangxi. Song Chunli accompanied Sun Weixi to watch the sunrise in Wudang Mountain, stood on the Yellow Crane Tower to count the sails of the river, climbed over the top of Heng Mountain to admire the moon; they also boated like young couples in the vast Dongting Lake... When he was young, his dream was finally realized, and Sun Weixi's face was full of smiles in every wrinkle, and his mood was particularly comfortable. After traveling for more than two months, Song Chunli accompanied her husband back to Beijing.
Normal couples reach their twilight years, have junior support, and their lives are guaranteed. The "Dink couple" is very different, they have to rely on themselves in their old age, especially in terms of economy. Song Chunli told her husband: "Old Sun, as we grow old day by day, the quality of life can not decline, while I can still make money by filming, we have to make plans for the future." This is also Sun Weixi's concern. For decades, Song Chunli and his wife have looked down on money, and in addition to supporting their parents on both sides, they often help their brothers and sisters. Moreover, the couple donates more than 100,000 yuan to the Hope Project and charity every year. Therefore, although Song Chunli's films are constantly dating, the family does not have much savings.
Young Song Chunli with her husband
In June 2012, Song Chunli opened an account in the bank and then handed the bank card to Sun Weixi: "Old Sun, this is a special account for our family pension fund, and it will be handed over to you to take care of." Sun Weixi attaches great importance to this matter: "I must manage this money bag well and let the money make money." Since then, every time Song Chunli gets a piece of remuneration, she injects a sum of money into the pension fund account. Sun Weixi also squeezed out a third of his monthly pension to save. The couple followed the experts to learn financial management, and they spent one-third of the pension fund on the purchase of participating insurance, one-third of the low-risk monetary fund, and one-third of the government bonds and bank short-term wealth management products. In this way, Song Chunli and Sun Weixi have endless things to do every day, watching the amount on the account climb day by day, the couple has a beautiful vision for the future in their hearts!
The best way to accumulate wealth is to open source and reduce expenditure. When people are old and do not get sick, they are making money. Song Chunli and Sun Weixi pay special attention to health, the couple only eat seven points of full each meal, away from high-calorie, high-fat junk food; in order to prevent Alzheimer's disease, Song Chunli and her husband will always eat brain-healthy, brain-supplementing walnuts as snacks. After dinner, the couple often read books and newspapers, absorb new knowledge, and exercise brain thinking ability.
Song Chunli is at home, and Sun Weixi lives a regular life, practicing tai chi in the community every morning. But as long as his wife went to the crew, Sun Weixi's life was irregular, and he didn't get up in the morning, and he didn't even eat breakfast. Intellectuals are relatively weak in physique, so Sun Weixi often has a cold and fever. Song Chunli explicitly asked her husband: "Whether I am at home or not, you must exercise for two hours a day." Song Chunli remotely controlled her husband in the crew, and at 6 o'clock every morning, she called on time to wake up Sun Weixi and go downstairs to exercise. After insisting on it for a while, Sun Weixi's physical fitness was greatly improved.
Song Chunli and Sun Weixi have an agreement that as long as she stays in the crew for half a month, her husband must rush to reunite. In January 2014, Song Chunli filmed the TV series "Domino of Love" in Tianjin, because she was the female number one, Song Chunli played a very heavy role, and for a whole week, she filmed for up to 16 hours a day. Half a month later, Sun Weixi went to visit the class. The next day, Song Chunli was overtired and collapsed in the bathroom, with the back of her hands scratched. Sun Weixi was heartbroken, he helped Song Chunli to the bed, soaked her feet with warm water, and gently massaged her head. Song Chunli's fatigue was greatly relieved. Looking at her husband's gray hair, Song Chunli truly experienced the connotation of the phrase "less husband and wife and old companionship".
The next day, Sun Weixi also took the initiative to communicate with director Liu Xuesong: "Old Song is 62 years old, his physical strength and energy are not as good as before, can he shoot shorter every day?" Zhan Dao understood Sun Weixi's mood: "Professor Sun, I listen to you. Since then, Song Chunli has been shooting no more than 10 hours a day. Every day after his wife finished work, Sun Weixi took her arm and walked, talking about interesting things about her youth, and the two laughed. Their affectionate affection for each other made everyone in the crew move.
Today's Song Chunli and his wife are very happy in life, and there is no hidden worry of the general elderly "Dink couple". They are tough, their faces are rosy, their spirits are strong, and the couple often travels together, exercises, visits relatives and friends, and lives are colorful. They have their own house, have their own savings, have inseparable husband and wife affection, and are a pair of uncompromising elderly "happiness masters". How does the "Dink couple" make their old age happy and exciting? Sun Chunli and Sun Weixi provided the most successful model for the Dink couple!
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