#头条创作挑战赛 #
Actual events:
The daughter is 6 years old and attends kindergarten. Without the habit of napping, it is difficult to fall asleep at school at noon.
Yesterday at noon she fell asleep very late, when she got up, the teacher could not wake up, probably for fear of affecting the afternoon teaching activities, the teacher still forced her to get up, she stood alone on the ground, holding clothes that she had not yet had time to wear, standing alone in the corner of the classroom, looking pitiful.
When I read the word "hurt", my daughter suddenly said to me: "Mom, I was hurt too", at first I felt a little funny, the little fart knows what "hurt", but she looked at me very seriously and said: "In school, what the teacher did to me made me very uncomfortable, I felt that my heart was broken, and there were many cracks!" "Speaking of which, I'm a little emotional.
I also got serious: "Oh? You feel bad, what did the teacher do to make you uncomfortable? She lowered her head and muttered, unable to speak, and I asked her again: "Did the teacher criticize you and still let you stand up?" She nodded: "Well, hmm". I hugged her and asked, "Do you feel hurt?" Then let mom help you fill those cracks! She raised her head and asked me curiously, "Mom, how do you fill it in?" I kissed her and smiled and said, "With my mother's love!" ”
My daughter smiled and looked at me with bright eyes: "Mom, kiss." I hugged her tightly and kissed her forehead, her small body nestled in my arms, quiet and docile. I think she should not be uncomfortable at this time.
Replay:
1. Usually do too much at home, the daughter's self-care ability is poor, and she is very slow to dress herself, so she should let go more;
2. Be a thoughtful person, find some small signals sent by the child, see the child's feelings, and relieve emotions in time;
3. Don't let children get entangled in negative emotions, and use loving language to give children warmth and comfort;
Children will come into contact with different teachers and classmates in school, each person's personality is different, she will also face a variety of modes of getting along, we can't control the behavior of others, but at least we can give the child a safe harbor, so that she can relax, heal, and then bravely set off.