Hello everyone, I am a family education instructor Guo Ma~
There are 2 realities that parents have to accept:
First, when the child goes to kindergarten, he can basically judge whether the child has the potential to be a top student;
Second, when children go to kindergarten, don't believe in such nonsense as "childhood is happy and does not need to learn".
First, explain the first reality.
The so-called potential of a student is not about how smart a child is, but whether a child has the ability to learn quietly and whether he has the strength to learn. Although kindergarten children are small, it does not prevent parents from seeing the potential of their children.
Second, explain the second reality.
Since parents feel that happiness and learning cannot be equated, do children not need to study after entering primary school?
I can only say, think too much.
Moreover, learning and happiness can coexist, and the reason why parents think that learning and happiness cannot coexist is to impose their distaste for learning on their children.
There are many kinds of learning, for example, when the child is a child, it is a kind of learning, the child is a toddler, it is a kind of learning, and the child's academic knowledge is actually a kind of learning.
Therefore, fast or unhappy is not defined by parents, but by parents through the correct way of education.
Those real top students, in fact, learning is really happy, they enjoy the joy of solving a difficult problem, which is a happiness that many poor students cannot feel.
Isn't it heart-wrenching?
Kindergarten focuses on 3 things in three years, parents do not have to worry after entering primary school, and the child's grades are still excellent
First things first: develop a good habit of reading
After entering primary school, no matter what subject, children need to have an ability, that is, the ability to read.
Even in mathematics, children need to be able to read and understand in order to start solving a math problem.
This is true of mathematics, not to mention the language subjects that need to read pictures to speak, write, and memorize?
If parents cultivate their reading habits at this time, children will come into contact with the larger and wider world from books, and they will read, think, and increase their horizons.
When they start learning in elementary school, reading textbooks is as easy for such children as eating.
And what about children who have not developed the habit of reading? After entering elementary school, at the beginning of contact with all kinds of dense, unrecognizable texts, where is the interest to talk about? At this time, it is difficult for parents to cultivate their children's reading ability.
It is really not difficult to cultivate the good reading habits of kindergarten children, and parents can only accompany their children to read a picture book every day. Over time, that's quite important.
The second thing: stimulate children's interest in learning
Child: "Mom, why aren't clouds as colorful as flowers?" ”
The mother's answer directly determines the child's future learning interest. For children, this answer is not so important, what is important is an attitude that parents give their children.
Children have a thirst for knowledge, and parents should protect this thirst for knowledge, not destroy it.
To be realistic, children's kindergarten literacy is a thing.
The child was curious on the way and asked what name was written on the building.
Parents are ignorant and miss an opportunity to stimulate their child's interest in learning. Waiting for future children to learn, using traditional teaching methods to let children learn, that can only be "dead learning".
However, if parents pay attention to it, tell their children's names, and then take their children to know other store names, road signs, etc. by the way, and the children recognize it and praise it again, then the child's interest in learning has been well preserved.
Whether children can learn happily depends on whether children are interested in learning, and this interest is not innate to children, but needs to be protected and stimulated by parents.
The third thing: cultivate children's concentration and logical thinking ability
If we say, the interest in learning is the attitude of children's learning.
Then, children's concentration + logical thinking ability is the child's ability to learn.
And 3-6 years old is a critical period for children's concentration and brain development.
As for concentration and logical thinking ability, it is also relatively empty, but it can be directly reflected from a child.
For example, kindergarten children, the same completion of a handmade work, some can focus and seriously finish, some, do a while without knowing what to do, and finally handed over to the teacher, naturally also a mess.
Only when children concentrate, move their brains, have this thinking ability, and learn in the future can their thinking be broader.
Kindergarten children want to cultivate concentration and logical thinking ability together, there is a shortcut, that is, to play interesting thinking game problems, pistachios play, is this set of "Focus Brain Magic Game Book" suitable for kindergarten children, a game book that can develop intelligence from diversified vision.
This set of "Focus Brain Magic Game Book" has a total of 4 volumes, each of which has a game theme, which is "Fun and Hide-and-Seek", "Fun to Find Difference", "Wisdom to Break into the Great Labyrinth", and "Comprehensive Training Camp".
So many games, all children love to play, can exercise children's concentration well.
In addition, 4 themes from a variety of different perspectives to exercise children's logical thinking skills.
For example, "Fun and Hide-and-Seek" can exercise children's hand-eye-brain coordination ability and enhance children's sensitivity to numbers;
For example, "Fun to Find Difference" can cultivate children's analytical ability and observation ability, because when children play, they need to pay a high degree of concentration, so the improvement of concentration can be seen;
For example, "Smart Labyrinth" can train children's visual tracking ability and spatial perception ability, and is very helpful for children's learning of direction and future mathematical geometry;
For example, there are more types of games in "Comprehensive Training Camp", although mixed, but also need children to play seriously, one game after another to play, the more children play, the more they want to play.
In general, children's concentration + thinking ability, not overnight can be cultivated, with this set of "concentration brain magic game book", can allow children from a variety of horizontal and vertical dimensions, to cultivate children's self-confidence, challenge ability, imagination, active thinking, brain potential, etc., so that children can truly form a lifetime of concentration and thinking ability!
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To parents with kindergarten children:
Our goal, in fact, is not necessarily that the child must become a top student, but the child's future learning, will not be so painful, so boring, the child can achieve certain results, parents are still very relaxed!