"I finally found my grandfather, my grandfather can take me up the Slip Light Avenue, I want to thank my grandfather, I thank your eight generations of ancestors."
The sketch "Not Bad Money" made Yadan a hit, and Zhao Benshan was even more important to her. But after so many years, only this skit can be remembered by the audience.
When she should have been shining, she suddenly disappeared from the entertainment industry, and Master Zhao Benshan expelled her from the division. Now she can only survive by selling goods live.
What mistake did Yadan make to make Zhao Benshan angry? What is the operation of her first marrying a senior brother and then marrying a senior brother? What exactly did she experience in the years after "Not Bad Money"?
Yadan is different from the other apprentices in Benshan Media, most of them take the initiative to learn from the teacher, but Yadan was invited into the Zhao family's class.
The 12-year-old girl was on stage, and when she was coaxed to go down in the audience, she forced tears to finish the performance. Let Zhao Benshan, who was sitting in the audience, feel pity, and even decided to take her as an apprentice after understanding her family lineage.
"This kid is really bitter." At the age when she should have gone to school, she endured hardships to perform in the two-person theater, and this was just the tip of the iceberg of her miserable childhood.
Yadan was born on a winter night in Heilongjiang, and the birth of a new life should make the family happy, but their family was noisy.
Her father's name is Lv Junting, an instrument player in the duo-turned-theater troupe, and her mother, Zhai Wei, is a two-person turned actor. In the northeast, duo turns are very popular, but the money that can really reach the hands of actors is not much. Therefore, the two of them did not stop arguing about it.
In the troupe, there will be quarrels over work, at home because there is no money, the husband and wife quarrel fiercely, braving the heavy snow to wrap the cotton jacket on their bodies, they must go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce.
The marriage of the two parents came to an end, but the girl had just been born, and her mother Zhai Wei left the troupe with her luggage after the divorce and went to perform abroad, leaving this bearded man alone holding his infant daughter, full of sadness.
At this time, Yadan is only 21 days, of course she will not know that the tragic life has just begun.
Her father painstakingly named her "Lu Pin", "five 'mouths' in the two words, so that at least she would not starve to death. "But how can a father take care of a child if he is a big man?
He took the girl to the troupe and was coaxed by his colleagues to take care of me, but this was not a long-term solution after all, so in order to take care of the family, he soon married another wife, also a two-person turned actor.
Fortunately, this stepmother did not abuse the child like most stepmothers, but regarded Yadan as her own, and Yadan also thought that the person standing in front of her was "mother".
When her stepmother married in, she was only a few months old, and since she was a child, her stepmother put her to sleep and told her stories. The father looked at the real face of the girl, so he chose to hide the truth,
Under the care of her mother, Yadan's life is not bad, maybe it is really because of her father's name, "five mouths" not only let her have food, but also let her speak well.
Since childhood, he has a naturally good voice, his voice is very clear, not only that, but also shows amazing comedy talent, often making everyone laugh,
In order to make the life of his wife and daughter better, the father thought of contracting the next two-person theater troupe and doing it alone. In order to be able to successfully contract the troupe, he borrowed a lot of foreign debts and raised the principal,
In order to be able to find a market, the family also moved from Heilongjiang to live in Tieling, Liaoning, and the family was a two-person turn, and the girl also fell in love with the life of the theater.
She followed the people in the troupe to learn to sing in two, her eyes were gurgling, and the thief had aura. Not only the duo turned, but also Beijing Opera, local ditties, and even pop songs sang well.
There are even many people who jokingly say, "Lao Lu, your daughter was born to eat this bowl of rice." ”
But whether it is the father or the stepmother, in fact, they don't want the girl to continue to do this line of work, they know how hard and tiring this line is, or they hope that she can study well,
However, the magic of the duo has always been deeply attracted to Yadan, she does not love school, but falls in love with following the troupe to perform abroad. The girl of that period, carefree, free and happy.
However, the good times did not last long, in the northeast, the competition between the two was too great, and my father borrowed a lot of foreign debts because he wanted to open a theater troupe, relying on the meager income from the performance, and paying the salaries of others, which was simply not enough to pay off the debt.
Under internal and external troubles, the troupe gradually could not continue, on the one hand, it had been losing money, and on the other hand, it had to pay off foreign debts, and the huge pressure was on his father's shoulders.
Faced with the debt collection of relatives and friends and the decaying troupe, the overwhelmed stepmother finally made the decision to divorce.
The ten-year-old girl watched her "mother" lead her sister away from home without returning, she cried bitterly, chased her stepmother all the way for hundreds of meters, until the dark night trapped her forward steps, she squatted in place and cried.
After running home, she asked, "Dad, mom is gone, I'm so scared, why didn't mom take me?" ”
"Mom, what kind of mother, she is your stepmother, your own mother didn't want you when you were born," the momentarily upset father said without choosing a word, and directly told the truth.
However, this is like a knife pierced in the heart of the girl. It turned out that he had long been abandoned by his mother, and it was twice. She didn't dare to cry anymore, so she could only cry silently.
The dissolution of the troupe made his father's debt increase again, and Yadan was forced to drop out of school and only read until the fourth grade of primary school.
Ten years old is like a watershed in Yadan's life, so that she should be full of innocence grow up overnight, in order to be able to repay the money as soon as possible, her father took Yadan to sell art together, and gave Yadan a stage name called "Mao Mao".
She began to sing in a serious way, imitating the appearance of an adult, with a thick foundation on her face, two pigtails, and the inferior blush and gorgeous lipstick on her face made her not look like a little girl at all.
The indispensable thing for performing a duo is a large flower jacket and a large handkerchief. The hot summer cotton jacket made her cover her body with prickly heat, but in the cold winter, minus 20 degrees, a single jacket made her freeze all over her body.
Not only to endure hardships, but also to face the audience's "golden eyes". The northeast is the "hometown of two people", grandpa and aunt will hum two sentences, of course, the young girl has immaturity,
But every time at this time, the audience will applaud, coax her down, and even throw things on the stage, beer bottles, raw eggs, see more, Ya egg is used to it, which also makes her practice a strong ability to withstand pressure.
After five years of such days, she often thinks of her mother, and her heart is very lacking in love, but there will be no time for her to be sad and sad,
She performed on stage day after day, but she did not expect to finally usher in the nobleman in her life.
It was 2004, Zhao Benshan had just founded the "Liu Laogen Big Stage", and it was urgent to recruit more duos to turn actors. At this time, Zhao Benshan was already very famous, known as the "light of the northeast", and there was even a saying called "After passing the mountain customs, find Benshan if you have something".
When such a master said that he hoped to accept himself as an apprentice, Yadan directly agreed without any hesitation. Joining the Zhao family class is tantamount to changing his life against the sky, which makes the displaced girl overjoyed.
But at the same time, she also felt a lot of pressure. Almost everyone in the Zhao family's class was full of stunts, and everyone had a unique skill, so she also began to practice day after day.
She wakes up early every morning to hang her throat, and everyone else sleeps late at night, but she still practices in the practice room. Efforts will be seen, and Zhao Benshan arranged a partner for her - Wang Jinlong.
Senior brother Wang Jinlong entered the Zhao family class a year earlier than her, and he was Zhao Benshan's beloved apprentice. Because of his super imitation ability, he also won the "New Miao Award", and was even brought to the crew of "Liu Laogen 2" by Zhao Benshan.
The first time he saw the girl, he was 'cute' by this somewhat weak little girl. He is a warm-hearted person himself, so in addition to rehearsing the duo together for the two, Wang Jinlong often provides some help in life.
He would bring boiling water to Yadan and deliver supper, and Yadan would clean his dormitory and do laundry. The tacit understanding between the two during that time, without words, with just one look, can understand each other's hearts.
It didn't take long for the two to be together logically, and they also got the approval of the master, and it was also a good marriage in the Zhao family's class.
In his early 20s, both of them were immersed in love, and Wang Jinlong even took out all his savings, asked his parents to borrow some money, bought a wedding house of more than 100 square meters, and prepared to marry a girl into the door.
Wang Jinlong's mother, Xu Xiuzhi, invited Yadan to her home and wrapped her a plate of hot dumplings. Looking at the intimate interaction between Wang Jinlong's mother and son, Yadan had red eyes.
Xu Xiuzhi also heard about this child's childhood, she held the girl's head and said, "Child, I will be your mother in the future." You love dumplings, and your mother will give you bags every day. ”
That was the dream of the girl who lacked love since childhood, and at this time she was completely immersed in happiness, and what she didn't know was that she would be hit by a big pie falling from the sky right away.
It was 2009, and the sketch "Happy Birthday" originally prepared by Zhao Benshan's team was eliminated during the review. As a last resort, he handed in a temporary script "Not Bad Money", but he didn't expect to pass the review unexpectedly.
The role of "waiter" directly set his apprentice Xiao Shenyang, but the "granddaughter egg" never thought of a good candidate. In a trance, he suddenly remembered "Mao Mao", who was not tall but had a very high voice.
He immediately called Yadan to come to Beijing, and Xiao Shenyang and Yadan achieved the sketch "Not Bad Money", and this sketch also made them popular throughout the country.
It was the much-anticipated Spring Festival Gala stage, and the explosion of the sketch made them go straight to the ladder.
I can't forget my grandfather's great kindness for the rest of my life, and I won't let you go if I am a ghost.
I thank you for eight generations of ancestors.
The golden sentences in the sketch spread all over the streets, and Yadan can be said to be a real overnight hit. It is also to commemorate this moment that Yadan was officially renamed from "Maomao" to "Yadang",
However, just when her resources and announcements were soft, and the future star path was bright, she made a decision that no one could understand - marry Wang Jinlong.
Master Zhao Benshan did not persuade this decision, but in any case, he couldn't stop the happy girl in his eyes. Even in order to make a show for his apprentice, Zhao Benshan drove his car Rolls-Royce to be a witness that day.
Zhao Benshan said seriously: "The two of you must respect and take care of each other, support each other, and go down together." ”
Wang Jinlong even made a guarantee, "I will love you for the rest of my life." ”
However, is the girl really happy after marriage?
After the wedding, Yadan turned into a "desperate third lady" and began to receive advertisements, commercial performances, and variety shows. The master even got a lot of fire resources for her.
First entered Zhang Yimou's drama "Three Guns Shooting Surprise", and then participated in "Happy Comedian". However, she did not expect that she made another wrong decision at this time.
No matter which show you go on, you must take your husband Wang Jinlong, perhaps to show that your success is half that of your husband, or maybe to help your husband also reach the peak of his career,
During that period, no matter where Yadan went, it was almost husband and wife, from Beijing Satellite TV's Spring Festival Gala to Hunan Satellite TV's Lantern Festival Gala, four times before and after, with the help of Yadan, Wang Jinlong's career finally improved.
However, at this time, Yadan was pregnant, and in the face of a rising career, Yadan still chose to upgrade the "little two" to a "family of three" without hesitation.
However, it takes more than a year before and after pregnancy and childbirth, and in the rapidly developing entertainment industry, Yadan was "shot to death on the beach" as she herself said.
Xiao Shenyang, who became famous with her, has become a famous comedian, with various TV series and movies being filmed on the street, but Yadan is still running local parties.
Not only is his career declining, but his relationship is also in crisis. After 2013, Yadan and Wang Jinlong never performed together again, and everyone suspected that they were divorced.
Some netizens even broke out to see Wang Jinlong shopping with other girls. The media was very perceptive and kept asking about the marital status of the two, but neither of them responded positively and kept silent.
Until 2017, Wang Jinlong inadvertently leaked his mouth, saying that in fact, the two had long been divorced. "The two of us are not called divorce, it should be said that fate is over."
The ex-husband has publicly admitted that Yadan also chose to make this matter completely clear, it turns out that the two have been separated for almost four years, and they only completed the formalities last year.
In fact, the marriage of the two of them has long had hidden dangers, they all say that "people are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong", and this marriage of "strong women and weak men" may not be destined to go far from the beginning.
Although the two divorced peacefully, there were no disputes about property and custody, but they really stepped on Zhao Benshan's thunder point.
At that time, he became famous overnight, and then divorced his wife Ge Shuzhen and left the house by himself. He was always guilty of this. After that, he made a rule for the apprentices: whoever divorced must obtain his consent.
For the act of divorce, he was angry in his heart, but he also had helplessness. He thought about expelling Yadan from the division, but after all, he started learning art since he was a child, and his heart was reluctant after all, so he still turned a blind eye, but did not continue to help her in her career.
But I didn't expect that soon Yadan sent Zhao Jiaban to the hot search again. In 2019, Yadan returned to the public eye because of the exposure of a marriage proposal video.
It was supposed to be a blessed video, but the protagonist of the marriage proposal is somewhat interesting. The male protagonist in the video is named "Xiao Pengfei", who is also a member of Zhao's family class and is Wang Jinlong's junior brother.
And this Xiao Pengfei is also a second marriage, and his ex-wife is also an actor in the Zhao family class. One is to marry the senior brother first, and then marry the senior brother; One is to marry the senior sister first, and then marry the senior sister.
The relationship between these four people made netizens shout: It's really fertile water that doesn't flow into the fields of outsiders. Zhao Benshan felt even more embarrassed, "I will definitely not go to the wedding, I can't afford to lose that person." ”
Although Yadan and Xiao Pengfei did not feel anything wrong, netizens scolded Zhao Jiaban so much that he couldn't raise his head, and Zhao Benshan expelled Yadan from Zhao's class in a fit of anger.
Without the help of the master, without the inclination of resources in the entertainment industry, she finally has no development in her career, her performance style has always been single over the years, and her age is increasing, but her performance style is still the original "Not Bad Money" girl,
Although she has also been on several variety shows, but has never stirred up any splashes, now she can only be reduced to the live broadcast room to sell goods, open her own company, find employees, but she can't understand selling goods, the company's performance is dismal.
What is even more unacceptable to her is that there are still many people in the live broadcast room who constantly abuse her, and in the face of one insult after another, she burst into tears on the spot and slapped herself more than 20 times.
With tears in his eyes, he apologized to the audience, telling him that it was not easy for him to go over the years, and he was forced to sell goods and make money now.
However, although the career is not smooth, but fortunately, today's family is happy, after marrying Xiao Pengfei, the two can be regarded as affectionate, and soon gave birth to a daughter.
She also gradually withdrew from the aura of the Spring Festival Gala and became a little woman who took care of her husband and family. In January this year, I couldn't bear the eagerness of my in-laws to want a grandson, and risked my advanced age to give birth to another son.
Although her career and income are not as good as before, she finally got the "love" she had been lacking. She is more peaceful and gentle today than in the past.
Many people are lamenting that if she hadn't gotten married at the peak of her career at that time, she might not have come to this point. Some people also said that if she had not been a hasty divorce, she would not have been expelled from the Zhao family.
But there are countless choices in life, no matter how you choose, there will be regrets. Big red and purple should not be the standard by which to judge whether a person is happy or not,
Now she is only 36 years old, and she has not yet reached the halfway point in life, and there are still many opportunities to choose in the future.
Although she and her ex-husband Jin Long have divorced, they are not torn and entangled, but still get along like relatives, and she will often visit her son.
In the future, I still hope that Yadan can continue to do what she likes, live the life she wants, and bless her together!