Not all love is like spring flowers and autumn moons.
Most people may only see its short and superficial beauty and plunge into it, but they don't know that behind the so-called love, there is also the word reality.
And most of the "reality" is often what can make the two people separate.
Deborah and Xie Xian, who had been in love for 16 years, that's it.
On May 14, Hong Kong media exposed the fact that Deborah and her second husband, Jiang Yaocheng, who was 11 years younger, were celebrating their wedding anniversary.
The "old husband and wife" in the picture appeared in the same couple's flower shirt, friends and relatives gathered together, and the children also sent them blessings, full of warmth.
Surprisingly, Deborah, who is almost 70 years old, can't see too much old age, worthy of being the first generation of Hong Kong sisters, and at this age, she still has a style.
Counting, she and Jiang Yaocheng have been working together for 21 years, from the Mandate of Heaven to the Ancient Rarity, and gradually walked through 21 years of life.
Deborah seems to have found a true love of her own.
But when many people mentioned his 16-year relationship with Xie Xian, they still couldn't help but sigh.
The Hong Kong entertainment industry in the 1950s was far less starry and blossoming than in the golden age (1980s).
But at that time, the Hong Kong circle was more difficult to ascend to the top, and the requirements for artists were also higher, and in that era when communication was not very developed, it was difficult to become a national idol, and its difficulty could be imagined.
In 1953, Tse Yin entered the circle and was admitted to the Hong Kong Actors Training Class for training.
At that time, Deborah, who had only been born for two years, was still a child with teeth and teeth.
When he was young, Xie Xian wanted to have a face, to acting skills, it seems that he was born to be an actor, he did not waste his talent, after graduating from the actor training class, he immediately began to shoot dramas, only to shoot two on the fire, and it is a big hit, and then it is a step by step, every movie and TV series is a big hit.
What other actors may take ten or twenty years to do seems too simple to Xie Xian.
More than ten years after his debut, Xie Xian was not satisfied with just filming, and began to open a company with others, make his own films, and then joined TVB, leaving behind many works that no one has surpassed so far.
In the Hong Kong circle at that time, the name of the fourth brother was almost unknown to everyone, and there were very few positions in the circle that could be compared with it.
If you don't believe it, you can look at the interviews of Er Dongsheng and Jackie Chan, Xie Xian of that year was the person who called Hong Jinbao a little fat, jackie Chan was also willing to call him a legend, and even the "big brother" xiang Huaqiang in the Hong Kong circle had to give the fourth brother a few thin noodles.
At that time, as long as he was willing to make a cameo appearance in someone else's play, the ratings of that play must have soared, and he was so hot at that time.
When Xie Xian had become a big man in the circle, Deborah had just finished participating in the Miss Asia election, but she also had a high starting point, and she was the first Hong Kong sister champion in Hong Kong.
When he debuted and stepped into the front line, he faded out of the entertainment circle after getting married and having children, leaving not many works.
Her fate with Xie Xian began with joining TVB.
The two joined the wireless front and back feet, both are a company, but also highly popular artists, usually inevitable contact.
Not to mention that the fourth brother at that time was a well-known "gentleman" in the circle, and he had divorced once before meeting Deborah, and the gossip girlfriends were countless.
But that didn't stop him from exuding charm to Deborah.
Speaking of the experience of the two acquaintances is also very simple, Xie Xian accidentally met the first beauty of the Hong Kong sister on the street, and the fourth brother who had been in love with her for a long time would not let go of the opportunity to talk, and immediately invited Deborah to the Qing Bar he and his friends had opened together.
After that, a crazy pursuit began.
Deborah was only a girl in her twenties, how could she resist the prodigal son's hospitality. The two became acquainted, and Deborah agreed to a date with Xie Xian, and the two stayed together for ten days.
More importantly, Deborah had a boyfriend at the time, but she still fell into Xie Xian's arms.
Needless to say, everyone should be able to guess what happened after that.
The two parted ways to be haunted, the seed of love in their hearts has been deeply planted, and Deborah soon broke up with her boyfriend at the time and returned to Hong Kong to be with Xie Xian.
After only a year of pat delay, Xie Xian and Deborah entered the marriage hall at the same time, and they also had a son and a daughter after marriage.
To say that love is indeed magical, can make a person change.
After marrying Deborah, Xie Xian completely put away his prodigal style, even if there were more warblers and swallows around him, he was not moved, and he wanted to run his wedding well.
But there is a saying that Jiangshan is easy to change its nature and difficult to move, the prodigal son is the prodigal son after all, even if there is some restraint in feelings, in other places can not help but cause trouble.
After marriage, Xie Xian still spent all day out having fun as before, and he was even more addicted to gambling.
Gambling this bottomless pit, a jump into it is difficult to turn over, the late Xie Xian, also has no past fame, owes a huge debt, throws a bunch of messes can not be cleaned up, actually have to wait for his teenage son to debut to help him pay off the debt.
Such a situation is not the so-called love can be resolved, coupled with the fact that during that time, the outside world spread the scandal between Deborah and the gambling king He Hongshen, and all kinds of pressures piled up, making Deborah exhausted, and could only lose to reality and choose to separate.
But the two are not like other entertainment couples, once divorced, they will fight to the death, all kinds of tearing their faces.
They broke up very peacefully, even if they divorced, they were friends, and they were still close when they met afterwards.
This 16-year marriage can also be regarded as the most profound memory of Deborah's life, but it can only be regarded as a memory.
Today, she has found a loved one to spend the rest of her life with.
In this life, people have had brilliance, there has been an unforgettable period, and then there is one person who can accompany you to the end of your life, that is enough.