Caring for virgins, starting in Japan.
As Japan entered the "Reiwa" era on May 1, the term "virgin of the three dynasties" came into being.
The virgin of the Three Dynasties, as the name suggests, refers to a man who has witnessed the three eras of "Showa", "Heisei", and "Reiwa", but his lower body still has no progress.
"The country is lamenting for you, the pandas in Ueno have all laid their cubs." The picture shows the stills of "Adult College".
The famous Japanese virgin Watanabe Nobu is also a member of the "Three Dynasties Virgins".
Twenty years ago, at the age of 26, he was as pure as a pigeon, but he did something that still seems great today.
First, all the virgins of Japan unite!
It was 1999, the first year of Japan's debut.
Taking advantage of being dumped by his girlfriend, Watanabe founded the "National Virginity Alliance" with several friends who had not yet opened their buds.
This is the world's first mutual aid organization composed of virgins to serve virgins, with the slogan: "Keep silent, the goddess will not come!" So take the courage to express yourself to the fullest! ”
The highest goal is for everyone to say goodbye to their right hand and go ashore as soon as possible.
President Nobu Watanabe (right), born in 1973.
"It's inevitable that a person is a little timid, and it feels full of confidence to be with the brothers."
According to the Japanese Excite website, the alliance attracted more than 400 people at the beginning, of which the 20th generation (20-29 years old) had the most virgins, accounting for 60%; the 40th generation accounted for 30%; the 10th generation and the 50th generation each accounted for 5%.
Members have no age limit, regardless of nationality, religion, and self-introduction when registering on the website is also very strange.
Some can see through the reasons for his original outfit so far.
My name is Cosmic Ren. People often think I'm weird (laughs). Having escaped the FBI's pursuit, he is now on an ecological observation mission for Earthlings on Earth.
Cosmic Jen: I'm confident in my face! Please advise. By the way, this is not the picture I was looking for online, it is a selfie.
But some of them make you wonder – how could he not have rolled over the sheets!
Graduated from Keio University, he is 180 tall and is often said to look good (happy) in a shirt. Stayed in Paris for one year. Interests are overseas travel, movies, golf, hot springs, karaoke, Disney, investment and many more.
Shuji Kawada graduated from Keio University in the "Handsome Brother Concentration Camp".
As the number of members increased, Watanabe was surprised to find that there were so many people who had similar experiences with himself!" ”
"I was injured in middle school and became a female phobia."
"In high school, I confessed to someone I liked for three years, and it failed miserably."
So he launched a "popular virgin ranking", hoping that the brothers would find warmth in their own people.
Popular debut top5, there is a feeling of fruit in the liberal arts class.
In order to let these "unwelcome men" reach the great harmony of life as soon as possible, Watanabe also gathers everyone together from time to time to engage in special training for hook-ups and recommend reliable dating websites to everyone.
There was even a column called "Virginity Health Room" for two volunteer female teachers to answer the emotional confusion of virgins.
The alliance's introductory must-read book " Middle-aged Virginity - Love In the Age of Less Children " , written by the president himself.
One of the most eye-catching is a practical tutorial with the theme of "How to Peacock Open Screen":
First, self-examination of clothing, hairstyle, body odor, and bad breath should be carried out. It is recommended to go to the malls of Shibuya, Harajuku, and Daikanyama to find a reliable Tony teacher and buy a normal dress;
Second, pick the right place to eat. "Men and women who have eaten together 3 times and nothing has happened in their lifetime." It is recommended to add a food rating by saying to the girl, "I know the chef.".
Put away your hobbies and interests.
PS: A virgin with a general academic background, you can say that your friend is Keio University. "President I am The One who is Qingying. You can borrow my name to ask the girl out, oh, then I will find an excuse to leave. However, make a reservation in advance. We decided on the date and script on the phone. ”
Finally, remember, talking about animation and gongkou games is absolutely taboo.
However, this tutorial ends abruptly when it comes to "calling the girl out".
"How to cut into the topic", "Love Hotel Practice Guide" and "Method of Creating Villains" are a wasteland of knowledge.
Watanabe said that because he had not experienced the rest of the matter, he could not make it up.
But in any case, a miracle happened. About 10 people in the league join each month, and 2-3 people can graduate in virginity.
For those who graduate from virginity, the avatar will display "Graduation". The editor will next to the blessing: "Congratulations on graduation! ”
At the age of 34, member Daisuke Kikuchi announced: Thank you President! Thanks to the National Virgin Union! I'm married!
Kikuchi smiled like a 200-pound child at the wedding, but Watanabe wanted to cry without tears: "It's so bad to get married before the president!" ”
Second, "Guys who can't sleep with women can't do it"
In fact, "virginity graduation" is the ultimate dream of all virgins.
In the fall of 2015, Japan's National Institute of Social Security and Demography found that 42 percent of unmarried men aged 18 to 34 were virgins, compared with 26 percent at ages 35 to 39 (the survey was conducted every five years and the results did not include same-sex couples).
In other words, 3 out of every 10 Adult Japanese males under the age of 40 are untapped virgins.
In recent years, Japanese men have further developed towards herbivorous or even hunger strikes. The number of "middle-aged virgins" over the age of 30 has increased dramatically, with authoritative media estimating that it has reached 3.09 million people, equivalent to the population level of 1.2 Osaka cities.
Many older generations expressed disbelief.
"It's disappointing for men today."
After all, in Japan, "virgins" only make people think of dirt, poverty, dirt, and even obscenity.
This is reflected in a survey conducted by Watanabe. Asked about their impressions of virgins, the girls thought so:
1 Like anime, two-dimensional. 736 votes
2 Fat and ugly, small there. 687 votes
3 Pure, good people. 624 votes
4 Disgusting, perverted, creepy. 603 votes
5 Ma Bao. 357 votes
Some girls even observed that they "wear a pair of shoes for a long time."
"Get out of virginity" has now become a sad slogan.
In fact, before the war, the Japanese generally believed that "the virgin body is a gift from a newlywed to his wife."
The idea of "virginity is shameful" only reared its head in the 1970s.
At that time, the Western sexual liberation movement spread vigorously to Japan, women's social status increased, their self-awareness became stronger, and premarital sex began to become normal.
As a result, men's chances of premarital sex also increase.
In this vast atmosphere, male ability is precious.
Like Yongze's "hundred people chop" in "Norwegian Forest", it seems that the market is better. As for the virgin, "only half a man!" ”
In the 1980s, when virgins were extremely despised, the idea that "great health care is better than the child's body" was even widely recommended by gender magazines.
This concept has been left over to this day, such as a certain issue of "Japan's fiercest roommate" invited the 21-year-old Todai virgin and Yuka Osawa to stay together for 3 days, and when Yuka Osawa advised each other to "in short, it is good to take care of it quickly" when they were separated.
"Sleep with a woman at least once!"
The virgins were determined, but reality dealt them another blow.
After japan's bubble economy burst, more women entered the workplace, and the wage gap between men and women continued to decrease. Japanese men today earn almost one-third to half of the money they made during the economic boom of the 1980s.
Men who were once the pillars of the pillar, social self-confidence is further reduced.
Virginity is no longer a virtue, but has become the main feature of losers, marginalized people.
In the Japanese drama "Adult College", the male protagonist scares away girls because of his virgin status.
Some people believe that on the issue of low birthrate, virgins are the source of all evil.
In the Japanese drama "Adult College", there is such a bridge: in order to solve the problem of low birthrate, the Japanese government has specially established an "adult high school" and forcibly passed a bill - men and women over the age of 30 who have no sexual experience are obliged to go to adult high schools and re-learn to "get rid of virginity".
The college teacher played by Long Xingliang is already the father of 5 children.
In 2018, Japan's Sagami Rubber Industry (Condom Company) conducted a questionnaire survey of 14,000 men and women.
The results showed that 34.1% of the 20 generations of men were virgins, and 6 adults believed that "low income, low social status occupations, and lack of confidence in themselves" were the main reasons.
After all, no girl wants to fall in love with a poor boy.
As of 2007, the Virgin Union had attracted a total of 863 people. Most of them are unemployed and young people with an annual income of less than 2 million yen. Source: "Middle-aged Virginity"
It is not just a matter of young and strong not working hard, but also the sadness of the old two.
Factors such as "bad words", "ugly appearance", and "no opportunity to contact girls" are also at the forefront.
"Is there any way to do this, am I voluntary?" "Confessions or whatever will be rejected, because now girls are very demanding."
In 2017, the AM Editorial Board launched the "Book to Solve the Question of Virginity", reflecting the confusion of the majority of virgins:
Q. Why do girls only care about appearance and money instead of looking at our inside?
A. Very cruel, that's the truth.
Q.Why does LINE show read but not reply to me?
A. Because I think you're annoying.
Even if the income is good or something, it seems that it is difficult to get rid of singleness.
Takashi Sakai, who has a high salary, has not been in love until he is 41 years old.
"It's not that I'm not interested, I like girls, but I can't always find the right direction."
A 20th-generation employee said: "No time! Because I am too busy at work, I don't want to spend any more time seeking sex. ”
Some people simply abandon treatment.
In the "middle-aged nursery" Akihabara, the "Give Details" program team interviewed a virgin anime house. In his eyes, the three dimensions are all evil ways, and the second dimension is the pure land.
"A man who cannot be protected by a virgin body can protect anything!"
"If you are in love, you may indeed be happy, but there is no trouble and there will be no trouble."
A 29-year-old virgin who lives in Hachioji, Tokyo, said.
"Today's society is love capitalism. Falling in love is an important driving force for selling things. Therefore, men who can't fall in love and men who can't do it are all 'created' by society. However, I will not be deceived. ”
Third, "Still want to and like the person H!" ”
The Japanese TBS television station "カクガリ君" did a survey to warn everyone: If you are still a virgin at the age of 23, there is a 67% chance of being a virgin in this life.
If you haven't experienced it by the age of 30, the chance of not getting married in this lifetime will rise to 76%.
If you are still a virgin at the age of 40, the chance of being single for the rest of your life is as high as 87%.
sad story。
This set of sad numbers stung the hearts of thousands of virgins, and a series of sad "Virgin River Willows" came into being:
See
A dog that is mating
Inferiority complex
shower
Soaked the girl's clothes
Thank you
Oh the face
The world comes down to
Or the face...
In fact, in this "virginity" competition, there are also many people who help virgins.
A Japanese publishing house has compiled a "History of the World of Virginity" to encourage virginity, including Hans Christian Andersen, Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, Newton, Robspeer, etc.
MGP, a cutting-edge neighboring company, launched the "Virginity Nutritious Drink" as a virgin strengthening solid.
But the most valuable thing is the "self-salvation" of virgins.
In 2015, White Hands, a Tokyo-based non-profit organization, founded the Virgin Training Institute. Among them, the "Nude Sketch Class" aims to allow virgins to preach and solve their karma by copying girls' bodies.
Takashi Sakai sighed after attending a nude sketching class: "Female carcasses are incredibly beautiful. ”
Now he can already be open-minded in the face of the virgin body.
"Don't be pessimistic, you can't die when you're a virgin."
In "Adult College", the 55-year-old virgin Man Tian Kansuke issued a heartfelt word: "We have not done anything bad, we must stand up and be a virgin!" ”
You know, "virgin" can be said with dignity.
"It's not your fault, nor is it the fault of the girls who rejected you."
In 2015, the National Union of Virginity received "once in 1,000 years of great news" – Nobu Watanabe was promoted to honorary president of the alliance (the second generation of the president was Mr. Akira Yamaguchi, a 58-year-old who called himself a "professional virgin").
"The goal for the future is to expand the rights of virginity, improve the social status of virginity, and conquer the universe!"
Watanabe also said that he did not support everyone going to the custom shop to "hand in their homework" in a vacuum.
"Don't give up on the desire to die easily. Be prepared and always ready. In order to leave the first time, to the person you really like. ”