The son is good at everything, just love to grind!
Scientists say that the child's development is not yet mature, so it is rubbed, parents can not always urge, this has an impact on the child's neurodevelopment! I haven't verified the experts' claims, but I understand one thing: urging, urging hard, urging with changing tricks, urging in the open and in secret, it is useless! In addition to exhausting yourself, it's time to be late!
One word: hurt!
Embarrassing! Our home is almost a wall away from the school, and it takes up to 5 minutes to walk to the classroom. Even being late repeatedly, I deeply felt that if there is a problem, there must be a problem! But there was no better way, and this situation lasted for some time.
Dad stepped in to solve the problem of being late
Until last week, Dad came forward to support! It paid off.
First, the father found his son and communicated as follows:
At present, you are late in the morning a little often, and the teacher has also found your mother several times, and being late has a bad impact on your learning and class discipline. In the past, my mother and I called you to get up, and then kept reminding you of the time, and repeatedly urged you, it seems that this is not appropriate and needs to be changed.
The son nodded in acquiescence.
Then we will adjust it later, Mom and Dad are only responsible for calling you to get up, from getting up to leaving home during this period will no longer remind you, you come to control the time yourself, the alarm clock you bought last time can check the time at any time. What we need to do is not to remind you no matter what, trust that you can arrange dressing, washing, and eating, and control the time to leave the house at the planned time.
The son said yes!
The truth that sons are always late
Why my son grinds inefficiently, his father and I actually know very well, he wakes up at 7:10 a.m. every morning and needs to be at school at 8:10. Whole hour! The first is dressing, he will listen to English while dressing, hear the place of fascination, simply forget that he is dressing, a slow motion with his left hand and right hand, well, dressing may take 20 minutes!
Then wash, if there is a magazine at hand, he can brush his teeth and read a book, I don't know if he is brushing his teeth or reading a book, in short, his goal is not firm, we tell him, you call it not focused! In fact, people are very attentive, focusing on reading, so it took another 20 minutes to wash.
It's the same during meals, continue to seize the opportunity to listen to English (note: listening to the audio of English novels, his favorite) until the time has turned to nearly 7:55, and then put on your clothes and shoes in slow motion with your left and right hands, take the rice bag and water cup and go out.
The old mother's unstable heart! I don't want to urge, but I can't help but urge, however, the reminder comes and reminds, or the nephew beats the lantern - as usual (uncle), there is bitterness can not say ah!
Implement a "do not remind" self-management law
On the second day after they communicated, my father and I told each other early in the morning not to remind him of the time, and to endure it. When he got up, he repeated that today will not remind you of the time, you need to control the time and progress yourself! I wish you success.
Sure enough, it was a relaxed child, who did not feel very nervous and urgent, and still began to dress slowly according to his usual style, accompanied by his English player. Then wash and eat! When I can leave from home, I look at the time, yo, it's 8 o'clock. The fart child showed displeasure and asked: Mom, why don't you remind me of the time, it's 8 o'clock! I said leisurely: you forgot, don't remind you don't urge you, you look at the time yourself! He was speechless and gone! I was almost late that day. I was overjoyed, oh, finally I don't have to urge hard!
Self-management is beginning to pay off
After several days of practice, I insisted on not reminding or urging, occasionally late, late I will tell the teacher, recently in training his self-time management, please the teacher understand! The teacher also understood in seconds.
Until today, he finally has a sense of urgency, until there is really no one to remind him, he will really be late, and if he is really late, the teacher will find parents, which can obviously improve the efficiency of all links!
Based on this progress, it is estimated that self-time management will soon be fully realized this week. Without my supervision and urging, a peaceful day at home in the morning is really too much love!
epilogue
Thanks to the baby's father, or men understand boys better!
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