"Aries? How to look at and deal with it correctly?"
Maybe everyone will think that Aries has a hot temper, and tantrums are a kind of performance, but I think that saying that Aries does not lose his temper when he does it, but starts a tantrum to do it.
Let me take you through these two sentences. Tantrum refers to the fact that when you are in a bad mood, you will be frightened, scold this and that, and get angry everywhere, obviously Aries is not such a person, because once Aries is in a bad mood, he can also find someone to talk to, or want to take it alone, he is rarely in the nest of people around him.
And to start a tantrum to do, this is obviously talking about Aries, because as long as Aries really loses his temper, you do not use the right guidance, then Aries will become more and more paranoid like children, more and more love to drill the horns, and then evolve into the work of Aries.
I feel that when an Aries loses his temper, there are three taboos that must not be touched, the first is not to be cold, the second is not to be tough, and the third is not to give in.
First of all, let's talk about the first one, not the Cold War. You have to know who an Aries is, they are not afraid of conflict, they are not afraid of quarrel, they are afraid that you will ignore him. Don't expect Aries to reflect in the Cold War, will feel guilty in the Cold War, once you and him fall into the Cold War, Aries will only think that you are annoying, annoying why you can't have something to say, why can't you say it clearly, even if you let go of the quarrel and vent your emotions.
The Cold War gave Aries the feeling of being charged and hitting the clouds, and this feeling of holding their breath would make Aries more and more irritable, and finally evolve into hands. This is what I just said, start a temper and do it, because you are cold to him, can he not do it?
You can go to the comment area of constellations similar to the Scorpio Taurus Capricorn that love the cold war, basically scolding there, a lion, a twin, an white sheep, of which the scolding of the white sheep is particularly obvious, because the white sheep is not used to these people who love the cold war, you are cold to me, then I will do it to you.
And the second and third taboos, don't be hard and don't give in can be said together, because Aries will always be a sign that eats soft in six and hard in four. You can understand that straight, stubborn people are like this.
When you quarrel with Aries, if you are soft at the beginning, he will 100% kick his nose on the face, and even if he has already won the quarrel, he will not be spared, at this time it is purely out of the victor's revenge; On the other hand, as soon as you and him get to the end, the white sheep will fall into a misunderstanding of "whether I pay attention to me or not, I just want to win you today", then the competitive spirit of the white sheep will make him forget why he quarreled, and only know that he must not lose today. Both of these are obvious works of Aries.
So how to correctly view and deal with this situation? In fact, as I just said, the first thing is definitely not to have a cold war. Moreover, you can use the characteristics of Aries to eat soft in six points and hard in four points, you are tough at first, clarify your point of view, and when Aries is about to break out, at this time you take a step back, show a very disappointed look, and avoid the highest point of his emotions.
Then you will find an interesting thing, as soon as the white sheep is emotional, introspective, ashamed, guilty, distressed, annoyed, reflective, all will come. What he did to you before, he will definitely compensate you later.
Finally, and most crucially, you have to take advantage of Aries' self-reflection time to let Aries know the stakes of this matter. Because a person like Aries, if you don't impress him, he won't remember for a long time, once he is allowed to hide, then he will 100% commit it again later, this must not be forgotten!