One day I received a list, this list is to see the career natal chart, I will first talk about this plate, this plate as a whole, the pattern is okay, belongs to the upper middle pattern, the other party is suitable for lawyers, entertainment industry, but also suitable for self-media and teachers, can be a team manager, or a project manager, can bring less than 5 people, if they are willing to go up enough, can also start a business, be a small boss, belongs to the big rich no, but small wealth is a pattern, but when I send this life plate to the other party , but the other party asked a question.
He asked me: Is my life so ordinary? Am I at best a small team leader?
I stayed for two seconds and replied: How else?
That's why I wanted to write this article – what kind of life is a good life?
I don't know if you have ever had this experience, when I was a child, I didn't study well, but I fell in love blindly every day, and I often hung up exams, although I had a muddy life, but I always felt that I could make a big difference in the future, but as time went by, the experience of life proved more and more that a person's energy and energy are limited, and everyone, including me, is just an ordinary ordinary person, so you are very depressed, feel that you have not become the hero in your ideals, like to sing, and have not become a singer, I like to act and don't become an actor, or I become an actor, and I don't become popular. Even if it is not a good life, you did not become the hero who stepped on the colorful auspicious clouds, but at the same time, there are always people around you who have a better life than you, this person may be a parent who has achieved a lifetime of unattainable dust, you grew up with the protection of your parents, vowed to surpass your parents, but in the end it is difficult to surpass, maybe it is the classmate who was in the same class with you when you were a child that you didn't think much of, his previous grades were not as good as you, and he didn't have your hard work as well, But now I don't know which way to go, luck, suddenly RVs have traveled everywhere, followed by a large number of employees, maybe your dead party, he originally felt like you that he did a lot, but he really did a lot.
As if the whole world is developing, you are left behind, so you look at me to see the career life chart, want to see if they still have some hidden branches that have not been opened, and also want to know if they are like them, can have their own different places, as a result, I looked at the career life chart, and found that this is actually your whole life, it is so ordinary, ordinary, and mediocre.
So you ask: Why is it so ordinary? Are you mistaken?
This question, let's not list it for the time being, I will talk about the astrolabe of some other people I have seen in your eyes, Xiao A is a small actor of the eighteenth line before, a woman, years of hard work, has not been popular, his agent and I are friends, because of concern about their career want to see if this actor can be popular (the interests of the agent and the actor are bound), and then pushed through the luck of the career of the years, found a red opportunity, and then really red, resources and money continue to come, This can also be regarded as fame and fortune, in your eyes, is this also an "extraordinary" person?
But what are they doing? The agent takes the actor information and constantly calls the director and producer to recommend his actor, just for work and photogenic opportunities, which is not like telemarketing? (Those friends who write in the career life plate that are suitable for telephone sales and feel ordinary, are there a little balance in their hearts, you sell products, he sells "people") The actors themselves have to constantly take their resumes and work experience to meet the group for interviews (is this like social animals constantly looking for jobs?). "Hello interviewers, I am: xxxxxx"), finally became popular, set up your own studio, in a studio that is, 2 assistants + 1 agent + actor himself, and then the studio together to find resources + work (is this another microcosm of the difficulties of entrepreneurial dogs?). Calculate the cost, and recruit people to do everything)
So it can be seen from this that the latter's little star and the steady beginning, is there any difference in what the two people do? The difference is that one can bring five people in a second-tier city and five people in Beijing.
What do I want to say when I say these things? I want to say that everyone is dreaming of becoming famous overnight and getting rich overnight, and then think that fame + getting rich = an extraordinary life, but in fact, even if you become famous overnight + get rich overnight, you can only = ordinary life. What a person is suitable for is determined by personality, and personality is destined to be good at birth, which is why the career life plate can launch the industry you are suitable for, and if you do this industry, you can probably achieve which height, as long as you find your suitable track, and then sink down to run hard, you will definitely be able to shine, the key is to find the right direction.
As for the ordinary is not extraordinary, I think all sentient beings are equal, when you find your own suitable direction, don't dislike it too ordinary, don't do it, you have to choose a track that everyone thinks is "extraordinary" to do what you are not good at, some industries are also repetitive work day after day under the glamorous appearance, and some industries are ordinary, but they are really fine and beautiful, and they are also very valuable.
There is no three-six-nine and so on in work, but there are three-six-nine and so on.