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Ma Yili was born in 1976 to an ordinary family in Shikumen Lane, Shanghai.
His parents were both intellectuals, and before graduating from junior high school, he went to Jiangxi, and later returned to Shanghai to work as an ordinary worker.
As the only daughter in the family, Ma Yili has been cared for by her parents in the palm of her hands since she was a child.
Because her daughter liked the performance of the art troupe, her father would look for advertisements in the newspaper every day, and as long as he saw that there was an art troupe enrolling, he would definitely ride a bicycle to send his daughter to take the exam.
Kung Fu paid off, and Ma Yili was finally admitted to the dance team of Shanghai Television.
To this end, the father worked tirelessly, whether it was windy or rainy, he rode his bicycle to send his daughter to class, and then waited outside the classroom for two hours until the daughter got out of class, and then rode the bicycle home with his children.
Dad did not spoil Ma Yili too much because she was an only daughter, but often taught her daughter: "Girls must be no worse than boys."
Mom and Dad cultivated her independence from an early age and gave her full trust and support.
Because my parents' education level is not high, from the second grade of primary school, my mother said to Ma Yili: "I can't teach you anything, and I will rely on myself to learn later."
In the first grade, the teacher and dad reported that Ma Yili had an early love at school, but the father calmly said to the teacher: "My daughter I know best, I don't tell you, I go to the principal."
Hearing this sentence, Ma Yili cried on the spot, on the one hand, she was very aggrieved in her heart, and on the other hand, she was touched by her father's trust in herself.
When it was time to go to college, her father told her: "Go out to dinner with male classmates, and you can't let boys pay."
And often remind her if she has enough money to go out.
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It is precisely because in Ma Yili's childhood, her parents gave her love satisfaction, so ma Yili's future life is very secure.
This also laid the foundation for her future outlook on life, values and feelings.
Since the age of 15, Ma Yili has often participated in the performances of the Shanghai Television Dance Team, and the cost of the performances has been set aside to pay for her own tuition.
In high school, he also danced to Aaron Kwok as an accompaniment to "Can't Finish Loving You".
In 1993, 17-year-old Ma Yili had her screen debut "Liu Haisu" and received a salary of 800 yuan.
At that time, 800 yuan was equivalent to half a year's living expenses for an ordinary family, which also gave Ma Yili a dream of becoming an actor.
The following year, through her own efforts, she was admitted to the 94-level acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy, and became a classmate of Bao Jianfeng and Yang Mingna.
This year, Guan Hu has already made his debut appearance at Chinese and foreign film festivals with his debut film "Hair Messy".
At that time, the ten-year-old article was still in the courtyard with a group of boys jumping up and down and scattering wild.
After entering the university, Ma Yili's cultural class results have always been at the end of the class, and she was once under a lot of pressure.
Until the third year, because of the recommendation of Gu Yi'an, Ma Yili, Bao Jianfeng and Chen Long co-starred in the TV series "Vacuum Love Record".
Although she was only a supporting role in it, the show still received good ratings at the time.
Ma Yili can also be regarded as an official debut.
This year, Guan Hu also emerged in the directing circle, shooting two films in a row, "Romantic Street" and "Goodbye, Our 1948".
At this point, there are still 3 years before they meet.
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In 1998, Ma Yili, who graduated from drama, began to work hard in the show business circle, and also starred in several film and television works.
It is precisely because of her professionalism and acting potential that the young director Guan Hu noticed.
In 2000, when Guan Hu filmed the TV series "Black Hole", he invited Ma Yili, and during the filming process, the two fell in love.
This drama gathers the old drama bones of the later showbiz circle: Chen Daoming, Ding Jiali, Tao Hong, Yuan Li, and Liang Jing.
In this drama, Ma Yili not only gained her boyfriend Guan Hu, but also made a good girlfriend Liang Jing.
Liang Jing has always admired Guan Hu in his heart, and when he knows that he and Ma Yili are a couple, he has to put love in his heart.
Because of Ma Yili's performance in this drama, Guan Hu tailored another film and television drama "Xi Shi Eye" for her.
Although the play is not well-known in China, it won the Grand Jury Prize at the Hawaii International Film Festival in the United States and the best film in Asia.
As a result, the couple gradually became famous in the entertainment industry.
This year, the 18-year-old article ignored the obstruction of his parents and was admitted to the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama, and became a classmate of Bai Lily and Tang Yan.
The resources and talent of the article are obviously higher than that of Ma Yili, and he began to take on the role in his sophomore year. Until the senior year, he received the first costume drama "Jinyi Wei".
It was also because of this drama that he met Ma Yili, who was already famous at that time.
At that time, Ma Yili had just broken up with her ex-boyfriend Guan Hu for more than a year, because the other party held hands with her girlfriend Liang Jing, and Ma Yili lost a friendship while losing love.
Some people said that it was because Liang Jing intervened in a third party, but then Guan Hu mentioned the reason for breaking up with Ma Yili: she was a very enterprising and strong woman.
Once, when the house was full of dirty clothes, Guan Hu looked at it impatiently and said, "The family is chaotic like this, you don't know how to clean up, can't you wash your clothes?" ”
Who knows Ma Yili said, "I'm not a nanny, why let me wash it, you have a problem!" ”
After losing love, Ma Yili did not depressed for too long, and quickly put into work.
In the process of filming "Jinyi Wei", Ma Yili, as a person who came over, always patiently told the article about the drama, and over time, the article became fond of this sister who was 9 years older than himself.
At the end of the shooting, the two officially held hands and began an underground romance.
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In 2006, he received an invitation from director Zhao Baogang to star in the youth idol drama "Struggle".
At the same time, the male protagonist Tong Dawei recommended the female protagonist Ma Yili to Zhao Baogang.
Before entering the crew, Tong Dawei warned them: Don't let the director know that you are in love.
Until the end of the filming of "Struggle", director Zhao Baogang saw the article and Ma Yili carrying a couple necklace, and knew that they were originally lovers.
At that time, he was very angry and said: "If I had known that the two of them were in love, I would not let them shoot together, which would definitely affect the mood of the characters." ”
In 2008, 32-year-old Ma Yili and 24-year-old Article officially announced their marriage, no wedding dress, no wedding.
In the same year, he gave birth to the eldest daughter "Wen Ai Ma".
Although the outside world is not optimistic about this 8-year-old sister-brother relationship, Ma Yili said:
"Articles always come as promised when she needs them, and they don't look like post-80s boys at all."
"Getting married is the result of the joint efforts of the two of us, and I feel that the courage of the article is very, very great. Without his courage, I don't think we would be where we are today, and he has already thought about everything. ”
After marriage, Ma Yili reduced her work and concentrated on her husband and children at home.
And the article's career is also on the right track after marriage.
Works such as "Snail House", "Snow Leopard", "33 Days of Lost Love", "Naked Marriage Era", "Ocean Paradise" and other works have made him more and more famous.
This year, Yao Di won the "Nanjing! nanking! " and "Dream of the Red Chamber" have established a firm foothold in the show business circle, and the good dramas have been taken step by step.
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In 2012, the article set up its own film and television studio, Beijing Junzhu Film and Television Culture Co., Ltd., named after her daughter.
And participated in the investment in the production of the first film and television work "Little Daddy", and his wife Ma Yili also participated.
At this time, the outside world for this "female big man" couple combination from not optimistic to envious, netizens have praised the talent of the article and Ma Yili's excellence.
As Ai Ma grew up, Ma Yili became softer and softer, and when she did not shoot, she would accompany her daughter at home and witness all the first time she had.
Before her daughter was eight years old, she only took local plays in Beijing, did not participate in any social activities except for work, and no matter how late she was filming, she had to go home to visit her daughter.
Ma Yili said: Since having children, I have realized the difficulty of parents and have become more and more grateful.
In 2013, Article and Ma Yili's second daughter was born.
Just when the heat of netizens' blessings has not yet cooled, the "see you on Monday" that is all over the network has actually hammered the article to derail Yao Di.
Because the time of their derailment happened to be during Ma Yili's confinement period, the Internet was full of voices insulting Yao Di and articles.
At that time, Ma Yili forgave the article with a sentence: "Although love is easy, marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished".
After the "derailment gate", the career of the article plummeted, but Ma Yili made a comeback to filming with a high posture.
From "Kitakami Hiroshi Doesn't Believe in Tears" to "The First Half of My Life", the 42-year-old won the Magnolia Award for Best Actress.
Ma Yili once again showed her strength to the public.
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As she said in "The First Half of Life": "Instead of letting others hold an umbrella, it is better to play an umbrella yourself."
What Ma Yili has always shown to the outside world is rationality, sobriety and self-knowledge.
This is also why netizens will give her a nickname: Commander Ma.
In 2019, the two announced the news of divorce to foreign officials through personal microblogs.
This time, netizens did not show surprise, as if they had been waiting for this day for a long time.
After the divorce, Ma Yili was in a very bad state for a while, and she was in a trance all day, and her body also had problems.
But Commander Ma was worthy of Commander Ma, and she quickly adjusted her state.
If marriage doesn't give you what you want, divorce is also a good choice.
In the "Qipao Beauty Detective" partnered with Gao Weiguang, the performance of 44-year-old Ma Yili in the play was called "walking wardrobe" by netizens.
The whole person glows with a charming glow.
Today, 45-year-old Ma Yili hopes that her life can be lived in a different way:
"I slow down a little, go with nature, obey the sun, live warmly and well, and wait for life to continue."
When it comes to her future life, she hopes that her family will be healthy and safe, her daughter will grow up naturally, she can take over two plays a year, and the rest of the time is used to empty herself and accompany her family.
Now she has long faded her former rigidity and become more resilient.
This is her most comfortable state at the moment.