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Is this a contest between predecessors?
Some time ago, Yang Gang wrote Song Huiqiao's "The Little Son of a Chaebol Family" with the reputation of "Dark Glory".
Today, I brushed it again, and Song Zhongji officially announced that he had remarried!!!
It was also made public with the children!
It was really so sudden!
Let's taste this letter to fans.
Focus: 1. Remarried; 2. Have become a father; 3. Praise the woman.
The letter has been translated several versions by various websites and is elegantly rendered!
Fan comments are also everything.
Korean netizens: Respect and blessings.
Chinese netizen: Ah, Shuangsong has been been around for four years! Song Joong Ki is married, and I haven't come out yet...
Some fans envy Song Joong Ki's English comparable to his native language???
Then, Song Joong Ki was still a top student at Sungkyunkwan University before he was picked up!
Others say that his new wife is his language teacher, who would have thought of a twist in this relationship...
Take a look at the bio of his new wife, Katy Saunders.
Born in London in 1984, height 171.
After his debut in 2002, he starred in works such as "Don't Get Near the Murderous House".
He looks very strong, and the bone jaw angle looks very anti-aging, and the pair of beautiful legs under the tall figure are also outstanding.
Since 2018, she has chosen to fade out of the entertainment industry, and she has also walked shows for well-known brands in addition to her identity as an actor.
Sheng Tu looks like this.
Between her and Song Joong-ki, it is still a sibling love.
One year older than Song Joong Ki, she was previously ripped out and has a daughter, who is a single mother.
It's not about discriminating against single mothers, but it's quite surprising.
But look at Song Zhongji's official announcement this time, praising the woman's attitude to life.
Compared with the previous only praise of Song Huiqiao's beauty, it shows that he really knows more about the woman this time?
This is also something that Sheep and her colleagues find interesting.
Song Joong-ki's two predecessors and his attitude to them are quite different.
And such a quick flash of marriage and childbirth, what did he think?
But the sheep saw him praise his new wife as "passionately living her life and being a respectable, intelligent and remarkable man."
Maybe this time, he really found the right person, and his previous marriage with Song Huiqiao may also fail because it is not so right.
The sheep will use the choice in the reality of the male Song today to reconcile with everyone the needs of the two Songs' mate selection and the thunder pit, and also give a little reference to the treasures who have just experienced the Spring Festival marriage urging.
The predecessor Tang Jing is now Luo Zijun
Song Joong Ki is the He Han of South Korea
Speaking of which, the sheep must take everyone to review the process of the acquaintance of the two songs.
After filming "Descendants of the Sun", when the two were not in love, Song Hye Kyo mentioned the relationship between Song Joong Ki and her in an interview.
She said that although she was closer to Song Joong-ki, for him, she should just be a sister who often invites dinner!
Later, the screenwriter wrote the drama "Beautiful Sister Who Often Invites Dinner" based on this paragraph, and Shuangsong also fell in love and got married.
Later, everyone knew the story, the reason for the divorce was silent, and the audience ate melons and ate confused.
However, this time the male Song official announced that he had remarried and had children, which made Yang think that the lawyer who was said to have participated in the divorce lawsuit of the Shuang Song broke the news:
The two broke up because Song Huiqiao was unwilling to give birth, and it was also right for the current male Song to be a father quickly.
Let's look back at Song Huiqiao's comments on the relationship between the two:
"A beautiful sister who often invites dinner", suggesting that the two may not know so much.
But it is also true that the hormones catalyzed by the filming of sweet idol dramas + double super high appearance + a new peak of their careers made them quickly feel loved.
Looking at the wedding photos of the two at the beginning, the atmosphere of love is still very amazing.
But loving each other does not mean that the two understand each other.
Whether you have children or not, how your temper is, are all important factors that affect the direction of a relationship.
Looking at the details that Song Zhongji was rumored to have directly sued for divorce without notifying Song Huiqiao, this exposed that the two were directly unable to communicate???
Let's look at the various evaluations of Song Zhongji's second marriage on his current wife, virtue, character, their future life plans and directions... This is a disguised explanation for why he divorced Song Huiqiao?
When it comes to the differences between Song Zhongji's predecessors and current positions, Yang can't help but talk about Song Joong-ki's view of choosing a mate.
In the eyes of the sheep, he is like the Korean version of He Han.
Many people watch "My First Half of Life" and do not understand that He Han gave up his career female elite Tang Jing to marry Luo Zijun, a single mother.
Until He Han himself said that he couldn't bear Tang Jing to sacrifice his career to return to his family, and he himself couldn't wait because he was 40 years old!
Yes, men also have age crises, fertility crises, which require them to find a woman who is willing to cooperate with them.
Is divorcing Song Joong Ki a failure for Song Hye Kyo?
Of course not, just like Tang Jing, although she did not marry He Han, she is still the ideal of many girls.
It's just that the two are really not suitable.
Beautiful sister who is not short of money
Suitable for "weak relationships" in marriage
So what kind of marriage relationship is suitable for a beautiful sister like Tang Jing or Song Huiqiao who is not bad at money?
Back to Song Huiqiao.
Since her debut, beautiful sister has been taking the route of independent inspirational women:
Strong, forbearing, silent.
In her own words: "Since childhood, I have been living the life of an adult".
Also because she was too silent, she couldn't see her own ideal view of marriage.
But if a girl like her wants a traditional East Asian marriage, the male protagonist is outside, and the female protagonist is inside, and it is bound to make sacrifices.
But if you have further expectations for your career, how can you be willing to casually wash your hands and make soup for men?
Suitable for Song Huiqiao, may also be another single father who will take the baby to cook.
In addition, even if she is not short of money, if she wants to bring her net worth and her husband to have a deep union similar to a business merger.
Whether it is his own efforts or expectations for the man, it is still quite heavy.
Under such a premise, it is bound to make the relationship between the two become a very closely connected relationship.
Referring to Yang Mi and Liu Kaiwei, once one side collapses, it is inevitable that both will lose.
Such a relationship model is really not so suitable for beautiful sisters with wonderful careers.
Especially the older sister who has enough clear enough cognition of herself.
If such girls want intimacy, sheep suggest that they look for weak relationships.
Weak here, not casually, but each other's feelings, but in this relationship, there are not so many very necessary link points, and one alone is established.
For example, the family plan and family division plan of the two are consistent, refer to Song Joong-ki and his new wife.
There is also a consistent lifestyle, such as no family plan, all want to do retirement to enjoy the second half of life, refer to Shu Qi and Feng Delun.
Neither of them lacks money, they can't see a family plan, they have two cats, and they live a life like a friendship marriage.
Or refer to Sun Yezhen and Hyun Bin, because they love each other and get married, after marriage, it is likely to live the man's continued career, and the woman's division of labor depends on the situation.
After getting married and having children, Sun Yezhen has not yet returned to work, maybe she will come back in the future, or maybe not.
But look at Sun Yezhen over the years, taking the agent to do his own small studio, only shooting his favorite scenes.
Although she is very good in her career, she always grasps the initiative and does not want her career, so she can be Hyun Bin's housewife.
This may be difficult here in Song Huiqiao, who is riddled with all kinds of rumors and black materials.
As we mentioned earlier, Song Huiqiao gives people the impression of being mysterious, silent, powerful, and even insincere.
But her actual actions have never broken through this line.
I can only wish my sister's career to the next level!
Refuse to be each other's jailers
Embrace lighter love
Female celebrities are like this, and ordinary girls are actually the same.
In real life, what kind of marriage is a beautiful rich sister suitable for?
Sheep feel that it is also suitable for weak relationships in marriage.
We mentioned earlier that the friendship-like marriage between Shu Qi and Feng Delun is a kind of weak relationship.
In addition to friendship-like marriage, there is also a "non-East Asian model of European and American marriage relationship" suitable for rich and beautiful sisters.
According to sheep's observation, East Asian marriages are mostly strong relationships.
What is a strong relationship in marriage?
That is, they are strictly bound to each other economically and spiritually, even to the point of parasitism.
Non-East Asian European-American marriages, at least some of which are weak.
What is a weak relationship in marriage?
That is, each other's spirit, economy, and needs are independent.
There is a single relationship link point, and the substitution of this relationship is quite high.
For example, Sanchez, the wife of Bezos, the richest man in the world, recently (does not involve her cheating on the moral evaluation of being a junior, just look at the individual's objective choice of mate.
Sheep wrote about her before, as a host, and opened a film and television special effects company.
He has a pilot's license and says he wants to fly into space.
The whole person's life is very positive, sunny and happy, and very independent.
Such a girl has a relatively low financial and emotional dependence on marriage.
On the contrary, it is easier for them to influence others to live similar lives to her.
Treasures who know this pair will find that Bezos has also changed his painting style after following Sanchez, plumping his lips, vacationing, buying a mansion, and learning to fly a plane.
Switched directly from Regal Mode to Retired Regal Mode.
Sanchez recently gave an interview to the Wall Street Journal and disclosed many details of his relationship with Bezos.
"Working together, flying together, exercising together, he's getting his pilot's license, and he's going to help me read my upcoming book."
Also said that Bezos taught her a lot of things:
"Living with him was like taking a master class, and what he really taught me a lot was management."
Showing affection is also really sweet.
"If we get lost at a party, all I have to do is wait and wait until he laughs and know where he is".
Finally, Sanchez concluded:
"He was so happy, inspired me every day, and made me a better person every day."
Not only did she get along well with her current wife, she talked about being friends with her ex-boyfriend and his current wife.
It is not difficult to find that if you do not pursue a weak relationship tied together, it is lighter and more comfortable to get along.
Although it is a weak relationship, because of the good sense of experience, it may become another form of strong relationship.
Summary: Camus once said a phrase about marriage, "Don't be each other's jailers."
Marriage is one of thousands of relationships that does not become more privileged because of the exclusivity of love.
All good relationships in the world should be comfortable, happy, and free.
Because someone becomes a better version of themselves is not a chicken soup and empty words.
Like Sanchez, Shu Qi, people seem to have a bad relationship when they see her, but in the relationship, they live enthusiastically, work hard to experience hard study, and give people a very positive feeling, without the slightest feeling of a grudge.
These are all points that girls can learn: instead of living a bound life in marriage, it is better to learn how to live freely.
Finally, the sheep also wish everyone a more comfortable relationship, whether it is given or received, it can be lighter love.