
Author: Yu Shunshun
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Source: Journal of Marriage and Family (ID: hunyinyujiating99)
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teacher:
He was a high school classmate with me, and he knew I had a crush on him. 5 years after graduating from college, we met in a bar and had a relationship between alcoholic and ear-warming. At first he was tepid and even a little repulsive to me, but I cherished it and our relationship lasted for more than half a year. Seeing that he was always cold to me, I was ready to give up on him, and as a result, after a few days he took the initiative to contact me again, and his attitude towards me also changed by 180 degrees. Do you think he suddenly remembered me?
The fish are smooth
Emotionally competent
A free and safe bed mate who wants to run away? Don't! Your classmate has not yet found the next home, and you wait for others to find a new bed partner before leaving the post! Don't be too obsessed with the feelings of this kind of person, hurry up and break with him, you can find better!
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I live in a second-tier city, and I will rely on myself to borrow money to buy a house in the future. I considered myself filial and paid most of my parents' pension, but my brother was a dime a dozen. But my parents preferred sons to daughters, and the house and car were left to my brother, not my share. I wanted to open my mouth to fight for a little, but I was afraid of causing family conflicts. Am I just going to fill this bottomless pit all the time?
Imagine if you didn't have a brother, would you still be filial to your parents? Sure, then don't climb the company. If you really don't give a penny to your parents, your conscience will be tormented, and you may be born kind and filial.
If you are afraid of causing contradictions, you should not talk about dividing up property. Afraid of their own burden, they will pay less pensions for them. After all, you still have to retire yourself, don't you?
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My husband lost 50,000 yuan in gambling, and now he works overtime to make money, leaving early and returning late every day, tired. But I always have a pimple in my heart, and I can't forgive him, is it really my mentality that is not normal?
In my opinion, he will get back the 50,000 yuan he lost, and your knots can be solved. I advise you to work hard with him to get rich, work hard, and make more money. There is pressure to be motivated, and don't worry about the lost money. But don't forgive easily, gambling is a bad problem, you must let him remember it for a long time.