In our countryside, there will be many sayings that have been handed down to this day, many sayings that teach us how to behave in the world, and there are also some sayings that warn people about what to be wary of in life and what to pay attention to. For example, the old rural saying: "Men need to pay attention to forty, more away from less than half of the people", what does this mean? What is Half-Man?
In our lives, people often say that "a man stands for thirty, forty is not confused, and fifty knows the destiny of heaven", and forty is obviously already in the year of non-confusion. At this time, men are already in a relatively special stage, and when they encounter things, they must distinguish between right and wrong, and be able to distinguish between doubt. But why is it said that "men must pay attention for forty"?
As the pillar of the family, men will have their own careers when they reach thirty. At this time, the man should be a family, and in ten years to forty years old, he will be the one who has experienced the wind and frost. At this time, the man is like a flower, and the man has forty-one flowers. But what do you need to pay attention to at this time?
Rural old people often say that men are golden age at the age of forty, and at this time, they must focus on family business. At this time, the widow needs to pay the most attention, because sometimes the widow will be distracted by herself inadvertently. At this time, it has a great impact on their careers and families, and many forty-year-old men can't stand the temptation and eventually fall into the "widow" trap, and eventually become a void.
It can be said that the age at this time is also the age that can not help but be tempted. For many forty-year-old men, at this time, there is a certain accumulation of materials, and at the same time, the court is happy, but often the work pressure is very large, so "men need to pay attention to forty" is a warning to people to pay attention.
More away from less by half people
In the past, many rural areas often had the term "half-man". Half of the people are people who get married and then divorce, and do not take a daughter-in-law again at a great age. Because in the past, many people thought that a person's life needs to be combined with men and women to be perfect. And marriage is a major event in life, then a person has no other half. Then such a person will be considered a "half-man", that is, an incomplete person.
Rural elderly people often tell us that we must make rapid progress in life and career. So much contact with such people. Especially in the former rural areas, people were more taboo about divorce, especially after divorce, people who were bare for a lifetime were looked down upon by others.
For the proverbial saying that "men need to pay attention to forty, more away from less than half of the people" does make many men of this age think about it. But this sentence has changed now, and many people do not necessarily marry to determine the integrity of life. In particular, people's ideological consciousness in today's society has also undergone great changes from before. It can only be said that such a saying was more recognized in the past.