If you met your mom when you were 18, what would you say to her? The child said: "Don't look for my dad again", "Can I change my father", "Hurry up and change a husband"... How do you feel when you are a father?
Another child said, "Mom changed me this time... I am her mother", "mother should be kind to herself", "enjoy life" - whether it is a son or a daughter, it is all distressed that the mother is too hard and thinks too much about others... Sure enough, it is a mother and son connecting hearts.
Most of the children interviewed expressed their dissatisfaction with their father, hoping that their mother would change husbands, or that if time went back, they would not find "my father".
As a father, I will definitely feel aggrieved, it is not easy to move bricks by yourself, and I am not in order to make money to support my family, how can I end up being disliked?
The absence of fathers has become a common phenomenon in the family. In addition to social reasons, men's solidified cognition is also a major factor, believing that they are only responsible for making money, but also maintaining their own social circle, and managing their children and family life is the responsibility of the child's mother.
But in fact, for children, no matter what age the child, the role of the mother cannot be replaced, and the role of the father is also irreplaceable.
The role of fathers is not only to earn money to support the family and provide material security for their children. The influence and shaping of the father's emotional companionship and personality on the child is, in some ways, more important than the influence of the mother!
If a father wants to be a role model for his children, he must see you, what he can see is an example, and he can't even see him in person, how can he take you as an example?
If the father is too dignified, does not smile, is not good at expressing love, and lacks emotional companionship for the child, the parent-child relationship is alienated. This is extremely detrimental to the child's personality, personality, and psychological growth.
Undoubtedly, fathers love their children, but the love that can make their children feel is true love.
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