It is difficult for a pro-official to decide family affairs, as has been the case since ancient times.
One woman said that she could only take two children to live in the utility room when she returned to her mother's house for the New Year.
The house belongs to her sister-in-law, and her parents live with her sister-in-law.
The elderly in rural areas have no pension, and when they are old, they have to live according to the face of their sons and daughters-in-law, and they have no say in the family at all.
It is also not ruled out that some old-thinking old people feel that the girl who marries out, splashes the water, and does not welcome her daughter to return to her mother's house for the New Year.
After the daughter marries out, she marries well, she can help her mother's family, and you can see a few smiling faces when she returns to her mother's house, otherwise, she can only rely on people's noses.
I have a friend who is a distant daughter, and his parents did not treat her as a daughter, but directly treated her as a cash cow.
Married for more than 20 years, I don't know how much money I posted to my mother's family. Her brother got married, her mother asked her to pay for it, her brother wanted to repair the house, and her mother asked her to pay for it.
She paid 500,000 yuan and said that she would leave a room for her, and as a result, she stayed in a hotel every time she returned to her mother's house.
Her mother said that the two of them could not share the same room in their mother's house.
As the saying goes: Infatuated parents have been around since ancient times, who has seen filial children?
Now it seems to have fallen and become, infatuated children, widowed parents.
If you encounter such parents, it is better to go back to your mother's house less, after all, the child is still young, whose child is not a heart and liver baby, why let them suffer with you?
Every New Year's holiday, the money that should honor the parents is transferred to them, and they love to spend it. If they don't welcome you home, why would you bother yourself for being bored and causing them trouble?
Does everyone say that's true?
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