Yi said, the gathering place of women's growth, may you not wear armor, you can withstand thousands of difficulties in life, welcome to pay attention.
"Go to a Windy Place" pokes the yearning of many people's hearts, especially the scene where Xu Hongdou works in the hotel, which is you and me who are busy for life in reality.
Xu Hongdou has nothing special, that is, going to school and work, she is serious about life and work, and she is also down-to-earth and hardworking, and the promotion is smooth but also a normal rhythm, and she has achieved the position of house manager.
The daily work is carried out step by step, and there will be many emergencies, communicate with various customers, and solve and deal with various troubles. There is a large floor-to-ceiling clock in the hotel, although in a conspicuous position in the hotel, it reminds of the passage of time all the time, but including Xu Hongdou, almost no one pays attention to it.
Everyone is too busy, and people are getting busier and busier with all kinds of things, even if you want to stop, it's impossible. Like this big pendulum clock, people only notice it when the pointer suddenly stops. Xu Hongdou also found it, and asked the maintenance master to know that one of its lower parts had been worn and damaged for a long time, and it was becoming more and more inaccurate until it stopped completely.
If this happened a few months ago, Xu Hongdou probably wouldn't have felt too much, and he was even too busy to stop asking the maintenance master.
However, she was particularly touched at the moment, because her best friend Chen Nanxing suddenly fell ill and left. Chen Nanxing's death is a very big accident in Xu Hongdou's life, but as she said, it seems that her life has not been affected, and it is Nanxing's parents who are affected, which is an event that completely changed her parents' lives.
When Chen Nanxing found out the cause, it was already in the advanced stage, and there was nothing else except to receive hospital treatment and spend the last period of his life. She and Xu Hongdou work together in Beijing and are good sisters and girlfriends, but they can only see each other twice a year.
The development of modern communication tools allows us to pick up the mobile phone when we miss anyone, and make calls, WeChat text, voice, video and other contact methods for you to choose. However, it is precisely these tools for communicating feelings across screens that people skip many opportunities for face-to-face communication.
The cost of face-to-face communication is too high, time is the most lacking thing in modern people, and twenty-four hours is simply not enough.
Chen Nanxing and Xu Hongdou agreed to travel to Yunnan together, this is about three years, Xu Hongdou has always thought that she and Nanxing can be girlfriends until they are old, but they didn't expect that she was so young, her life came to an abrupt end, and the biggest impact on her was regret and guilt.
We always think that we can do a lot of things when we come to Japan, but the fact that there are too many facts tells us that it may not be a matter of coming to Japan, and it may also be a regret that we can no longer achieve it.
Xu Hongdou embarked on a journey to Yunnan with such pain, so she came to the windy courtyard and decided to live for a while. It is said that escaping the big city and finding such a remote town, away from the hustle and bustle and slowing down the pace of life, you can heal yourself.
If this is the way you think and choose to travel to heal yourself, you probably won't get the results you want.
You see that Xu Hongmi also came here, but she is still very busy, she not only took two mobile phones, but also prepared two charging treasures, just to ensure that the power of the mobile phone remains sufficient, so that she and her work do not lose contact.
Therefore, healing seems to be a landscape, but in fact, it is your own choice and the people you meet. The tenants of the windy courtyard come here with their own stories, and they have the idea of escaping everything. The village where the wind courtyard is located is a village on the Tea Horse Road that maintains the original ancient style. The villagers here are as quaint and sincere as their stone roads and houses.
The reason why Xu Hongdou lived here for three months, in addition to completing her agreement with Nanxing, also allowed herself to re-examine her life.
It's not that the environment changes her, it's that she can see the things in the environment that can heal her. As soon as Xu Hongdou arrived in the village, her mobile phone was knocked off and broken, but she didn't have a particularly big emotion, she first found someone to communicate about compensation, and then simply enjoyed life without a mobile phone.
You know, the mobile phone is the greatest sense of security of modern people, because as long as you open it, you are connected to the world, and once you turn off the mobile phone, your world will instantly shrink to the place you see.
This is the beginning of Xu Hongdou's healing. She not only feels the beauty brought by the scenery, but also constantly discovers the warmth between people.
Barley is a small online writer who can't come out of a 10,000-year-old house, and Lin Na, a Shanghai girl who works in the store, plus Xu Hongdou, has become three golden flowers in a windy courtyard. Their bond was built up by cooking rice noodles and eating them together every night.
Lin Na and Xu Hongdou saw Barley's inferiority and helplessness, and the two people thought of various ways to help her, people are like this, in the process of helping others heal, they will also get a certain degree of self-healing.
People here are sincere, and there are times when the sense of boundaries is not clear. Xie Zhiyao returned to his hometown to start a business, he and Xiaochun are managers, but the workers hired are all from the village, either aunts or uncles, and many management work cannot be carried out at all.
Xu Hongdou has worked in a hotel and has rich experience in service management, and was invited by Xie Zhiyao to help sort out the management work. In fact, it is this experience of working together that allows Xu Hongdou to integrate into the life here, and tourists will feel much less.
The two aunts who work in the café do not have much sense of work, and Xu Hongdou needs to teach them hand-in-hand how to do the management regulations. If you want to please the two aunts, you have to sit down and listen to them talk about themselves.
The two aunts sat in the café to take a nap and doze off together, and Xu Hongdou seemed to see her and Chen Nanxing as best friends until they were old.
Xu Hongdou said that she does not work, only volunteers, but it is this volunteer work that brings her closer to the people here, the things here, and allows herself to be healed.
Xie Zhiyao's appearance not only allowed Xu Hongdou to meet someone with fate, but Xie Zhiyao influenced Xu Hongdou's thinking about his life.
Before meeting Xie Zhiyao, Xu Hongdou thought that she was also a person with a goal in life, you see that she has been working hard at school, and she also told Chen Nanxing that she was about to be promoted again. However, after meeting Xie Zhiyao, when she understood what Xie Zhiyao did, she suddenly found that she had not thought about life planning and goals at all.
The previous hard work is that everyone is in this society, and they feel that life should be like this, instead of asking themselves in their hearts, what kind of life I really want.
If discussing the meaning of life and the meaning of work is a little ungrounded or too ethereal, then look at what Xie Zhiyao and Huang Xinxin do, you will find that it is still necessary to find the meaning of life and let yourself think about your own life state.
Because it will make you more motivated to do things and life more tense and warm.
Xu Hongdou still left, because she just chose to live here, not like Lin Na. Only after she leaves, with all the perceptions here, and returns to her familiar place, can she think about the meaning and state of her life again.
Perhaps only if she wants to understand this, the love between her and Xie Zhiyao will take root.
I don't like to use words like strong recommendations to recommend what drama to watch, because everyone's preferences are different, and there may be no difference between good and bad dramas, only the difference between whether you like it or not. However, I recommend watching this drama.
No matter how beautiful the scenery, no matter how warm the person, if he lacks his own perception, he will lose his color, and the text is eclipsed in front of this drama.
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