"Go to a Windy Place" heals not only because of the beautiful scenery, which makes people unconsciously immersed in it, but also because of the people in the story and those warm emotions.
All this good thing, like a cool wind, blew away the haze in our hearts, and along the way, not only healed the outsiders who sought healing, but also healed me who was chasing dramas in front of the computer.
Along the way, we have seen too many beautiful feelings -
Needless to say, Xie Zhiyao and Xu Hongdou's two-way love needless to say, they are mature and rational, forgiving and affectionate, from the unexpected encounter in the vast sea of people to the hand in hand in the future life, they are not only each other's best lovers, but also the best business partners for the rest of their lives.
The friendship between Aunt Gui and Aunt Feng moved me, although they always quarreled, every time Aunt Gui "showed off" herself, Aunt Feng had a disdainful expression, and Aunt Agui always poked Aunt Feng's lung tube, but for thirty years of wind and rain, they took care of each other, interpreting what it means to "friends walk together all their lives".
Little Hulu's filial piety touched me, although she is only a small person, but she has a big world hidden in her heart, and when she performed in kindergarten, she always wanted to stand in the C position, because in this way, she could get the approval of her grandparents and stay by her mother's side.
Aunt Feng and Uncle Chang's dedication to their son made people cry, over the years, they saved money, first to atone for their son's sins, and then to create a better life for their son, especially when Xie Qiang was released from prison, in order to help his son integrate into his new life, the scene of their banquet made people cry on the spot.
Of course, as the heroine, Xu Hongdou is very lucky, because she not only has a lover, friends, parents, and the best sister.
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Xu Hongdou said that her sister is a "stumbling block" on her life road, but we all know that in Xu Hongdou's heart, in fact, she has always regarded Xu Hongmi as her role model.
Because, as a sister, Xu Hongmi is too good.
From childhood to adulthood, Xu Hongmi has always been a role model for Xu Hongdou to learn from childhood to adulthood, and is the perfect girl in everyone's eyes, and Xu Hongdou has always been compared with her sister.
When he becomes an adult, Xu Hongmi is also a proper winner in life.
According to the secular point of view, Xu Hongmi married well, and her in-laws had many houses, which was enough to prove that the family was either rich or expensive, not only that, her husband loved her very much, and her mother-in-law respected her very much. From this point alone, Xu Hongmi is happier than most women.
Of course, Xu Hongmi is not a full-time wife, she also has her own career, which is Mr. Xu. That time, she took her child to find Xu Hongdou, but she still kept on the phone all day, and specially prepared two charging treasures, which was enough to prove how busy she was.
Of course, because she has always been a leader, no matter where she goes, Xu Hongmi is a proper strong woman style, with an aura of at least two meters eight, which makes people feel awe at first glance (if I were her subordinate, I would probably be silent every day, and I would not dare to pout).
Of course, here in Xu Hongmi, Xu Hongdou is not a leader, but the sister who loves her sister the most. Although she often "educated" Xu Hongdou, since she was a child, her love for her sister has never been absent; Although she said disgust, she was upright, and as long as her sister was in need, she would appear on time and give her sister the greatest help.
Say the cruelest words, express the softest concern.
In fact, to some extent, the relationship between Xu Hongdou and Xu Hongmi is not simply loving and killing sisters, but Xu Hongmi's love and care for her sister that has never changed.
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When she was a child, Xu Hongmi was the guardian of her sister's imagination.
We often say that the eldest brother is like a father, then for Xu Hongmi, it is a proper eldest sister like a mother.
Although there is no direct explanation in the play, from Xu Hongdou's memories, the two sisters grew up with their grandmother, because their mother was not around, Xu Hongmi consciously took on the role of mother.
When she was a child, Xu Hongdou was full of all kinds of imagination, in order to confirm her imagination, and in order to prove that she was not a half-person, when she heard that she could hatch chicks with eggs in her hands, she began to put it into practice, no matter where she went, she would hold eggs casually.
Even if he has something temporary, he will entrust this matter to his sister.
Sister Xu Hongmi was worried that her sister had broken the egg, so she replaced the raw eggs with cooked eggs while Xu Hongdou was looking for help with herself, so that Xu Hongdou would not break the eggs.
Not only that, Xu Hongmi also put Xu Hongbean's original raw eggs into the hen's nest.
When the time was about the same, Xu Hongmi "colluded" with her grandmother, told Xu Hongmi hens that they were only willing to bring their own hatched chicks, and then put away the cooked eggs, and when the hens hatched the chicks, they attributed everything to Xu Hongdou and named her the "hatching general".
We all know that children are the most imaginative, and their imaginative ideas are the background of their future life and part of their complete childhood.
In doing so, Xu Hongmi not only protected her sister's imagination, but also gave her a complete childhood.
Frankly speaking, even parents may not be able to do Xu Hongmi, after all, we who have become adults are always accustomed to thinking from our own perspective.
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Growing up, Xu Hongmi was a follower of her sister's emotions.
At the beginning, Xu Hongdou quietly resigned and went to Dali in order to empty his mood, but told his parents and sister that he was on vacation to travel.
But as an older sister, Xu Hongmi has long seen through her sister's "tricks", personally ran to the hotel where Xu Hongdou worked to inquire about everything, and has been paying attention to her sister in various ways.
That time, I received the flower cake sent by my sister, although Xu Hongmi did not say anything, but we could all see that she was really moved.
Later, Xu Hongmi made a special trip to Dali to "educate" her sister.
As Xie Zhiyao said, if she is just to educate her sister, she can solve it by calling, and there is no need to work so hard, after all, her work is so busy. Even if it comes out "tourist", that is, the phone calls are constant.
The reason for this is because Xu Hongmi knows that after adulthood, we have long been accustomed to reporting good news and not bad news, and only by seeing it with our own eyes can we know what kind of state our sister is.
It is obviously from the bottom of her heart to care, but she wants to deliberately put on a high posture and find such and such excuses, just because she does not want this matter to become a burden in her sister's heart.
So, because Xu Hongdou should go to Shanghai or Beijing, the sisters quarreled again, Xu Hongmi felt that Shanghai was good, and the sisters could take care of each other, but Xu Hongdou insisted on returning to Beijing, because it would be closer to her parents.
In fact, this is the truest state between many siblings - they miss each other when they don't meet, but when they really meet, they will pinch each other.
However, the relationship between brothers and sisters will not change because of these noises.
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Later, Xu Hongmi was a staunch supporter of Xu Hongdou's dream.
Through Dali's time together, Xu Hongdou already liked Xie Zhiyao, but at that time, she had been hovering between Beijing and Dali; Later, Xu Hongdou wanted to open a homestay, but she couldn't make up her mind.
His parents were older, and in order not to increase the psychological pressure on his parents, Xu Hongdou had to go to his sister at three o'clock in the middle of the night to discuss.
Although Xu Hongmi complained that Xu Hongdou woke her up, he still listened carefully to her thoughts: "Sister, you said that I started a business this time, if my relationship also collapses and my career is messed up, what should I do?" ”
Next, Xu Hongmi said a touching and profound word——
"You still have weapons that no one else has, sister."
"You can do whatever you want, don't live in the past, don't trust the future, do what you do, don't regret it, your sister supports you."
As a sister, Xu Hongmi knows that in fact, her sister has long made a choice, but in the face of an unknown life, she is still a little confused, so she needs encouragement to firm her ideas, as a sister, she must help her sister.
Moreover, even if my sister really fails, she still has to give her the bottom and be her dependency. Her own sister, although she has often bickered since she was a child, but if she really encounters problems, she must be spoiled and protected.
Some people say that a good boyfriend has a strong boyfriend power, but in Xu Hongmi, we see another kind of power - sister power.
I can't help but think of economist Xue Zhaofeng's words - in all family relationships, brothers and sisters accompany each other and support each other for the longest time, which is a gift from parents to their children, a generous gift.
When we were young, we had parents who spoiled us, and at a certain age, our parents left, our children grew up, and the only ones who could accompany you for the rest of your life were brothers and sisters in addition to your partner.
Because brothers and sisters are the greatest gift God has given us.
Screenshot of the TV series "Go to the Windy Place"
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