A writer once said that this is a time of lack of faith.
Being a person has no direction, always can't do things, has no ideas for work, and has no plan for the future, all of which happens to many people.
Some have called this situation the "Buddhist model." The so-called "Buddhist model" refers to the fact that the person's living state has completely become like a monk, and he is a monk for one day and hits a clock for one day.
In fact, this is a more "euphemistic" statement. No one is born to want to be "Buddhist", and most people have inner goals and pursuits. But then why they changed their original pursuits, this has to start from the real environment.
Modern people choose Buddhism because they can't see the hope of life. That is, they lack a positive orientation and thus sink into a negative state.
From a psychological and sociological point of view, the reason why human beings continue to reproduce and develop is that there is hope for generations of human beings.
In ancient times, in order to pass on the generations of people, they hoped that their families could prosper, so they worked at sunrise, rested at sunset, had more children, and cultivated more offspring.
In the same way, many young people who have not come out of society in modern times have hope for the future, so they have only studied hard for more than ten years, just for a blockbuster.
However, in the beating of society, most people will lose hope and let themselves feel the darkness of the future. In fact, the more at this time, the more we must improve these capabilities and turn things around.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="10" > when you feel powerless in life, you may as well let yourself "survive"</h1>
In "Tiger Howling Dragon Yin", Sima Yi once asked such a question, what exactly is "looking eastward"?
When Sima Yi experienced the suppression of Cao Cao and Cao Pi, Sima Yi suddenly understood that "looking east" was "time".
From Sima Yi's point of view, as long as he had enough life and time, then he would be able to survive those heroes and monarchs who were more powerful than him, so that he could accumulate sufficient strength to annex the Three Kingdoms in one fell swoop.
And the situation later, as he thought, "time" is the meaning of "looking east".
For us modern people, we overemphasize the success and failure of "short time", completely forgetting the meaning of "fighting for a long time without fighting for a while".
Life is like a track, and you and I in the track are runners. Those who can temporarily run ahead are not necessarily successful. But the one who can laugh to the end is the winner.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" > when you feel powerless in life, you may wish to improve your "inverse quotient"</h1>
In this society, many people emphasize "emotional intelligence" and "IQ", but only "reverse quotient" is forgotten by many people.
What is "inverse quotient"? It is a kind of faith and courage that can make people "swim against the current". Even if you are on the verge of failure, you can fight to keep your faith from falling.
What people are most afraid of is that after all, they have no "heart".
No matter what he has experienced, what he has faced, and what he has endured, he can stand like Tarzan, always confident and self-reliant, and always have a bright heart.
A Western entrepreneur whose company went bankrupt when he was fifty years old. However, he did not sink, but packed his mind and continued to start a business. Finally, at the age of fifty-five, he ushered in a new era in the industry.
In fact, life will bring us more or less blows, but whether this blow can make people go to heaven or make people go to hell, it depends on people's "anti-quotient".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="24" >when you feel hopeless in life, you might as well tell yourself that winning the last time is enough</h1>."
After Liu Bang established the Han Dynasty, Liu Bang said to his son: "I am still afraid of Xiang Yu, because I have lost to him ninety-nine times, and only won the last time." However, out of a hundred times, it doesn't matter if you lose ninety-nine times, it is enough to win the last time. ”
If you have 100 chances to win or lose in life, which one do you think is better to win?
Greedy people will choose to win 100 times. However, this is simply unrealistic. There is no one in this world who has a smooth life and wants to achieve things.
And smart people, they will only choose to win once, that is the last time.
Take the college entrance examination that happened some time ago, no one knows how many honors you have before the college entrance examination, and people only know what kind of results you have obtained in the college entrance examination. This is the success of a hammer transaction.
From the small exam to the journey of life, in fact, we have to establish a concept for ourselves, we can lose 99 times, but we have to win the last time. This time, do your best and don't spare your subordinates.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="32" > when you feel that life is hopeless, you may wish to do "do your best and obey the destiny"</h1>
This real life really makes people lose sight of the direction, and many people are lost in a stressful environment.
Young people can't afford to buy a house if they want to buy a house. To find good jobs, at least eighty percent of the people in this society do the cheapest, least worthwhile jobs and receive the least valuable wages.
At this time, what should people do best?
People can't change the environment, they can only change their own hearts. Accept the unacceptable, take on everything that needs to be borne, do your best, be worthy of conscience, and that's it.
The so-called "the upper is not ashamed of the sky, the lower is not ashamed of the earth." This is the best state of life for people.
As a person, you don't need to think too much, because it is useless to think too much. As a person, you don't need to worry too much, because if you worry too much, the reality will not change. In this way, if you do your best and obey the destiny of heaven, you will be worthy of life.
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