Inexplicably, the "truth" was discovered, and the "gray whale five" in "Even with the Wind" was all forced out-
The first is Tang Chen, admittedly, Shuobing's "betrayal" made his life fall to the bottom, but from the later plot, his boyfriend is actually unqualified, just the two have been in love for many years, but he doesn't even know about Shuobing's brother getting sick, which is somewhat unspeakable;
Zhu Ran, to some extent, this guy is a thief heart and no thief courage, because his own ability is not strong enough, he has to rely on his wife Huang Yirou, from pocket money to life, was controlled by Huang Yirou to death, in order to resist his wife, he thought about watching female anchors all day to find psychological comfort;
Hou Zhi, somewhat rebellious boy taste, as a real rich second generation, he is unwilling to accept the life arranged by his father, and he has a stalemate with his father, cutting off his expenses, when Tang Chen and Sha Zhou found him, it was when he was the most down, in order to prove himself to his father, he joined Tang Chen's company;
Bai Ying, once a pampered eldest lady, suddenly suffered a huge change in the family, her father was imprisoned, her mother remarried, she also lost her good life, had to go to the bar to sell alcohol, accidentally met Tang Chen and them, after hearing Tang Chen's plan, she immediately decided to join them.
Compared with the other four, Sha Zhou was completely "kidnapped", before joining "Gray Whale", he was a reporter for a magazine, although the salary was not high (frankly, as a turtle, it is really impossible to understand the statement that the character in the play 9,000 monthly salary is not high), but life is not shocked.
Under the influence of his friend Tang Chen and the pressure of his ex-wife Chen Yang, he reluctantly started his business.
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Frankly speaking, Sha Zhou before starting a business is the most ordinary appearance of most middle-aged men——
Sha Zhou works in a magazine, writes repetitive articles every day, receives the same salary every month, drinks tea every day, just reads the newspaper, this kind of life is also very comfortable.
As a middle-aged person, I can understand Sha Zhou, if I were a seventeen or eighteen-year-old teenager, I might hate such a life of seeing the head, but after reaching middle age, we fell in love with this kind of uneventful life.
After all, most middle-aged people live like this, and as long as there are no major changes in life, we will continue to live like this.
When people reach middle age, they have no choice but to soak goji berries in a thermos cup, and Shazhou is naturally no exception. Like us in reality, Sha Zhou is very frugal, even the number of grams of each goji berry, he strictly enforces it, and resolutely does not waste it.
Of course, Sha Zhou at that time also had his own regrets, that is, divorce, his son followed his ex-wife, and he could only see his son once a Saturday.
That day, he received a call from his ex-wife, asking him to pick up the child, he was so excited, he also specially bought toys for his son to send to school, seeing that the parents who picked up their children on both sides of the school were driving, Sha Zhou began to feel inferior, he wanted to take a taxi to send the child home, the child was also very sensible, insisting that his father ride an electric car to send him.
Although we know that this scene is a scene played by Tang Chen and Chen Yang, we can roughly guess that this is Sha Zhou's most real life, seeing the rich life of others, he will also be envious like us, but after envy, he chooses to lie flat again and continue the original unchanged life.
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At the beginning, I thought that Chen Yang was a woman who loved the poor and the rich, and the reason why she divorced Sha Zhou was because Sha Zhou couldn't make much money and couldn't give them the life they wanted.
Later, I found out that I had read it wrong.
Chen Yang works in a bank, usually contacts a lot of rich people, including many suitors, the two have been divorced for three years, but she has not remarried, in addition to the stumbling block of children, but also because of her heart, she has never put down the sand boat.
The reason why they divorced is because Chen Yang knows that Sha Zhou is very capable, but he has been trapped in his comfort zone and is unwilling to work hard, and she wants to stimulate Sha Zhou to make changes in this way.
Judging from the plot at the beginning, Chen Yang's method does not seem to have an effect, after the divorce, Sha Zhou still lived his life as a mess, still looking like a promise, in the unit, others drank his tea and goji berries, he just muttered a few times.
Under the design of Tang Chen and Chen Yang, Sha Zhou took out the education fund he left for his children to accompany Tang Chen to start a business, but this is also the cutest side of Sha Zhou's character, the reason why he is willing to break the cauldron and sink the boat, or want to gamble, so that the children and ex-wife can live a good life.
Of course, at this time, Sha Zhou has never let go of his ex-wife, and dreams of remarrying his ex-wife.
But this guy, lying flat in his career, is also like this in the relationship, obviously he cares very much, but seeing that his ex-wife deliberately took the man's arm in front of him, he pretended to be indifferent.
If it weren't for Tang Chen's encouragement, he might not even have the courage to follow.
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"Are you hob meat, beat you and don't fight back, scold you for not returning the mouth, you don't know how to make a sound with a needle on your body, you don't feel comfortable in your heart, you just follow it like this, you don't even have the courage to stand up, are you still a man?"
I have to say that at that time, Sha Zhou was really like A Dou who could not be supported, he quietly followed Chen Yang and was discovered, and in the face of Chen Yang's accusations, he immediately said that this was all Tang Chen and Hou Zhi's idea, and he was an accomplice at most.
"I hope you are the real murderer, and it can be considered that you have worked hard for the two of us, we have been together for so many years, it is always my initiative, you stay in your comfort zone, not moving."
But even if Chen Yang said this, Sha Zhou only advised Chen Yang not to establish relationships with others so quickly.
As a man, when I saw this scene, I almost didn't die in a hurry, obviously Chen Yang had already spoken to this, and he didn't hear Chen Yang's words.
After Chen Yang's affirmative reply, Sha Zhou finally came to life.
In order to expand the company's business, Zhou began to become a sand monk, driving online ride-hailing during the day to earn subsidies, and it was precisely because of this incident that he pulled the first business for the company.
Since then, Sha Zhou's fighting spirit has been awakened, especially in the case of Jiang Jiang's public relations, and his apology letter has played a crucial role.
The most important thing is that since he stepped out of his comfort zone, the whole person has a lot of spirit, and in the recently updated plot, he and Chen Yang finally remarried, a proper winner in life.
However, although Sha Zhou used to be a journalist, I always felt that this guy's way of thinking was somewhat more polytechnic, insulated from romance.
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When we were children, our teacher told us that it was not the mountains in the distance that stood in our way, but the gravel beneath our feet.
When I grew up, I understood that what really blocks us from moving forward is not the gravel under our feet, but our satisfaction with the current reality, and once people are trapped in such satisfaction, they will lose their motivation to move forward and will always be stuck in progress.
People themselves are inert, and if they stay in their perceived comfort zone, they will become more and more decadent. If inertia is allowed to spread and corrode, eventually people will completely lose control of life, even life.
It's okay when you're young, after all, everyone is working hard, even if we want to lie flat, we will be pushed by the environment.
But after people reach middle age, we lose our original sharpness and choose to lie flat, because "everyone is like this", but we forget that others lie flat because they have the capital to lie flat, and they stay in their comfort zone because it is really comfortable, but we can't -
The dream of youth has not yet been realized, the once distant place is still far away, if you live like this to the age of sixty, it is a pity to look at it.
When our ability is not worthy of a comfortable life, enjoying comfort in advance is overdrawing the benefits of future life, which will only make our next road more and more difficult.
Choosing to lie flat too early will only polish the sharp edges and corners that we were born with, and polish them smoothly and almost perfectly. So the days are always spent in the comfort zone, no challenges and no passion. The original loneliness is gone, and life is boring.
No matter what age we are, we must hold on to the corners, free ourselves from the quagmire of comfort, explore new things, challenge new unknowns, always toss, and always tears.
Because as soon as you step out of your comfort zone, you will see a whole new world. At least, when we look back in the future, we won't regret that we wasted time.
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