Mo Dao's red dust is bitter, and all sentient beings are like this.
Author: Insight Annabésu
Some people say that in the Taobao live broadcasting industry, Wei Ya and Li Jiaqi each account for one point, and the rest are divided equally by many large and small anchors.
How powerful is Via, who is known as the "Queen of Live Broadcasting"?
She helped Yuan Longping promote rice and sold 860,000 catties in 1 minute.
Live selling houses, 814 sets in 20 minutes...
The live broadcast room sells rockets, 40 million rocket launch rights, one second is sold out...
Wei Ya, who is fierce and never stops, always shows people with the image of "strong woman" and "perpetual motion machine", and the heartache and difficulty of being an ordinary mother are often easily ignored by others.
Once, Via cried in the live room.
In the interval between live broadcasts, she received a text message from her daughter, who said that every child had a mother to pick up when school was over, but I didn't have it, and everyone had a mother's company, so I didn't.
"I rarely see you."
The daughter's grievances and doubts made the strong woman cry on the spot.
This experience of Wei Ya was told as a paragraph by Li Xueqin, a talented woman of Peking University, in the recent "Spit Conference".
Li Xueqin humorously teased Via:
"I saw the news that you broke down in the live broadcast room because you couldn't accompany your daughter, but I also heard that you earned 2 billion a year.
Live broadcasting is so profitable, sell miserably to others. ”
Some netizens said that it is worthy of being the hegemon of Peking University, and it is easy to poke the truth of the adult world between laughter.
Not to mention how much money is made, which job in this world is not hard?
01
Some time ago, Zhang Dada asked Yang Mi in a show why Yang Mi would laugh when she saw the video of herself crying and weeping at the celebration banquet saying that the past two months had been very hard.
Not only that, later when he posted a long article in the circle of friends about the hardships of this period, Yang Mi only replied with a question mark.
Zhang Dada was very aggrieved, and Yang Mi first smiled and said, "I replied to you that I had seen it." ”
Then he said a paragraph that made Zhang Dada fall silent.
"You look down and see, everybody is hard.
Aren't the people who deliver takeaways hard, and isn't it hard for the staff to squat here with us for half a day?
They are all ordinary people, each has its own difficulties, and everyone is very hard, so why do you want others to understand your hardships? ”
From obscurity to brilliance, perhaps Yang Mi has also experienced the various difficulties of the industry, and in reality, after a long time of groping, Yang Mi has lived very transparently.
Because of suffering, so considerate, because of understanding, so silent.
I remember that in the early years, Guo Degang and Yang Mi had a conversation: "You were beaten when you were a child, right?" ”
Yang Mi nodded, saying that he was young at that time and could not act in crying, and the director slapped her several times in public.
"Maybe it just can't meet his requirements, the director personally slapped, and hit the body, there are."
Guo Degang listened to a sigh: "It's not easy to be an actor!" ”
Yang Mi smiled indifferently: "What is easy?" ”
A simple rhetorical question tells the fundamental truth of the world.
Stars have the troubles of stars, and ordinary people have the difficulties of ordinary people.
All the seemingly glamorous professions, the pain behind the scenes is unknown.
In this world, no one is not hard, but no one shouts pain.
No job is not hard, and no one's life is easy.
In the life of an adult, there is bitterness and forbearance everywhere that grits your teeth and does not cry.
02
This time I went home for the New Year and met with Fa Xiao.
After a closer chat, I learned that her e-commerce company has opened several branches, luxury houses and luxury cars, and the children attend a private kindergarten with a tuition fee of tens of thousands of dollars a year.
In 7 years, she and her husband started from scratch, step by step to today, still dare not have the slightest slack, half of the meal, received a call and hurried to the warehouse.
Others saw her brilliance, but I knew her wretchedness.
When she gave birth to the second eldest, no one took the child, she just came out of confinement and took the child to the office, handling complaints alone, answering the phone, eating and living in the company.
When the child was slightly older, she was sent to kindergarten with a fierce heart, and the older child did not want to leave his mother, and he had to cry every time he went to school.
Sometimes there was a need for deliveries, there were not enough workers, and a weak woman rolled up her sleeves and got into the car to start helping unload.
Some people say that she just caught up with the outlet of e-commerce, and some people say that she did this line of work and came to money quickly.
Everyone sees the brilliance of her profession, but they don't know the blood and sweat behind her.
Just like that very classic story, white-collar workers envy the idleness of freelancers, and full-time housewives envy white-collar career stability.
The part-time worker envies the company owner, but the company owner is thinking about when he can sleep like a freelancer until he wakes up naturally and eats a meal quietly.
There is a saying: "There is no good job in the world that has more money and less work, and all walks of life have their own sufferings and tiredness." ”
Behind all the successes and brilliance, there are unknown hardships.
Where you can't see it, everyone has their own puzzles and dilemmas.
After all, hard work is the most fundamental background of life, and there is never an easy word in the adult world.
03
I once watched such a video, when the video shooter came out at 11:30 p.m., the street was still full of people, the traffic kept shuttling, and everyone on the street kept walking.
At 00:50, the vendors at the night market were still busy, "It will be more than 4 a.m. when we finish work." ”
At 02:00, the little brother of the substitute driver was still napping in the car, waiting for the next order, "In order to earn money to support the family, isn't it all like this?" ”
At 03:12, the sprinkler truck began to work and the cleaners began to sweep the streets.
At 05:00 a.m., the breakfast stall was ready and the day was busy.
Who are these people who are struggling for their lives, and whose fathers and mothers are they?
They have no time to sell miserable lives, and they have no time to lament the unfairness of fate, because only by working hard can the family's livelihood be settled.
For the sake of life, who does not bravely move forward while being full of wind and rain?
Someone was on the go for a day, exhausted, lying down in a convenience store and falling asleep.
Someone who was so sleepy in the middle of the night that he couldn't do it, he slapped himself hard, he said, "These are all commonplace..."
Some people work alone in the city, and on their birthdays, they can only spend their birthdays on the bus with cake in their hands.
They are salesmen, truck drivers, white-collar workers, they are different industries, but the heartache is the same. Mo Dao's red dust is bitter, and all sentient beings are like this.
Everyone's work is very hard, and everyone is gritting their teeth to hide their heartache, straightening up and continuing to hurry.
We were busy every day, running around, just for a few pieces of silver.
It is this piece of silver that can straighten our spine in the changing years.
Life sword light sword shadow, money is our protective armor.
So, when you can make money, don't sell miserably.
Because you never know that when you complain that you don't have shoes to wear, many people may have already lost their feet.
When you are in the depths of the mire, others are like the abyss.
No one is easier than anyone, just look at who can carry it better than anyone.
This is the greatest truth of life in the adult world.
04
There is a line in the Korean drama "Unborn":
"No matter how early I greet this morning, there will be people on this road, but I think others are still asleep." But at any time, the world is one step ahead of me. ”
In this world, everyone is moving forward fast, everyone is on their own path, and who talks to whom is hard is not qualified.
That's why we should spend our time on progress, not on selling misery, because you're not alone in your tears.
You just have to stop complaining, set your sights firm, and try to move up.
As there is a saying:
"You can never climb a mountain for the rest of your life, but there must be a mountain in your heart, which makes you always climb high, so that whenever you look up, you can always see hope." 」
If you want to get something, you must first pay equal or even redouble your efforts to change.
Work is inevitably hard, life is inevitably difficult, do not complain, do not sell misery.
Life has occasional shadows, but it is not worth fearing, because you are standing in the light.
Click like it, for the self who is struggling, for the self who has never given up, to add oil and cheer.