元旦一过，本该喜气洋洋；
But the various information that has recently brushed the screen always carries a hint of heaviness.
当 #运动员王一博先生去世# ，突然冲上了热搜第一时，多少人遗憾：
What should have been a brilliant and colorful life came to an abrupt end on a 27-year-old winter night.
He is a post-95, Chinese curler.
14岁，同龄人还在嬉笑打闹的年纪，王一博先生就早早接触了冰壶，进入哈尔滨体育运动学校，开始系统性的学习。
Day after day of training, a full 8 years, finally sharpened the teenager into calm and firm.
At the age of 22, Wang Yibo entered the curling team training of Harbin Winter Training Center as he wished.
The following year, he achieved an impressive result – winning the National Curling Championship.
He then became a trial athlete at the center, winning the second and third championship trophies.
There is no doubt that as an athlete, he has a bright record, a bright future, and a bigger stage.
But as Liu Heng wrote in "Black Snow":
The fate of people is like snowflakes falling in the sky, they are originally white and flawless, but they cannot choose where they fall.
Pain always comes from nowhere.
年仅27岁，正值当打之年的运动员王一博，却在今年7月查出了脑炎。
During this period, he actively cooperated with the treatment and Ben was discharged from the hospital.
Unexpectedly, his condition suddenly worsened, and in November this year, it deteriorated sharply.
The illness was relentless and constantly tormented his body and mind, but he never gave in.
In the past, when I played a match, I fought with people; Now lying in a hospital bed, it is a struggle with heaven.
Every moment he survived was a victory for him.
可，病魔毫不讲理，运动员王一博身体每况愈下。
Finally, at one o'clock in the morning of December 25, the rescue was ineffective and left the world forever.
Chen Zhongzhong wrote in "Live Well":
A person's life is a long list of life experiences... Once you get through it, earn it, and an important turn begins. Start a new brilliant journey. Live well, live and there is hope.
Many times, we don't know which will come first tomorrow or the unexpected.
Life in the world, except for life and death, everything else is considered abrasion.
There was once a video that was played online nearly 10 million times.
On the Wuhan subway, a young post-90s mother, despite the gazes of others, cried against the railing on the side of the platform.
The staff was afraid of accidents and came to her with water and tissues.
In the process of pacification, I learned that it turned out that her child was seriously ill.
The family's wealth is scattered, and the debts are high, only to exchange for the child's life;
But despite all she had, the child's condition worsened day by day, and she never got out of the dangerous period.
The collapse was only in an instant, she cried so hard that she couldn't stand steadily, and said desperately: "I really can't bear it!" ”
But after all, it is flesh and blood, and if you can't bear it, you have to carry it.
In the face of life and death, she has no way back except to grit her teeth and insist.
Similar helplessness has been repeated thousands of times in reality.
In a ward filled with the smell of disinfectant water, a kidney transplant patient wakes up after surgery and stares blankly at the ceiling.
The wife stood in front of the hospital bed, saw her husband wake up, and rushed forward as soon as possible.
Unexpectedly, the husband who had just walked through the ghost gate was the first thing he said:
"Do we still have money?"
Life, life, which is more important?
Sometimes, even the cost of living has to be carefully calculated.
Snow is a cute little girl, but fate treats her harshly, and she is diagnosed with osteosarcoma at a young age.
At the age of 13, she has been hospitalized 29 times.
To heal her illness, she had her thigh bone removed and four steel bars applied, but it didn't end there. In addition to the pain of drilling the heart, the slightest mistake will also cause inflammation and high fever.
Snooker was much more mature than her peers, and no matter how the illness afflicted her, she always gritted her teeth and never cried.
Because, she didn't want her mother to worry.
It was so painful that she asked her mother to stand at the door.
"Come in after I'm done crying, let me vent in my heart."
The stumbling at the time of life and death makes people more vulnerable, but it also makes people stronger.
Yu Juan, 32, a female teacher at Fudan University, is also a new mother with a 14-month-old child.
One night, she went to the supermarket to buy milk and accidentally sprained her waist.
I thought it was a trivial matter, but I didn't expect to be able to get up directly the next day.
Yu Juan thought that it was a muscle strain, massage, acupuncture, and plaster, but it did not improve.
She never expected that she would draw a bad hand - cancer bone metastasis.
The condition worsens quickly.
Two weeks ago, she was still bouncing alive, jumping rubber bands with her son;
After two weeks, she could only linger on her sick bed, unable to get out of bed, turn over, eat, and even urinate uncontrollably.
"Man waiting to die." That's how she describes herself.
Around New Year's Day, Yu Juan was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer.
At the end of her sixth chemotherapy treatment, her 19-month-old son sang and coaxed her:
"Only a mother is good in the world, and a child with a mother is like a treasure."
Yu Juan couldn't stop crying, her child, almost a little, was about to turn into grass.
"I even thought, even if it makes me so painful, so painful that I can't move, like a paralyzed person every day, lying on the intersection of Guotai Road and Zhengli Road with dirt and dirt, and letting thousands of people scold and trample on it, as long as I can watch my parents holding the hands of potatoes and jumping to kindergarten, I am also willing."
On the last journey of her life, Yu Juan wrote a sentence in "This Life Is Not Completed":
How much it takes us to recognize the meaning of living.
The hospital is the intersection of life and death.
Every day, the most tragic joys and sorrows are staged.
Some people have lost their loved ones at an age when they do not know whether they are alive or dead.
Outside the cremation room, a one-and-a-half-year-old girl squatted silently in the corridor, her eyes were innocent, looking at the crowd coming and going, not noisy or noisy.
When asked about her, she replied, "I'll wait for my mother to come out." ”
Outside the ICU ward, a woman knelt from dusk to early morning, and at four o'clock in the middle of the night, she still maintained the same posture.
Holding a booklet in his hand, he kept chanting prayers.
Because in the face of life and death, the only thing she can do is to pray for fate to raise her noble hand.
In Japan, a doctor engaged in hospice care, after experiencing the consummation of 1,000 patients, found -
"People's regrets before dying are similar, and almost everyone is saying: I didn't live well when I was healthy."
When we grow up, we gradually understand that birth, old age, illness and death are the most common and powerless reality in the world.
But as Wang Xiaobo said:
"We can't decide how to live and how to die, but we can decide how to love and live."
And we are about to enter the new year, just want to say -
2023, live well.
Eat well, sleep well, make good money, and love yourself well.
Do what you want to do, talk about a relationship you want to fall into, stay healthy, and go on a long-planned trip.
Cherish the people around you, see those trivial and ordinary daily life, and pay attention to your health.
Do not shed tears for unworthy things, do not lose sleep for unworthy people.
Life may not be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think.