#头条创作挑战赛#
Author: Liang Xia (rich book author)
At the end of March, CCTV's hit drama "The Wind Chaser" became popular and frequently appeared on hot searches, causing heated discussions on the whole network.
The TV series tells the story of the financial genius Wei Ruolai played by Wang Yibo in the 30s of the 20th century, working in the Central Bank of the Kuomintang, witnessing the dark reality of the society in which the high-level was greedy for money and constantly looting the people's fat and ointment, and gradually found the direction of life and plunged into the process of revolutionary history.
On the one hand, there is a tense stock market battle, on the other hand, there is a fierce spy war struggle, and the fast and ruthless plot setting makes the adrenaline continue to soar.
Now, "The Wind Chaser" has ushered in the finale, and many viewers have commented: The second exquisite Republic of China period drama after "The Awakening Age".
These 6 sentences in the play see through human nature, condense wisdom, and make you sober in the world after reading it.
People don't need you,
It's because you don't have enough value in you
In "The Wind Chaser", there are two words that run almost throughout: value.
Wei Ruolai went to the central bank for an interview for the first time, because the red background was brushed, and his uncle said:
"People don't use you because your value is not enough, and if your value is enough, it doesn't matter what your resume and experience are. ”
How can a person escape the definition of "value" if he lives for a lifetime.
As soon as he was born, he was placed on the scale of "value", what kind of job his parents had, whether the family had money, whether he had a background;
When you have good grades in school, your teachers and classmates greet you with smiles, and if you don't get good grades, you are the representative of bad students in the class;
The "value" balance after work is salary, social status, network resources, and so on.
There is a proverb: "If you have a high-headed horse tied in front of the door, you will not come in person, but you will also be a pro, and there will be a begging stick in front of the door, and relatives and friends will not come to the door." ”
Your value determines your status in the eyes of others, don't complain that others look down on you, think about what you can make others look down on.
Don't deliberately look for the ethereal wind, use the moment to find the wind to plant green trees, and when the green shade is like a cover, there will naturally be a breeze for you to enjoy.
Instead of going to great lengths to find connections and manage your network, invest your time in yourself.
When you're strong enough and your light is shining brightly, they'll all come closer to you.
You can learn slowly, you have to quit greed, and you have to control your desires
What are the most important qualities to work in the financial industry?
When Wei Ruolai was first admitted by the Central Bank as Shen Tunan's assistant, the neighbors of Qibao Street congratulated him, and the poor boy flew into the Phoenix Nest.
Uncle said: "If you come, when you go to the bank, you can learn your skills slowly, remember to quit greed, and control your desires."
In the financial industry, you don't make more money than anyone else, you don't make money faster than anyone else, you have to live longer than anyone else. ”
Seeing the endless money spent in a lifetime, countless gold bars, these possessions are close at hand, and you can resist the temptation to go long.
We ordinary people don't see as much money as the financial industry, but we also face a lot of challenges to our desires.
Some people excessively pursue material comforts, and if they can't afford to pay, they borrow Huabei to consume in advance, and these material consumption puts him in a predicament;
Some people oversatisfy their appetites, and they say that "life is for a mouth", and they ignore the reduced metabolism and physical burden;
When losing weight, I often hear a sentence: when people are not full, there is only one trouble, and after eating, there will be countless troubles.
When losing weight, you can control your mouth and lose more than half of your weight;
People live for a lifetime, can control their desires, and succeed in most of their lives.
Shakespeare said, "Desire is like a fire of coals, and it must be cooled, or the fire will scorch the heart." ”
Lust has two sides and can bring joy and motivation as well as pain and disaster.
While pursuing desires, maintain sanity and self-discipline to avoid being controlled by desires.
People can seek advantages and avoid disadvantages,
But we must not forget what is right
There is a saying in "The Analects of Liren": "The gentleman is virtuous, the villain is virtuous, the villain is virtuous, the gentleman is punished, and the villain is benevolent." ”
A gentleman has morality and law, while a villain is only concerned with personal self-interest and favor.
In our lives, we should stay away from those who are profit-seeing.
Some people call you brothers and sisters on the surface, but in fact they are cold and ruthless on the inside.
They greet you with a smile when you are proud, but draw a line with you when you are disappointed.
Their purpose in associating with you is only to profit from you, and once you lose your usefulness, they will not hesitate to leave you.
Those who see profit and forget righteousness will not get real friends, and they will offend people, and everyone will avoid them.
People who treat each other sincerely and abide by the bottom line of morality will earn respect.
In the play, Lin Qiaosong wanted to use Wei Ruolai as a breakthrough to catch Shen Tunan's tail, but under coercion and temptation, Wei Ruolai did not forget his righteousness and never revealed Shen Tunan.
And Shen Tunan, through Wei Ruolai's performance in prison, saw clearly that this person was worthy of deep friendship, so after Wei Ruolai was released from prison, when everyone persuaded Shen Tunan to dismiss Wei Ruolai, he accepted Wei Ruolai as a disciple.
There are very few such two-way feelings in our lives, and what we can do is: we can pursue the advantages and avoid the disadvantages, but we cannot cross the bottom line.
As the saying goes: If you come, you will gather, and if you go, you will disperse.
There are too many forks in the road in life, most people can only walk with us for a while, and gathering and dispersing are the norm.
To avoid getting hurt, don't expect too much from humanity and don't overestimate your relationship with anyone.
Don't probe into other people's privacy, but also protect your own privacy, put your heart into your heart to divide people, and don't hand the sharp knife that stabs you to the villain.
What determines the outcome is an off-board move
What does "off-the-shelf" mean?
Victory or defeat is not determined by actual performance in the game, but by taking advantage of imperfections in the rules or taking advantage of loopholes in the rules, the so-called "off-board moves".
In the play, Shen Tunan and Yu Shiqing fought a trade war over the central bank's acquisition of the Communications Bank, and in the end Shen Tunan won, he used "off-board moves" to find the weakness of the other party and attack desperately, while not letting the other party find his weaknesses.
People who watch NBA games in the United States know that the NBA allows players to commit 5 fouls during the game, and they try to use the fouls on the blade, which is an off-the-board move on the court.
"The Art of War" mentions: "The first army is to fight, the second is to fight, the second is to attack the army, and then the next is to attack the city." ”
Julius Caesar adopted surprising tactics in the Gallic Wars, and was good at using natural conditions such as terrain and weather to conquer Gaul and Britain.
The thinking of "off-the-board moves" can also be used in life, where the momentary wins and losses and honors are not important, overcome or avoid defects, consider the longer-term future, and laugh to the end to be the winner.
In addition to hard power, we must be good at using wisdom and skills, pay attention to details and strategies, and be invincible.
It is better for the brave to be wise than to seek it, and it is better to use strength to win it than to plan for it.
People do not despise young people,
There is no detour to take
Wei Ruolai was trading for the first time, shorting Xingxia Bank, he was too confident, enthusiastic, and forceful, regardless of the dissuasion of the people around him, he seemed to be strategizing when trading, but in fact he lost his mind and suffered heavy losses.
Shen Tunan said: "People are not reckless teenagers, and there must be no detours to be taken. ”
Wei Ruolai is undoubtedly a financial genius, and it is the best way to analyze Shen Tunan's ideas and plans from the outside, but it is another thing to get started by himself, and there is a difference between theory and practice.
You have to walk the detour to know how to go around, and you have to hit the south wall yourself to know the pain.
The rivers on the map are curves, detours are the norm in nature, and life is the same as rivers, and frustration and tribulation are the norm.
A tortuous road may be full of falls and encounters with walls, but if you have not fallen, how can you know the essentials of walking steadily? If you have not touched the barriers, how can you see the right direction in the next choice?
Lu Xun studied medicine in Japan when he was young, and the slides in the class showed the Japanese killing Chinese, and the Chinese students laughed and watched the excitement, which made him realize that the mental numbness of the Chinese people is more terrible than the physical weakness.
The detour of studying medicine made Lu Xun realize the humiliation of the "sick man of East Asia" and accelerated his determination to save China.
If it's too smooth, it's not necessarily a good thing.
When you take a detour, you will see a different scenery and a constantly improving self, and you will taste the ups and downs, taste the pain, and be able to cherish the sweetness and see the road clearly.
Sanmao once said: "The road of life must be measured by one's own feet, and only independent choices can achieve an extraordinary journey." ”
Go your own way, make your own choice, young people are not afraid of detours, go through detours, think about it repeatedly, carry on the past and forge ahead into the future, and are not afraid of hardships and dangers.
The talented people of ancient and modern times are all defeated by pride,
If you want to win, you must be able to afford to lose
Sometimes we ask "why":
Why did I work so hard to study, but the outcome was so unsatisfactory?
Why did I pursue my dreams with all my passion, only to end up with nothing and debts?
Some people feel sorry for themselves because of this, thinking that fate is unfair to them, and once they are frustrated, they feel hopeless in this life.
However, there are also people who choose to be indomitable, and although life is difficult, they never give up.
Years later, you will see that the former are still complaining about the world and achieving nothing, while the latter have often succeeded in fighting back and facing life's challenges with more determination.
Wei Ruolai failed to operate for the first time, and Shen Tunan gave him an analysis of the reasons for the failure:
"You are not underestimating your opponent, but you are overestimating yourself, you are just a mortal, you are not three-headed and six-armed, and you are not omnipotent.
You have to remember that the talented people in ancient and modern times are all defeated by pride, and if you want to win, you must first be able to afford to lose. ”
Those who can afford to lose will only lose for a while, and those who cannot afford to lose will lose for the rest of their lives.
Those who cower because they are afraid of failure will eventually lose the confidence to overcome difficulties, lose their peace of mind without arrogance or impatience, and at the same time give up the infinite hope of counterattack in life.
Winning or losing is only part of the process, what really matters is how we face setbacks and how we start anew with an unyielding attitude.
People should have two realms: one is to dare to abandon the old and start from scratch, and the other is to be able to accept imperfection and pursue a better future with an unfinished mentality.
Not afraid of wind and rain, fearless of failure, no matter when, no matter where, I hope you can face the loss frankly and win back.
I like a sentence in "The Wind Chaser":
"Only by going through it, reflecting on it, and thinking about it can we crawl out of the ruins of the so-called faith, and can we cherish a glimmer of light in the darkness more. ”
Life is a journey of self-discovery.
Every experience, whether successful or unsuccessful, is a catalyst for your spiritual growth.
Struggling in the ruins of faith, you learn to be resilient and courageous, and groping in the dark, you cherish the faint light even more.
Every mountain and river you have crossed, and every lesson you have learned, have jointly built your unique growth trajectory.
Life, the journey of self-discovery, is full of meaning at every step, and every choice has made you who you are today.
May you be brave on your journey.
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